What made you suddenly lose interest in someone you were pursuing?
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise1 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
That's true. She totally kept me inside.1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .1 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.
Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.
Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.
Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.
Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.
I knew there was someone you reminded me of Swanny.. it's Peter Griffin!
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Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .
How is this possible? Is everyone born with a certain level of talent for kissing and that's all they and their partner can ever hope for, or expect?
I call shenanigans. No way this is true. People can get better at just about anything.
I think kissing has other pieces involved besides ability...thin lips/thick lips, big tongue/little tongue, funky teeth/ no teeth, previous partners kissing style...and those things can effect how compatible you are as a kisser...so maybe compatibility not ability0 -
Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .
How is this possible? Is everyone born with a certain level of talent for kissing and that's all they and their partner can ever hope for, or expect?
I call shenanigans. No way this is true. People can get better at just about anything.
I think everyone has a style, and most people prefer their partner to have the same or similar style.
People can adjust their style to suit their partner. But some people don't or won't adjust and they become the "bad kisser".
Or they go in crazy from the beginning, and try to gnaw on your chin or something..... to me, that's a bad kisser. And there is no coming back from that.1 -
You feel it in his kiss... always in his kiss.1
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »You feel it in his kiss... always in his kiss.
That's where it is. Oh yeah
Gonna have that song stuck in my head now..... lol0 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.
Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.
Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.
I knew there was someone you reminded me of Swanny.. it's Peter Griffin!
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They were the same kind of crazy as me and I’m sorry but one of us needs to be stable, not it!1
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He bossed me2
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Hateful comments about people or lacking empathy.1
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I'm gettin' too old for this *kitten*.
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You both better duck before you get the blind reach behind back hand!1 -
Looked in her 2nd drawer down where everyone keeps the special panties and they were all Granny Panties clean and new but still!0
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