Things that make a man instantly hotter

What about nunchuck and computer hacking skills?

....Dwight Schrute?

An English/British, whatever you wanna call it accent, "usher dips" (those muscle lines leading to the goods), and non-crappy tattoos!

- good credit score
- close to retirement (but not close to social security)
- healthy 401K

what?.

adorable smile

great personality

caring

All I've ever wanted was a chubby obedient one... and now I've got him, and all is good

Oddly enough...I'm chubby (yes, still...you all don't see what I see lol) and obedient...and my girlfriend thinks I'm hot, and says I make all the decisions.

Go figure?

Being a good dad

Right now, kindness would be a HUGE plus for me.

Being a good dad.

Not a cheating *kitten*...
And has to take care of their teeth.

Again I say...aren't these things just a given?

Do most guys really suck so badly that women have to specify loyalty and being a successful father as traits that make a guy hotter lol?

a job

HAHAHAHA!

Being a good dad.

Not a cheating *kitten*...
And has to take care of their teeth.

Again I say...aren't these things just a given?

Do most guys really suck so badly that women have to specify loyalty and being a successful father as traits that make a guy hotter lol?

Haha, I meant it as a guy can be really hot and you can already be head over heels for him but the second you see him with a child, something changes and the hotness is elevated to an entirely different level!

Ok that makes total sense lol. Long story, but something like that was explained to me today...oddly enough by the young lady that started the thread lol.

I guess good Dads CAN be ultra hot.

Lucky for me =p.

I disagree with the whole "Relationships take work" thing,,, I don't see it that way.

Life takes work, careers take work, serving on a church committee or burying a parent or building a birdhouse take work. A good relationship is the respite, the safe place you go to recover and rest and be nourished and get back some of what you've put out.

I could be wrong, I dunno. I've only been married 24 years. Maybe next year it will start to be work.

Congrats on 24 years. I'm glad you don't see your relationship as work. I guess we could call it something else....effort? I have seen women complain that their SO doesn't ever compliment them any more, or do special things for them, etc. I have seen men complain that their SO doesn't dress up for them any more or do anything nice for them. That's what I meant by work. To many men and women both feel like after your married or been in a long relationship, that those things don't matter anymore. I do feel like I work at my marriage. I enjoy doing it but I put in the time to make him feel special, loved and wanted. He does too. He stills brings me a cup of coffee every morning after 3 years. That's what I meant by work, remembering to still make an effort.

Military style haircuts. Bald guys are hot too! :glasses:

Total turn-offs for me include: facial hair and rough hands and no hair on their head.

The opposite if true for turn-ons.

The ability to laugh at himself

I should be SMOKIN' hot then, as I tend to be the source of the majority of my daily laughter !

who says you're not....

although making the cat where a hat is just all sorts of wrong lol

a man who knows what he is doing and knows how to do it!!!! (if you know what i mean) :smokin:

what do you mean?

If i have to explain it then i guess you don't have this quality....just sayin :laugh:

You set yourself up for that one!!