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  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
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    debrakgoogins wrote: »
    Versicolour wrote: »
    I hate doing housework and will do anything I can to avoid it

    I have dozens of unfinished projects and dozens more in the planning stages

    Once a month I get really needy and insecure

    I think we are long lost twins. Your father wasn't named "Paul" was he?

    😂 We're soul twins!
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
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    Red flag...
    If he borrows your car and returns it with almost no gas, a half empty sugary coffee cup with overspill all in the cup holder, crumbs from who knows what all over the drivers seat, and dirty napkins thrown on the passages seat...
    ...I took the napkins, swept up the crumbs, took the coffee cup, the fast food bag and placed them on the driver's seat of his truck, clearly he wanted to keep them
  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
    edited October 2018
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    If he checks his phone every few minutes while on a date.
    If he only talks about himself and not really interested in anything you have to say.

    ETA:
    A red flag of mine - I like to drink (especially wine). Any day of the week or time of day is perfectly acceptable to me (except at work or if I'm driving of course). :#

  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
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    If he takes you to a nice restaurant but then questions the server as to why 18% gratuity is automatically added to the bill.

    Red Flag that he's probably too broke to be there or just plain cheap.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    I dated this really sweet women that was also a communist. She had so many red flags.

    :# true. I have so many red flags. And. Communism.

    A communist joke isn't funny.
    Unless everyone gets it.

    I once got a strike on here for calling Canadians communists.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
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    Red flag: if he starts using pet names way too early on. Bruh, I ain't "your love", we haven't even had a date yet. Slow your muthatruckin role.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    Red flag: if he starts using pet names way too early on. Bruh, I ain't "your love", we haven't even had a date yet. Slow your muthatruckin role.

    Babykins, why you gotta be all harsh on my pet names, my Schmoopiness?
  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
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    CanesGalactica wrote: »
    I feel that this belongs here.

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    Might be a lot of fun...

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  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
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    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I'm picky

    I don't ask for help even when I need it, stubborn I guess

    I overthink things so I need someone to be straightforward

    Mexican food tends to solve many issues... ;)
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    Its a huge red flag for me if a guy doesn’t treat his mom with respect. Obviously there can be extenuating circumstances here, but it generally holds true.

    Also a guy who never has plans without me. Go do stuff, fool. I need a night in to take a two hour bath. 😏

    One of my red flags? I don’t really know. Sometimes I’m just not in the mood to talk. Maybe I’d rather watch stupid YouTube conspiracies or play sudoku. If you find that unnerving and question me about why I’m ‘ignoring’ you or ‘don’t care’ about you, it’ll go down a rabbit hole I won’t have the energy to follow you down. You’re not my everything. I better not be yours 😬
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Its a huge red flag for me if a guy doesn’t treat his mom with respect. Obviously there can be extenuating circumstances here, but it generally holds true.

    Also a guy who never has plans without me. Go do stuff, fool. I need a night in to take a two hour bath. 😏

    One of my red flags? I don’t really know. Sometimes I’m just not in the mood to talk. Maybe I’d rather watch stupid YouTube conspiracies or play sudoku. If you find that unnerving and question me about why I’m ‘ignoring’ you or ‘don’t care’ about you, it’ll go down a rabbit hole I won’t have the energy to follow you down. You’re not my everything. I better not be yours 😬

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  • Mean_Spice
    Mean_Spice Posts: 279 Member
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    I get very withdrawn at times (for weeks and sometime months)
  • ams33316
    ams33316 Posts: 1 Member
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    -unsure about making decisions on my own
    -care WAY to much
    -people pleaser

    red flags
    -when he asks you to move with him in the first month
    -when he lies about the meds hes taking and they turn out to be molly and when confronted he starts hitting his head against the wall (should have ran as far as i could from this one)
    -when his mom is still calling his teachers to fix problems (he was in college)
    -when ever time there is an issue he doesnt want to deal with and he responds with ill tell my mom she will deal with it
    -when almost everytime you have an argument he offers killing himself as a solution


  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
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    I am very intense. Thats not for everyone.
  • newmeadow
    newmeadow Posts: 1,295 Member
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    If all your ex wives and ex common laws were heiresses and corporate executives with MBAs
    *and*
    all your former consorts on the down low were waitresses, hat check girls and casino employees - that's a red flag flyin' high on the pole.
  • newmeadow
    newmeadow Posts: 1,295 Member
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    Once you realize my socio economic status is incongruent with the potential you imagine I have, you might want to red flag me or at least get an iron clad prenup.

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