Red Flags
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A never ending list of superficial red flags of no consequence... sends up a red flag.7
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If he won't ugly eat takeout right out of the box with me in bed... he's not the one
ETA... this is meant for the deal breaker thread 😋4 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »If he won't ugly eat takeout right out of the box with me in bed... he's not the one
ETA... this is meant for the deal breaker thread 😋
Note to myself, always eat the box.1 -
If a guy posts alot of selfies. It tells me one of two things:
1) He's self centered/conceited/narcissistic
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2) He has low self esteem. He doesn't get much female attention in his real life so he posts pics online where lots of people gas his head up.
I realize we live in a selfie culture but if you have a life, why are you posting pics of yourself online all day? 🤔
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crusheverything1981 wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »If he won't ugly eat takeout right out of the box with me in bed... he's not the one
ETA... this is meant for the deal breaker thread 😋
Note to myself, always eat the box.
Lol.
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Cutemesoon wrote: »If a guy posts alot of selfies. It tells me one of two things:
1) He's self centered/conceited/narcissistic
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2) He has low self esteem. He doesn't get much female attention in his real life so he posts pics online where lots of people gas his head up.
I realize we live in a selfie culture but if you have a life, why are you posting pics of yourself online all day? 🤔
Oh i know this was meant for me......its because i want you to notice me dammit!!3 -
My personal red flags:
I overthink certain things. If I think I possibly said something to offend you, or made a mistake, it is probably keeping me awake at 3am six months later.
I'm a walking contradiction. Ridiculously laid back but anxious at the same time. A super extroverted introvert. It makes it hard to function sometimes.
I also am a terrible housekeeper, and would never make a good housewife.
Since losing weight, I look at myself in the mirror a billion times a day. Hahaha. Not on purpose, but I could see how it could drive a partner crazy.1 -
Cutemesoon wrote: »If a guy posts alot of selfies. It tells me one of two things:
1) He's self centered/conceited/narcissistic
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2) He has low self esteem. He doesn't get much female attention in his real life so he posts pics online where lots of people gas his head up.
I realize we live in a selfie culture but if you have a life, why are you posting pics of yourself online all day? 🤔
Oh i know this was meant for me......its because i want you to notice me dammit!!
Oh. That explains alot! 😏 Don't worry. Everyone notices you. 😜 Which one are you tho? 🤣0 -
Chael2dot0 wrote: »Every picture is filtered and angled....
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I think I'm very optimistic and can be funny however my red flag issue is I can be extremely sensitive at times.1
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I can be intensely focused on 10 different things at once...2
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Apparently talk too much...that's one I definitely never heard1
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I tend to see everyone and everything in the world as just in my way2
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I'm not very naturally talkative, unless its topic based. If someone asks me about a topic I'm very comfortable talking and can often make others laugh but I don't mind silence and just being in the prescence of others or just my own thoughts.
"Why are you so quiet, is everything ok?" is something i've heard many times.1 -
DawnOfTheDead_Lift wrote: »I'm not very naturally talkative, unless its topic based. If someone asks me about a topic I'm very comfortable talking and can often make others laugh but I don't mind silence and just being in the prescence of others or just my own thoughts.
"Why are you so quiet, is everything ok?" is something i've heard many times.
I can appreciate this. I don't talk for the sake of filling the silence. I prefer silence often to 'small talk'2 -
I figured this was relavent
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mustacheU2Lift wrote: »What did you learn about yourself or others when you were the "bad guy"?
@bojack5 great idea or point...we love pointing out others faults...what is our own.
Post your red flags...if you were to warn others of your issues or quirks...run if you see....
I seriously emotionally block out people in every sense of the word and turn cold as ice.
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