Me too. Although since I'm left my husband of 20 years and started dating again I finally speak my mind. I have to learn to temper it though and find the right balance or I'll be single the rest if my life, which may not be such a bad thing.
I've never had a large number of friends in real life.
I'm stubborn and I don't like playing other people's games.
Now that I'm divorced I find myself without friends to hang out with.
Bummer
I'm going to give everything I have to fight this. ❤
My heart hurts for you. I know how alone and overwhelmingly frightening this is for you. You don't always have to be brave. Kick, scream and get angry when you need to. Take care of yourself emotionally and physically as best you can. There are so many people in this community (myself included) that are holding you in their thoughts. If you ever need any of us don't hesitate to reach out. ❤
Thank you sweetie ❤ I just really thought this was all over, these past 2 weeks have been so overwhelming. As much as I need to think about myself and take care of myself and be strong...for myself, ALL I can think about is my kids and how much they need me, I'm the only parent they have left. I'm never going to give up no matter how hard these next 4 months are going to be. I just honestly don't know where to put my thoughts right now.
I had a *kitten* up childhood I'm still healing from and probably always will be. It's made me resilient and empathetic, intuitive and 'street smart'. I wouldn't give up any of those qualities.
@Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings - the horror of my childhood made me what i am today. i am able to relate to my own children in a more caring and loving way than my parents ever were able to. i'm sure your parenting abilities are the very same ... everything you've been through and that you've learned from is carried forward to your current situation. your lucky little man xo!~
i'm living with stage four cancer. i've been a swim suit model for two years , an avid reader, gardener, foodie and former pastry chef. and i've been around the block here a few times under a few monikers:)
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Me too. Although since I'm left my husband of 20 years and started dating again I finally speak my mind. I have to learn to temper it though and find the right balance or I'll be single the rest if my life, which may not be such a bad thing.
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@Behindblue_eyes - i hear you sister - i'm living with it. keep doing what you're doing Lady
I'm going to give everything I have to fight this. ❤
@honeybee__12 pssssssssst....
Thank you sweetie ❤ I just really thought this was all over, these past 2 weeks have been so overwhelming. As much as I need to think about myself and take care of myself and be strong...for myself, ALL I can think about is my kids and how much they need me, I'm the only parent they have left. I'm never going to give up no matter how hard these next 4 months are going to be. I just honestly don't know where to put my thoughts right now.
@Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings - the horror of my childhood made me what i am today. i am able to relate to my own children in a more caring and loving way than my parents ever were able to. i'm sure your parenting abilities are the very same ... everything you've been through and that you've learned from is carried forward to your current situation. your lucky little man
Can you solve them?
Yes, some fast, some slow, but I can. My daughters can solve alot of them to.
❤️ Welcome back Lisa.
(standards of character not looks)
I wonder if I do this as a self sabotage sort of thing? 🤔🤷🏼♀️
Living alone is my dream. As soon as these kids launch...