What’s a red flag for you?
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I'm not actually good at seeing red flags until after the relationship. Or I am really good at ignoring it.
This meme illustrates what I just said.
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »A piece of cloth with a wavelength of approximately 620-740 nm on the electromagnetic spectrum
It took me entirely too long to figure this out
I'm always thinking one step ahead
Like a carpenter
That makes stairs
That's so close to a haiku.
The *kitten* is a haiku?
Japanese K-Pop.
You both hurt me right in my heart
Haiku is poetry for people who like math and syllables at the same time
I think you're thinking of Sudoku
No, ramen5 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »A piece of cloth with a wavelength of approximately 620-740 nm on the electromagnetic spectrum
It took me entirely too long to figure this out
I'm always thinking one step ahead
Like a carpenter
That makes stairs
That's so close to a haiku.
The *kitten* is a haiku?
Japanese K-Pop.
You both hurt me right in my heart
Haiku is poetry for people who like math and syllables at the same time
I think you're thinking of Sudoku
There's a haiku thread in F&G's.. pretty sure it's the only thread that isn't about sex over there.3 -
gets mad when you don't text back
watches makeup tutorials on youtube a lot
shirt longer than her shorts
dyed hair
owns a big dog
anti-depressants/bipolar/pain killer prescriptions
no female friends
bad relationship with parents
wanderlust in her bio13 -
So insecure that they cannot even socialize. Play the victim.3
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it’s notReckoner68 wrote: »It's complicated3 -
you gotta stop meeting girls off IGgets mad when you don't text back
watches makeup tutorials on youtube a lot
shirt longer than her shorts
dyed hair
owns a big dog
anti-depressants/bipolar/pain killer prescriptions
no female friends
bad relationship with parents
wanderlust in her bio2 -
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Mine is:
Talks about his ex
Very distant
Doesn’t tell me I look good or anything when I dress up for his attention
Very secretive
I hate that they have a password on their phone that I don’t know about
Takes their phone with them everywhere
Texts and plays on the phone but has it pointed away from you so you can’t see what they’re doing
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When they can't hold a job for more than 6 months7
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rickigageby wrote: »Mine is:
Talks about his ex
Very distant
Doesn’t tell me I look good or anything when I dress up for his attention
Very secretive
I hate that they have a password on their phone that I don’t know about
Takes their phone with them everywhere
Texts and plays on the phone but has it pointed away from you so you can’t see what they’re doing
dis me ❤️5 -
rickigageby wrote: »Mine is:
Talks about his ex
Very distant
Doesn’t tell me I look good or anything when I dress up for his attention
Very secretive
I hate that they have a password on their phone that I don’t know about
Takes their phone with them everywhere
Texts and plays on the phone but has it pointed away from you so you can’t see what they’re doing
Do you have trust/confidence issues? Legit question, no snark or judgement.8 -
rickigageby wrote: »Mine is:
Talks about his ex
Very distant
Doesn’t tell me I look good or anything when I dress up for his attention
Very secretive
I hate that they have a password on their phone that I don’t know about
Takes their phone with them everywhere
Texts and plays on the phone but has it pointed away from you so you can’t see what they’re doing
Do you have trust/confidence issues? Legit question, no snark or judgement.
Yes I do. After being cheated on many many times it’s instilled in my brain. Might be a red flag for some that I have trust issues but men did that to me. There’s really no controlling it at this point9 -
catching her in "the act" //// i would consider that a pretty good red flag for me7
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has ever listened to Insane Clown Posse. Red flag.
consider himself a Juggalo. Just run.6 -
seltzermint555 wrote: »has ever listened to Insane Clown Posse. Red flag.
consider himself a Juggalo. Just run.
...what about drinking Faygo?3 -
keeping her ex in the picture for a V.E.R.Y long time after the relationship has ended. next thing you know she's gonna be running off to go get some "closure". nah sis not today.
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keeping her ex in the picture for a V.E.R.Y long time after the relationship has ended. next thing you know she's gonna be running off to go get some "closure". nah sis not today.
I agree. I personally don’t talk to any ex’s at all. They’re ex’s for a reason. We ended on good terms and just went our separate ways. Weren’t meant to be in each other’s lives!5 -
rickigageby wrote: »keeping her ex in the picture for a V.E.R.Y long time after the relationship has ended. next thing you know she's gonna be running off to go get some "closure". nah sis not today.
I agree. I personally don’t talk to any ex’s at all. They’re ex’s for a reason. We ended on good terms and just went our separate ways. Weren’t meant to be in each other’s lives!
My ex is my best friend. Sometimes people are just meant to be friends.11 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »seltzermint555 wrote: »has ever listened to Insane Clown Posse. Red flag.
consider himself a Juggalo. Just run.
...what about drinking Faygo?
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »rickigageby wrote: »keeping her ex in the picture for a V.E.R.Y long time after the relationship has ended. next thing you know she's gonna be running off to go get some "closure". nah sis not today.
I agree. I personally don’t talk to any ex’s at all. They’re ex’s for a reason. We ended on good terms and just went our separate ways. Weren’t meant to be in each other’s lives!
My ex is my best friend. Sometimes people are just meant to be friends.
i don’t know your situation at all but i think this is especially true when there are kids involved ❤️6 -
Wants my phone password11
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »rickigageby wrote: »keeping her ex in the picture for a V.E.R.Y long time after the relationship has ended. next thing you know she's gonna be running off to go get some "closure". nah sis not today.
I agree. I personally don’t talk to any ex’s at all. They’re ex’s for a reason. We ended on good terms and just went our separate ways. Weren’t meant to be in each other’s lives!
My ex is my best friend. Sometimes people are just meant to be friends.
That’s true as well. For me it was just it didn’t work out and we weren’t meant to be in each other’s lives and we were both completely okay with that.1 -
Accuses me of cheating - it means they are cheating
Secretive about their phone
Goes more than 24 hours without contact
Has been broken up less than 6 months
When they claim they don’t do social media or when they have a bunch of half naked women as their friends on there
Can’t keep a job
Always plays the victim and has a long list of sob stories about what women have done to them
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Man, a lot of you would have a really hard time dating me
It's a tough crowd...3 -
JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Man, a lot of you would have a really hard time dating me
🤣🤣 I was thinking the same. I'm just gona step away from this thread7 -
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Man, a lot of you would have a really hard time dating me
@JustReadTheInstructions
*shrug
.... wrong verb anyway2
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