What’s a red flag for you?
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I can only see red in hindsight9
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George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.18 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.
if i havent heard from someone in 24 hours i assume they are dead
and if it’s early in a relationship who’s going to tell you? I’ll be thinking they ghosted but really they were run over by a pickle truck.8 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.
if i havent heard from someone in 24 hours i assume they are dead
and if it’s early in a relationship who’s going to tell you? I’ll be thinking they ghosted but really they were run over by a pickle truck.
and THEN if they message me after like 36 hours i will be soooooo mad they put me thru that period of grief
❤️true. but seriousness aside
This is why I always ask them to give their wife my number in case of emergencies.11 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.
if i havent heard from someone in 24 hours i assume they are dead
and if it’s early in a relationship who’s going to tell you? I’ll be thinking they ghosted but really they were run over by a pickle truck.
and THEN if they message me after like 36 hours i will be soooooo mad they put me thru that period of grief
❤️true. but seriousness aside
This is why I always ask them to give their wife my number in case of emergencies.
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IDK, I guess I like my space. I don't need someone up my *kitten* 24/7.6
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.
if i havent heard from someone in 24 hours i assume they are dead
You say that like it's a bad thing.4 -
I once read that you should "Write like everyone you know is dead" and I feel like that's a lesson that could apply to life in general which is why I assume this is all a fragmented piece of twisted memory that I'm experiencing from beyond..the...grave..maybe?7
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.
if i havent heard from someone in 24 hours i assume they are dead
I prefer to think of it not as an ad hominem attack but merely a difference in ideologies. ❤️
It helps me sleep2 -
When she's not interested in going to the cat farm to check out this year's harvest4
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »Goes more than 24 hours without contact
I don't want someone who CAN'T go 24hrs without contact, especially early in a relationship. Yikes.
if i havent heard from someone in 24 hours i assume they are dead
You say that like it's a bad thing.
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Reckoner68 wrote: »I once read that you should "Write like everyone you know is dead" and I feel like that's a lesson that could apply to life in general which is why I assume this is all a fragmented piece of twisted memory that I'm experiencing from beyond..the...grave..maybe?
I like you.3 -
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The one red flag I've figured out, is her expecting to be treated like a queen from the go. I'm a believer in equality. So expecting me to hold a door, or pay for the meal, ect. is a giant red flag for me. I'm not saying I wouldn't do these things. just, going into something, expecting the other person to owe you something, is a big no no for me.13
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mattig89ch wrote: »The one red flag I've figured out, is her expecting to be treated like a queen from the go. I'm a believer in equality. So expecting me to hold a door, or pay for the meal, ect. is a giant red flag for me. I'm not saying I wouldn't do these things. just, going into something, expecting the other person to owe you something, is a big no no for me.
I expect this.
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mattig89ch wrote: »The one red flag I've figured out, is her expecting to be treated like a queen from the go. I'm a believer in equality. So expecting me to hold a door, or pay for the meal, ect. is a giant red flag for me. I'm not saying I wouldn't do these things. just, going into something, expecting the other person to owe you something, is a big no no for me.
I expect this.
I was going to tag you because I think it’s cute we found the two least compatible MFPers. 😁4 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »The one red flag I've figured out, is her expecting to be treated like a queen from the go. I'm a believer in equality. So expecting me to hold a door, or pay for the meal, ect. is a giant red flag for me. I'm not saying I wouldn't do these things. just, going into something, expecting the other person to owe you something, is a big no no for me.
I expect this.
I was going to tag you because I think it’s cute we found the two least compatible MFPers. 😁
You got that right! Lol
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