WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2019
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Happy Autumnal Equinox!
"The autumn equinox is one of two days when all points on Earth except the polar regions see the sunrise and set at due east and due west. With few exceptions, all latitudes see almost precisely 12 hours of daylight and 12 of darkness. ... People’s minds begin to think about warmer clothes and preparing their homes for winter. In the fields, farmers eagerly watch for the opportune time to harvest. Apples, pumpkins, and root vegetables ripen in the orchards and gardens. On cool evenings, long walks along the trails under the canopies of gold, umber, violet and crimson keep us warm."
Heather - Thank you for the book recommendation! I'm going to see if "She Has Her Mother's Laugh" is available from our library.
Machka - Do you think a trike or recumbent bike might be easier for your husband to manage or would the left leg still be a bit of a challenge?
Lisa - Too funny! I rather like the idea of vehemently invoking Judas Priest.
Allie - My heart hurts for you and your Chester. Those last days with a beloved pet can be so very bittersweet.
AZTeri - Wow, 34.55 miles sounds like quite an accomplishment!
Sarah - Welcome! It's never too late!
I got behind again. Seems to be my normal state over the weekend... spend all week catching up only to fall behind again when Friday hits. We went to Wimberley, a small town in Central Texas, to watch their very first Pride march with our nephew and his friend. Despite having a very busy weekend (and finishing up the shades at the river house!) I ended up Sunday evening feeling blue because I hadn't accomplished much. Think I need to put myself on a schedule for dealing with the decluttering; otherwise there's so much of it to do I'll get overwhelmed and won't even start.
I guess you could say my mind turned to warmer clothes today. We are planning a crosscountry ski trip to Colorado early next year and Luna's snow boots arrived so we tried them on and she entertained me by clopping around the house for a little while. She didn't seem too stressed out, so we'll have her wear them for frequent short periods between now and our trip.
Well, off to the grocery store now. I think I'm going to have to take over the meal planning again. Philip either can't or won't do a reasonable job of it, so there's nothing in the house to cook tonight. Think I'll try planning the meals and sending a grocery order to the store right next to his office for him to pick up after work.
-Yvonne in TX7 -
Heather: Enjoy your cruise. Thank you for sharing the wonderful photos of your sons. I like your list of nine things to give up in order to be happy. The inner peace message is wonderful, too.
Pip: Happy to hear that Bob Seeger can still sing. You’re lucky to get to see the concert.
Rebecca: I look at your husband’s scar in the photo and see courage and survival for both of you. I’m so happy that he is doing well.
Rho: Keep us in the loop regarding the service dog in Portland who is looking for a new home. I have one or two friends who might be interested. Can you PM me with contact information?
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
Me too. My husband's strength amazes me every day.💖2 -
Beth near Buffalo -Thanks for sharing types of hunger. That is interesting.
Rho – guess the main thing about weight loss is I have never given up on it. I never really lost post-baby weight and got into the 190s. Had thyroid removed in 1996 and slowly started putting more on. In 2006 realized I was 5’5 and 220 and felt like a whale. Thought about going ahead and gaining more to qualify for weight loss surgery! Used Adkins instead, got down to 180 and stayed there several years. Started using MFP in 2014 to track food for wellness points at work and discovered I could lose weight that way. Got down to 160. Husband died in 2015 and decided to take care of myself. Down to 145, two hip replacements later-back to 162 and this March decided I was darned if I would go any further up (felt miserable at that weight). Came back to MFP and checked out community instead of just logging and I am slowly learning how it is supposed to work. Don’t work it perfectly, but feel so much better. It has taken me 13 years to lose 80 pounds, but it’s worth the effort.
Annie – great news about your uncle.
Yvonne – the doggie snow boots are cute. We always had larger dogs and never considered using them.
Treating myself to a vacation day and some shopping tomorrow. Have a work conference in Columbus Weds, Thursday and Friday, so I am paying for hotel tomorrow night myself. Decided to hit outlet mall and see if I can find a decent suit and a couple of other odds and ends. Need to get a winter coat suitable for shoveling, etc. Hopefully find some blouses for work. Big treat is I am not setting alarm tonight. I may stay wake up close to normal time, but it will be my body doing it.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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So our trip to Seattle airport was ok. I asked my son if he could drive our car there, to help out my husband. Well that backfired. My son is an awful driver. His van is a right-hand drive so he was very close to the outer edge of the road. He also has a lead foot, and tailgates! At one point a car passed us really closely, so my son did it back to her. My husband said to son, " that was uncalled for, do NOT do that in our car". I tried to keep the mood light, and my son and I chatted, but husband (thankfully), kept silent. He vented after wee dropped him off. I told him I tried to do a good thing, to help him out.
Today instead of exercising, husband dropped me off at the Officers Club, and they had it set up for blood donation. My blood pressure was 120/95. Kind of a lot of "dump trucks", but that's a good thing right? It went well. I got a tee shirt. 👍
Today I made chicken noodle soup. Husband had two bowls.💖. I had 1 and a bit more that I couldn't fit in my mason jars!
Today I recd 2 letters from pen pals. Its so much fun!
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LuciB! i had RNY bypass surgery January 2nd and hit a h__l if a road bump at that weight about 6 weeks ago. I am in a plateau now right at my 100# loss point - 162-165 I think going on this trip to Mexico helped. I’ve learned a lot about making some of the things I liked best, and intend to re-create them here. They’re simple, and a couple involve roasting tomatoes, which I’ve never tried before! Keep at it, but remember to check with your doctors about new forms of exercise. My doctor gave s form “no” to treadmills. He wants me oytdoirs in natural light, and on slightly uneven surfaces with a few rises and dips. I’m happy to oblige. He said that a bit of instability will help my core muscles more than the treadmill, and for my problems there’s actually less danger of falling. The natural light also helps combat depression. Good luck with all you’re doing to stay healthy. You’ve come to a VERY good place!
Sharon Near Seattle6 -
stats for the day:
no wahoo - just apple watch
bike ride hm 2 gym, windy- 7.05min, 13.3amph, 1.57mi= 57c
0 RUNNER- 45min, 9.58min mi, lvl5, 9h, 112c, 40l, 4.54mi= 251c
bike ride gym 2 dome, windy- 5.02min, 17.9amph, 1.50mi= 41c
bike ride puy 2 sumn station, windy- 14.27min, 12.7amph, 3.06mi= 145c
jog sta 2 wrk, windy- 5.09min, 9.44min mi, .52mi= 64c
jog wrk 2 sta- 4,31min, 10.10min mi, .44mi= 53c
bike ride dome 2 hm- 16.04min, 9.7amph, 2.58mi= 157c
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Allie – feel better soon
Annie DE – wonderful!
This afternoon after bowling, my stomach felt distended. Then, when I was driving to mahjongg, I got such a cramp in my stomach. Still a little cramp but nothing like before. I had some yogurt, crackers and a chocolate bran muffin (probably not the best choice).
Tomorrow…dexa, mammo, volunteer, movies
Michele in NC
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Tracey, see if the dentist will use the type of Novacain they give heart patients. I had that when I was having a short term arrhythmia problem, Ian’s i was suddenly able to relax and let go of my fear. I reacted a bit when I had a twinge or two, but my heart didn’t keep on racing every time something elevated it. I ask for it every time now. Going to the dentist has become a different experience!
Sharon NearSeattle3 -
Hi Gals,
Lisa – glad to hear what the out come of the job up and down, I remembered the stress about the change of supervisor and had not heard an update. I do believe that having options allows us to have the “freedom” to step back and view the situation more objectively.
The new mud room is fab!
Rho – glad to hear you mention fiber and protein, as staying within calories is easier for me when I am at or above the MFP recommended fiber. I get it from veggies, I have chosen not to add protein or fiber supplements, but to use foods in the least processed version I can. It helps that I am a 3-4 day a week vegetarian, so I get a lot of beans (high in fiber).
Rita – hang in there ! tummy issues can steal your get up and go very quickly, and it’s been very hot there.
Lanette – just a thought my vacuum had a similar problem to yours I took it to the vacuum repair guy in my town and for $12 he repaired it… while I waited, it needed a new belt.
Annie – great news!
Heather – all the pictures are great! Red looks fab on you.
Kim from N. California
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Lisa in AR, how very like me you sound at times. I sought adventure and excitement by moving many times and in many different jobs until one “adventure” got me my third daughter and almost got me killed. After that, what with counseling for me and the kids and a desire to get to really know my co-workers, who had staunchly protected me at some risk to themselves, I started staying put. I’ve lived here at “Granny Sharon’s Nudie Farm”, as some of the other residents call it, since 1998. I realized last year that I’ve lived here at this house more than twice as long as I lived in any of my three homes as a girl. They were all pretty much in the same neighborhood - upward mobility they called it then.
Do you ever miss the thrill of a new place? A new town? New people? I still miss the first two, but have found my reluctance to pull up stakes and move is people centered. I not only have my youngest daughter’s family here, I have people I’ve known and for the most part at least liked for over 20 years now. New ones come in for a season, but I miss the older folks when we lose one, or if they decide they’re going to live in Arizona full-time.
I don’t have a gal pal at the moment, and I miss that horribly. I seem to NEED someone who calls or whom I can call, and say “You got any coffee?”, with the subtext that I’m coming over for an hour’s gab fest. The one I go to lunch with every week or two, or whom we treat to a mani-pedi on her birthday.
Lisa, you don’t sound like you have a gal pal in your life at the moment. For the rest of you, how important is that to you if you’re leading a settled life? And how on earth do you find one? Mine have always been coworkers until this last, who was my neighbor until she died suddenly in 2014. I’m happy, but also find myself terribly lonely at times. I guess I need to find a larger neighborhood to lurk in.
Sharon, feeling a bit sad, Near Seattle3 -
trucker743 wrote: »Lisa in AR, how very like me you sound at times. I sought adventure and excitement by moving many times and in many different jobs until one “adventure” got me my third daughter and almost got me killed. After that, what with counseling for me and the kids and a desire to get to really know my co-workers, who had staunchly protected me at some risk to themselves, I started staying put. I’ve lived here at “Granny Sharon’s Nudie Farm”, as some of the other residents call it, since 1998. I realized last year that I’ve lived here at this house more than twice as long as I lived in any of my three homes as a girl. They were all pretty much in the same neighborhood - upward mobility they called it then.
Do you ever miss the thrill of a new place? A new town? New people? I still miss the first two, but have found my reluctance to pull up stakes and move is people centered. I not only have my youngest daughter’s family here, I have people I’ve known and for the most part at least liked for over 20 years now. New ones come in for a season, but I miss the older folks when we lose one, or if they decide they’re going to live in Arizona full-time.
I don’t have a gal pal at the moment, and I miss that horribly. I seem to NEED someone who calls or whom I can call, and say “You got any coffee?”, with the subtext that I’m coming over for an hour’s gab fest. The one I go to lunch with every week or two, or whom we treat to a mani-pedi on her birthday.
Lisa, you don’t sound like you have a gal pal in your life at the moment. For the rest of you, how important is that to you if you’re leading a settled life? And how on earth do you find one? Mine have always been coworkers until this last, who was my neighbor until she died suddenly in 2014. I’m happy, but also find myself terribly lonely at times. I guess I need to find a larger neighborhood to lurk in.
Sharon, feeling a bit sad, Near Seattle
If I wasn't such a homebody, hermit, I would come to your nudie farm. 💖The season where the dangily bits don't fall off like Rolos is like a week though! I need a good long summer!
💖Rebecca4 -
A year ago I took this photo in the gym because I was so appalled by how I looked in form-fitting spandex. Scale registered 152.8 that morning.
This morning I donned the same attire, and weighed in at 148.8 = four pound difference. The scale moves slowly for me, but as long as inches dissolve off and lumps smooth out, I stay motivated to keep on keeping on.
Rori
Colorado Foothills
Still SMILING and workin' it.12 -
trucker743 wrote: »Tracey, see if the dentist will use the type of Novacain they give heart patients. I had that when I was having a short term arrhythmia problem, Ian’s i was suddenly able to relax and let go of my fear. I reacted a bit when I had a twinge or two, but my heart didn’t keep on racing every time something elevated it. I ask for it every time now. Going to the dentist has become a different experience!
Sharon NearSeattle
Thank you Sharon
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pip stunning pic of moon, mountains, water back on pg 66.
Karen in VA “Enzo” the ferrari foster, I'm in love!
Welcome natc1954
Irish Terri Va va va VOOM!
Lanette, the B, B & B class today was just right. Challenging, but not overwhelming. Comfortable group of women at a good mix of fitness levels. Didn't feel intimidated or incapable. Our instructor is definitely a senior citizen but quite fit and slender. He focuses on helping us achieve proper form, to the extreme of putting a yardstick on our backs to make sure our sacrum, shoulder blades and back of head are aligned. He uses step risers, two kinds of resistance bands, 4' long PVC “dowels”, and light dumbbells. We didn't have time today to get down on the floor for mat work, oh gee, what a shame! I feel it in my butt and my shoulders already, expect it will be worse tomorrow, but it's a good “awareness.” Knew I needed to do more/something different.
Only through pg 69 of 83 but time to snooze.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
Word for 2019: "GOOD" good attitude, good food, good times, good choices, good enough, feel good, GOOD! Word for September: grit
Steps-2850 Thurs, 3181 Fri vits-16 log-20 CICO-16 Tumble-9 mfp-17 AF-11 << need to update, later
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. . . My weight has leveled off, and even come back down a few pounds since 9/9, which I appreciate. The intermittent fasting works when I can hold to it . . . So--recommitting to IF this week.
Allie: I had my gallbladder removed several years ago due to a diagnosis of gall stones. They were very painful and the pain happened most often at night. The surgery was a welcome relief, but it turned out that I had only one gallstone and it was large—at least the size of a robin’s egg. I’ve been told that most gallstones are small and there can be many. If this is a gallbladder problem, you likely need medical intervention. At least get a check-up. Rest well. Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
Annie I'm glad everything went well with your uncle's surgery
Barbi Here's hoping everything goes well with your bathroom re-do.
Terri Good times on the dance floor . . . you both look very happy Love the lace dress!
sh0tzz99 I like what you said about the snacks you use and measuring them out in the morning. It makes a lot of sense so one doesn't just grab something thoughtlessly.Thank you!
Kim in N Cali Thanks for the info. :L I think I need to limit my "snacks" to veggies only and going to start measuring them out in the morning like sh0tzz99
RVRita What tha . . . The creatures you took photos of, have they provided motivation for you to take up running? (JK
Ginny Thank you for the mini-bio. I'm sorry about the loss of your husband. And you've really been through it with needing to have the hip replacements. That you stuck with your goals and lost so much weight inspires me to persevere.
Gal Pals I don't often feel lonely - I busy myself with distractions/projects and have a BF. But I sure miss hangin' with the gals. I used to be part of a group of gal pals that did an annual white water and camping trip. Some of us cross country or downhill skied together, canned tomatoes and pickles, and helped each other out in our veggie gardens. They were gals I could call and say, "Hey, let's meet for a cuppa joe." Most lead quieter lives now; some are busy with grand-children and some still work trying to sock money away for retirement and are too exhausted to do anything else. Some have physical limitations (I was one of the latter for a while myself). I only have one true "gal pal" now - we've known each other thirty years. But she lives in India half the year. Thankfully, she's here for another three weeks and isn't living to far from me
Sharon Is it true you have a nudie farm?
Rho (south of PDX) who is almost half-way done with cleaning out the garage and beat3 -
Machka in Oz
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sharon I have a girlfriend, we met in baby class(!) now our babies are 21. I don’t really like her DH so social couple things don’t work for us but our long walks are perfection. Work colleagues that I considered friends have all retired and I miss their friendship very much. Ideas for meeting someone new, perhaps from a class, book club, volunteer thing or even going for a regular walk on a different time schedule you might bump into someone. It is a bit of work at first, starting a new friendship, but even as an introvert, I see how important it is. I get to bounce things off of her and listen to her do the same.
NYKAREN3 -
Greetings from sunny Florida.
Work was surprisingly calm yesterday. I was extremely surprised since it is quarter end. So I find myself hoping it is not the calm before the storm.
Lisa – Thank you for the spoiler tip.
Terri – You look gorgeous and happy. Wow, what a big luncheon. I hope you had a great time and got in some dance time too.
RVRita – I love the bug pictures. I once had a friend place his tarantula on my arm when I was turned the other way. It was the coolest feeling having it crawl up my arm. TG I did not freak out and kill his pet!
BarbieCat – I chuckled over your husband carrying the cat to the box three times to make sure kitty knew where to go. Mine hears me moving it and he is up from a sound sleep supervising me.
Michele – Good question. And, funny I am still a kid getting out of the pool – I pull myself up from the side. I did research online because it was something I never thought about. Found the “best” handrails are coated but for safety reasons and it also suggested one should purchase handrail covers to cover the stainless steel from burning hands.
Rho – Thank you for the call out. It’s my first month back restarting a healthier lifestyle so I am really determined. I am trying to stay strong and not slip back in to old habits which seems to happen to the best of us over time. So happy you have a supportive DB.
Some comments regarding the hunger conversation……The hunger conversations were interesting yesterday. I enjoyed reading about the different types of hunger. It seems like hunger is relative and is an individual experience. During the weekend I can get up and if I am out and about completely forget to eat until a headache starts forming. During the workweek meals are scheduled and almost set to a clock on a normal day. Crazy workdays are a totally different thing – I can forget to eat and find myself saying wow, it’s 1:30 and I better eat lunch.
From an MFP site article entitled, “10 Reasons You’re Not Losing Weight, According to RDs” states, ““Staying hydrated reduces hunger, increases the number of calories you burn and improves your body’s ability to burn body fat for energy.” If you’re not sure how much to drink, “a good place to start is half your body weight in ounces””. https://blog.myfitnesspal.com/10-reasons-youre-not-losing-weight-according-to-rds/?otm_medium=onespot&otm_source=onsite&otm_content=article-page:inline-unit-text&otm_click_id=dccbb40d-5099-48b4-bc0f-774840a08fff
Still working upon October goals. There are many things to do around the house. Over the past two years I have been downsizing in my current home to see how much space I actually need to be happy. I have also been reviewing my food and exercise journals to see where I need to make adjustments.
Hope everyone has a great day/evening and there is something that happens today that puts a smile on your face.
SuziQ – Broward County, FL
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Sharon near Seattle-I totally understand what you mean by lonely at times. My husband became isolated the last few years of his life and I found myself cut off from friends to go out and do things with do to caring for him. Most of the friends we had were couples and I found after he died that people don't know what to do with a widow. I have been working on slowly expanding my activities with others. I am active in my church and go to choir and attend a women's crafts group twice a month, but I don't really have the gal pal to hang out with and go shopping, etc. Most of the time it isn't bad, and since my work requires me to interact with others (and being nice all of the time is exhausting), I can enjoy quiet time at home in the evenings. It has always been hard for me to reach out to others. I have been focusing on at least getting out and doing things. It may not sound like much, but my shopping trip to the outlets on my own today is a big deal-instead of thinking about doing something I want, I am actually going and doing it. I agree, we need to find a bigger space to be in. It just takes time.
Ginny in Ohio6
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