Women 200lb+, Let's Double Down This December!!!
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@mmdeveau The self-care thing definitely hits home. It's part of why I gained nearly 40 pds back over two years- Taking care of sick family members and having a crazy job with ever changing hours. Things have finally settled down this past year and I'm trying to make my health a priority again.
I also used to have a long commute- 1hour 40 minutes back when I worked in NYC. That was the worst for exercise, but it's great that you've found your routine! :-)
@aliciap0116 Thank you for the advice! I think I'm stalling for a couple reasons:
1) my exercise levels have gone down as it's gotten colder. I no longer intensely garden for hours outside on the weekend and I'm going on fewer walks on my lunch hour. I also was cleaning out my grandmother's house this summer and was spending whole days on the weekend lifting heavy garbage/furniture. I haven't done anything really active for about 3 weekends in the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving. Although I needed the rest, it's definitely reflecting in my weight loss.
2) I had set my calorie levels on MFP for 5 days of intense exercise a week, which doesn't reflect what I'm doing right now.
To counteract this, I've reset my calorie calculator to reflect less exercise and to lose 1.5 pds a week instead of 1 pd. I'm usually going over my calorie count each day by about 30-150 calories, so I'm also actually measuring portions out instead of guessing and taking pre-portioned snacks to work. I'm also going out of my way to get at least one good workout in during the weekend along with my 3 regular workday workouts. This past weekend I walked two miles to and back from a parade on Saturday and I did yoga on Sunday. I'm going to start walking laps during lunch on different floors from my own at work, so I'm not just sitting through lunch. I'm hoping all of this will help me lose a little faster.4 -
@Christine4695 Sorry you're going through so much. Both my parents suffer from health problems and it's definitely a lot of stress when they're hospitalized. I hope your surgery goes well. My sis-in-law had her gall bladder out a couple years ago and it really changed how she processes foods, so I hope it's an easy adjustment for you.4
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Check in following two weeks of holiday gatherings....
Height: 5'8"
SW: 272
GW: 190
12/2: 267
12/9: 264
Officially two weeks down with doing IF even maintained it during the holiday gatherings we have had. Calories and sugar definitely were over what my goals are5 -
@stefsc1 I'm sorry you are feeling this way and I can totally relate. But take a big step back- you have lost an incredible amount of weight this year! Seriously, that's amazing! Don't be discouraged. The numbers, both the 11 pounds and the date you've picked on the calendar- are just numbers and nothing else. They don't mean anything, beyond things to work towards. The fact is- you've lost almost 100 pounds. You are sitting in a much better place for your health than you were a year ago. This is a fabulous and incredible change and you deserve to celebrate a bit!
So dust yourself off, and remember how far you've come. If you have no calories left at 2 pm, maybe adjust your earlier meals. More protein and fiber early on in the day to keep you satiated longer? Or adjust your calorie goal if it's too low? I've had that happen to me, when my calorie goal is really low for an aggressive weight loss. I find myself thinking "well there's no way I'm going to meet it, so I might as well just say F it and eat whatever".
Either way, you're doing amazing, but I get the daily struggle too. I know you can get there!6 -
SW: 245.0
Dec SW: 224.6
Dec GW: 221.6
12-1 224.6
12-8 227.0 Two birthdays this past week. I indulged a bit too much. Gotta get back on track.4 -
Welcome back @sweetirish! - Wishing you success with the IVF!
Stress busters:- I take lots of "clarity breaks" at work where I just walk outside for 5 minutes. I call it my Zen walk. It helps be transition between blocks of work, problem solve, or shake off a difficult interaction. But sometimes, I just let my mind go blank and wander.
- The app "Calm" provides quick 5 minute guided meditations that can reduce stress hormones.
- One thing that has really helped me is actively working on "assuming good intentions" in others. I actually posted a sticky note on my computer to remind me. When I find that I am getting upset or stressed out by what others are saying or doing, I look at that note and actively rethink the interaction with a different perspective. It is self protective. If you believe that others are acting with good intentions, you don't get stressed out by their behaviors. It allows you to emotionally distance yourself from toxicity.
Took me a bit to get back into the communities but OMG thank you. That last sticky note idea is going to be on my board above my computer at work. That's great!6 -
@sweetirish I was also a compulsive weigher once. I became obsessed with the scale and would skip meals to try and get that magic number.It was very stressful. Now I officially weigh in once a week (Fridays this month). As far as stress busters, a short walk or mediation session help me out. Hikes especially have helped me regulate my stress.
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bluffgirl67 wrote: »
@sweetirish When I'm feeling stressed I close my eyes, take some breaths, and do some neck/shoulder stretches and rolls. Turn on some music that makes you happy.
Thank you! Been rocking the Trans-Siberian Orchestra this month. I find the rock vibe helps with getting out the aggression and gives me something to chair bounce to!5 -
I’ve been sick as a dog lately so my goals have been nutrition really. I wanted to prove to myself I can stay within healthy nutrition guidelines while sick instead of relying on old habits and comforts like pizza and Mac and cheese. It hasn’t been easy but I’ve been doing it!
And to speak on the hydration/water piece - yes - our body is made up of mostly water. We cannot survive without water. Severe health issues occur when we restrict water intake or take in too much sodium. For sure, don’t forget your water.5 -
torihudson6 wrote: »
@sweetirish, I use to weigh myself everyday but I got obsessive and had to stop. At one point I had to have someone hide the scales otherwise I’d weigh myself and it’d either cause a good mood or a really bad mood. I stick with once a week, also Wednesday’s normally! It’s good that it stopped you from beating yourself. Best of luck with IVF.
Thank you! Things got pushed to just after new years so I might just hit my goal this month!3 -
aliciap0116 wrote: »
@sweetirish good luck with your IVF. I did it about 7 years ago (happy to say we have a beautiful son now). The anxiety I felt was overwhelming - getting the shots right, the hormonal changes, the cost and the outcome. Love all the suggestions on the thread but my go to distractor/stress reducer was to find a funny puppy video channel on YouTube. I could pull them out any time and I didn’t get sucked into something too intellectual or time consuming, until the anxiety passed. And calorie free! I should probably start doing this when I crave chocolate but I’d like to try meditation these days! Of course this only works if you are a dog person LOL.
Puppy and kitten videos tend to trigger my "I need a baby NOW" reflex and I tend to end up tearing up so... I have no clue why it does that. *shrug*. My chocolate cravings aren't awful but when I hit them I brew something called Crio Bru which is kinda like coffee but instead of the coffee beans, it's roasted cacao beans and really delicious. I drink it with a splenda or 2 and it's about 20 calories. Helps with that. Glad to see someone else who's been down the road I'm traveling! I'm hoping it works first or second round. Insurance covers 6 total.6 -
Aww babies 🥰 good luck1
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So many great posts these past few days!
@bluffgirl67 I hope the tests and appointments go well for your momma; sending hugs your way. You are doing so well with your workouts!
@Christine4695 I'm so glad it wasn't a heart attack! That sounds very scary. A friend of ours recently had gall bladder surgery; it was not as bad as she expected. Be sure to take time for yourself even while taking care of your dad. Hugs to you as well.
@speyerj thank you for the article. It summed it up so well. I feel badly for my body on those days when I don't drink water now! I ordered some fruit essence drops to add to water in hopes that helps me increase my intake. I also like your comment about assuming good intentions.
@stefsc1 you have made AMAZING progress. It sucks not to reach 100 by the end of the year but this one month blip is seriously nothing compared to all that you have accomplished. Maybe your body is just telling you it needed to refuel and recharge. Consider picking a specific date to have a solid restart and plan your meals out, with a focus on foods that fill you up in the morning. Also, I did WW for a few months earlier in the year and they had zero point foods (foods they felt were healthy and you didn't have to track. Their plans have now changed and it is confusing.) But, in short, I regard these as "safe" foods that I can have even when I am topping out on my calorie goals but am still hungry: https://www.weightwatchers.com/us/sites/default/files/zeropoints-blue.pdf. Focusing on those instead of feeling like it's impossible helps keep me on track.
@VoicedJoy22 those sounds like smart adjustments to your MFP profile; I think the differences in your routine recently account for why you slowed down. And also sounds like an really sound plan for your exercise! I think you are going to see a big difference with those changes.
@nebslp I am so with you. I feel so good after a workout. It is one of the best feelings. I have literally never regretted doing a workout. But right before working out? I can't tell you how unexcited I am to go. That's one of the reasons I keep listing it out in my monthly goals; I need to be accountable (even if I am not exactly succeeding).
@mmdeveau thanks for the sexy pants article; I can see why you return to that one! I'm so impressed with your progress and your commitment to your workouts. That was quite a big loss! Enjoy your holiday party!! You have a lot to celebrate!
@lindaporter2018 I have MFP premium. The only feature I really use is to turn off returning exercise calories to your daily budget. I have found when I eat my exercise calories, my progress is really slow. Of course you could just know the pre-exercise target number and stop there but I know I would rationalize and eat them if they were added back in automatically. I also set some macronutrient goals (namely 100 grams of protein). It shows my deficit eat day and by meal. It also gives you a weekly report, which is interesting. I'm not sure it is worth the cost but I felt like it was a relatively low investment compared to other programs so I decided to take the plunge.
@sweetirish glad you found some coping skills that work for you! Hang in there.
It is helpful for me to know that weight loss is not a straight line down for anyone, and it is not just me! Sometimes I can account for the increases and the whooshes are rewarding. But sometimes I can't and it puts me on an emotional roller coaster. I think I am bit terrified that this process could just stop working, even though I know the habits I have adopted over the last three months are wildly different than I had before.
I'm leaving today for my last work trip of the year and will be back on Wednesday night. I make this trip to Canada every year so I know how the meals will be organized. I'm feeling pretty confident about how to navigate it and brought my workout clothes. But also really sad about not being able to indulge in the maple butter crepes they have at the dessert station every year....5 -
Guys you are all so inspiring and awesome. I am cheering your successes and putting some hope for you in the bumps in the road.
I am struggling with the binges in a bad way. I am not sure what to do. I have been getting really dopey from my meds lately and I lose all self control when it comes to eating. Funny thing is the doctor slightly lowered the olanzapine the last time I was there. I think I will ask him to lower the seroquel the next time. Sorry for the vent.
I have some exciting news. I am quite excited for several reasons today. Tonight I am going to meet my granddaughter, Stella, for the first time. Also, I haven’t seen my daughter in 3 years. They live in Scotland and I haven’t been able to go yet. I am also excited for a selfish reason too. When I saw them last I was almost 55 pounds heavier. I am hoping their reaction will give me the kick in the pants to get serious about my weight loss.
I hope everyone is having an amazing day!10 -
@mmdeveau Congrats on making 100 logins!! I know you were happy to see that whoosh on the scales and great work on hitting the gym all 7days. Very good week
@lindaporter2018 Way to go!!! I can only dream of going 60m. I started at 5m or so and after 2months am up to 20m. You my friend are rocking it! I just use the free version but my plans are simple. I don't really know what all extra the premium offers.
@speyerj Thank you for the clear reasoning of why staying well hydrated is so important. I'm working on being more consistent with 8c/day. Still hit and miss but getting better.
@Christine4695 I'm so sorry you have the added stress of gallstones and a cyst on top of everything else. We were caregivers for my husband's parents and now I help with Momma when she lets me (hard headed and independent lol). I know it can be overwhelming physically and emotionally. Please take care of yourself while sharing this special time with your dad. Keeping you in my thoughts ((hugs)).
@stefsc1 I hate your in a rough patch right now. You have worked hard for so long and the results are amazing. Your body may be revolting but don't let it undo all you've accomplished. I'm too new to know much about the strategies used to get over plateaus but I'm sure others have good advice. Even if for some reason you don't hit the 100 down goal there is every reason to proud of the past months. Your journey is such an inspiration to me and I'm sure many others on the thread. Stay strong and roll right over that plateau back to plan that got you here.
@Aerohead21 Hope you are feeling better. Focusing on nutrition is a great plan and props for working on it even while you were sick.
@aliciap0116 Safe travels and enjoy your trip. Save some calories either daily/weekly build up to splurge on the crepes. No reason to miss out on a special yearly tradition.
@lindamtuck2018 So happy your family is coming to visit. I just know Stella will be getting lots of hugs and kisses. I also bet they will be super proud of your weight loss and transformation. Losing 55lbs tells me you are serious and is nothing to sneeze at. Keep kicking yourself and reach the goals you've got. Enjoy this special time and have a blast.
Thanks for all the thoughts for Momma. Since I will be traveling and away from home for basically two days logging will be fast food. I do have almonds, dark chocolate (y'all know I love that), bevita bars, water, and a few other odd things packed to snack on. I'm thinking of just eating breakfast and supper out then using my snacks as fillers to help stay within calories if need be. The hotel has a gym and I've got my workout clothes packed. If Momma is doing well enough after her procedure for me to grab a treadmill or something I will tomorrow night.5 -
@torihudson6 you looked great!! Nothing like a pretty dress to make you feel good
@stefsc1 sorry its been rough for you. Plateaus sucks.
@bluffgirl67 hope all goes well with your momma. Also love how you planned out snacks and exercise, very smart.
I had a great weekend with family, we had an xmas party, ugly sweaters, santa, the whole thing. I feasted. I wish I had a planned ahead of time but I chose to indulge with my loved ones. I need to work on making this lifestyle a priority so that when family or friend events come up, I don’t slip up completely. Better day today, also completed hike #38 after work so thats a plus7 -
I love my husband so much but he’s an athlete. He grew up wanting to be an athlete so he never struggled with food or exercise. He does not understand what I am going through 😭 since I’m still in the beginning days of all this I’m still working really hard to avoid temptation and fall back into old habits. I have had a particularly rough day today emotionally and I want to eat. It’s how I would have solved all my problems before. Instead I’ve binged episodes of My 600 Lb Life and lifted some weights (that finally came in the mail yay). Only 3 lbs but boy did my arms quiver! 🤣 I need to build that muscle as a develop new strategies to cope with difficult news in life.11
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Hi, just checking in on day 1 of daily workouts. First I took my picture😧. Then I spent 12 minutes with a Charlene Extreme DVD lifting weights. I’m so out of shape and a back muscle was hurting so I gave that up and did 23 min of classical stretch for a total of 35 minutes workout. Felt great! Can’t wait to get conditioned again so I can really get going. Thanks to the inspiration I find here I know that won’t take too long🥰7
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I've made a commitment to veggies for breakfast all week, and sticking to the calorie budget. Also need to get back to the pool. This darkness at 5pm makes me so tired and unmotivated. I wish it was May.6
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I agree...more sunlight.3
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