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KosmosKitten wrote: »That I am still bothered by a comment made more than a year ago by a person I knew and trusted.
The conversation was talking about my past and my rather promiscuous nature as a college student. Keep in mind, not as promiscuous as I could have been or even as promiscuous as people who hung out at the bars and clubs downtown (was never my scene), but still, promiscuous enough to be judged in a semi-small, Midwestern college town.
The comment made was "You really were the village bicycle, huh?" This comment coming from someone who has slept with more women than they can count, who doesn't even remember their names and who was not aware (even though I told him at the time), that my choices were my own. They didn't pass me around like a rag doll, I willingly made my choices to be with each and every one of them and am not apologetic nor regretful of my choices. Each choice was safe and consensual and I am still in speaking contact with most of them, even if that door to the past has closed.
It just reinforces one of the many reasons I no longer talk to this person. Perhaps he only meant it as a comment, not intended to stick, but it stuck nonetheless. And funny thing is, if I had said the same (or similar) thing to him, he would have flown off into a sulking narcissistic rage and thought nothing of it.
There's a million cliche things I could say to this, but none of them will take away the hurt your feel inside. Let this be a lesson to anyone that reads this in passing - hurtful words can never be taken back, do your best to think before you speak. *hugs*8 -
These people that I am in the workweek hustle challenge with are killing it. I sure hope they take a day, or three off! lol2
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I think I’m reaching critical mass,
may need to shut down.
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honeybee__12 wrote: »I think I’m reaching critical mass,
may need to shut down.
I read this as: " I'm Vulnerable Right Now.... "
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Motorsheen wrote: »honeybee__12 wrote: »I think I’m reaching critical mass,
may need to shut down.
I read this as: " I'm Vulnerable Right Now.... "
HA!
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mommabear4315 wrote: »emeraldeyes2020 wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »emeraldeyes2020 wrote: »Confession....someone was a jerk to me a few weeks back so I “disagreed” with a few of his posts. They were dumb posts too but normally I’d just ignore them if they were dumb. So...yeah, people disagree with posts for reasons like that.
If someone’s a jerk just laugh it off and walk away hunni 🤗
But sometimes being petty feels sooooo good.
😂😂😂 I’m practicing not biting back!
P.s A guy just said im like a dead horse 🤷🏻♀️haha
LOLOL why would he say that?
Because trying to get me to chat to him is like beating one .. I prefer ice queen though lol1 -
just discovered my new spring look it's called fashion sweaty
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Well then... it looks like they were wearing latex tights and had really bad gas. :laugh:4
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Motorsheen wrote: »
Those are some big ballzzz..............................................In those pants2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »
LOL
I was going to say you possibly couldn't pay any man enough to wear that. But obviously, they already did. Weirdest craziest *kitten* I ever saw on anybody, and living through the 60's and 70's I've seen some weird and crazy schtuff.1 -
Dementia really bites. It steals a little bit of your loved one's life away each day and leaves everybody feeling completely helpless.
How's that for a pick-me-up?6 -
Wondering why I always wait til I’m in fumes to put gas. Will I never learn my lesson. Please, please make it to the gas station!!!5 -
mommabear4315 wrote: »
Wondering why I always wait til I’m in fumes to put gas. Will I never learn my lesson. Please, please make it to the gas station!!!
Girl. I post a duplicate pic to this in my Snap stories on a bi-weekly basis. Only reason I don’t post weekly is because I’m embarrassed. This is a regular occurrence. But but BUT, I don’t run out! The worst one was a few months ago entering Minneapolis, highway, rush hour. That one made me a little nervous. 🙈1 -
mommabear4315 wrote: »
Wondering why I always wait til I’m in fumes to put gas. Will I never learn my lesson. Please, please make it to the gas station!!!
This doesn’t happen to me because my sister borrows my car regularly and always puts gas in1 -
mommabear4315 wrote: »
Wondering why I always wait til I’m in fumes to put gas. Will I never learn my lesson. Please, please make it to the gas station!!!
Girl. I post a duplicate pic to this in my Snap stories on a bi-weekly basis. Only reason I don’t post weekly is because I’m embarrassed. This is a regular occurrence. But but BUT, I don’t run out! The worst one was a few months ago entering Minneapolis, highway, rush hour. That one made me a little nervous. 🙈
ROFL!!!! I just made it to the gas station. The truck started really vibrating rofl. To make things worse I can just see myself pushing the truck with heels Hahahaha. My March goal is to keep the tank at least half full! LOLOLOL1 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »mommabear4315 wrote: »
Wondering why I always wait til I’m in fumes to put gas. Will I never learn my lesson. Please, please make it to the gas station!!!
This doesn’t happen to me because my sister borrows my car regularly and always puts gas in
Lucky you! Wish my sister would do the same. Instead she rides. Lol.2
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