Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    I'm so happy you ladies chose B. I can't stand a clingy woman. Everyone should have their own friends, hobbies, interests , stuff to do without your Sig Other.

    It said the man was clingy not the woman.


    So I pick A. I'll be the super busy one while the man waits for me.

    I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type

    In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโ€™s a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโ€™t have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโ€™ll have nothing.

    This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.

    Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?

  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    I'm so happy you ladies chose B. I can't stand a clingy woman. Everyone should have their own friends, hobbies, interests , stuff to do without your Sig Other.

    It said the man was clingy not the woman.


    So I pick A. I'll be the super busy one while the man waits for me.

    I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type

    In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโ€™s a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโ€™t have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโ€™ll have nothing.

    This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.

    Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?

    I get your reasoning but donโ€™t do yourself a disservice based on the assumption that someday youโ€™ll be less busy. In my experience, that elusive someday never comes
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    I'm so happy you ladies chose B. I can't stand a clingy woman. Everyone should have their own friends, hobbies, interests , stuff to do without your Sig Other.

    It said the man was clingy not the woman.


    So I pick A. I'll be the super busy one while the man waits for me.

    I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type

    In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโ€™s a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโ€™t have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโ€™ll have nothing.

    This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.

    Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?

    I get your reasoning but donโ€™t do yourself a disservice based on the assumption that someday youโ€™ll be less busy. In my experience, that elusive someday never comes

    For some, or many, this holds true. In my case, I would disagree. Prior to relocating to where I'm at now, I had an exceptionally busy schedule that left little downtime. If something threw my schedule off, I had no free time to react or do at a different time. Most times, I was lucky to get four hours of sleep a night.

    When I relocated, I resigned not only from my full-time job. But, also from the fire department I was a member of and the local Ski Patrol. As well as other volunteer work I did.

    Where I'm at now, I am only working my full-time job. Have no plans to get involved with things as I did before. I gave up a lot of myself for years and am now content with working my job and having free time to get back into hobbies I gave up to join the fire department and ski patrol. Now that I have time, I'm much more open to the possibility of a relationship.

    Gotcha. Good for you!
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Ladies...

    What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?

    Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

    Pretending to be too busy for you is a flirting technique? This explains so much!

    Well I never claimed to be good at it ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ...

    Sorry I'll have to explain further later... Got some important things to take care of ๐Ÿ˜

    Cute...really really cute ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’•
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?

    Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

    Pretending to be too busy for you is a flirting technique? This explains so much!

    Well I never claimed to be good at it ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ...

    Sorry I'll have to explain further later... Got some important things to take care of ๐Ÿ˜

    Cute...really really cute ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’•

    It's the emojis ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ...
    Otherwise sometimes people tend to take me to literal and seriously ๐Ÿ˜ค
  • MichelleWithMoxie
    MichelleWithMoxie Posts: 1,817 Member
    Is it a deal breaker if Iโ€™ve never seen LOTR ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ but Iโ€™ll binge some Harry Potter like a mah fugga

    I just never could get in to either of them

    @George_of_the_Jungle the books or movies?
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    edited April 2020
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    โ€œSomething looks different about you I donโ€™t know what it is.....โ€
  • MoonOverMyHammies7
    MoonOverMyHammies7 Posts: 587 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    Say I am thinking about getting some work done. (You could even throw in what ever you think they had done.)Do you know a good surgeon?
  • MoonOverMyHammies7
    MoonOverMyHammies7 Posts: 587 Member
    Ladies...

    Do you prefer a guy that is...

    A: Crazy into and needy for you, with no life...

    B: Barely has time for you because he's got too much *kitten* going on irl...

    It depends on what stage of the relationship you are in. If itโ€™s early on the needy one because you are needy too. Later on GTFO and have a life Iโ€™m busy. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ keep it real
  • Bananabeats
    Bananabeats Posts: 73 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?



    My answer to that question is always: " How 'bout them Dodgers ?!"
  • Bananabeats
    Bananabeats Posts: 73 Member
    Safe answer!
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    May I ask why you want to know? The intention will power your approach.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    Guys: ?๐Ÿ˜
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    โ€œSomething looks different about you I donโ€™t know what it is.....โ€

    haha this works!
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    Say I am thinking about getting some work done. (You could even throw in what ever you think they had done.)Do you know a good surgeon?

    hmm It would be hilarious if I said I wanted pectoral implants
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    May I ask why you want to know? The intention will power your approach.

    She is a good friend and we hang out sometimes Now suddenly, she is sporting DDs and that's all I can think about when we are hanging out lol. You are bound to have questions in this situation right?
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    Guys: ?๐Ÿ˜

    ! :smirk:
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    If one ever asked me, I would be yes. My assumption would be, they're asking cause they actually want my opinion. Not just trying to inflate their ego.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    I'm a girl, but it sounds like the same as when a girl friend asking if her thighs/butt looks fat (in this outfit)...there may not be a "right" answer
    ...and yes, I lie - sometimes

    To be fair, I appreciate a lot of different body types, especially different from mine
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,393 Member
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    I'm a girl, but it sounds like the same as when a girl friend asking if her thighs/butt looks fat (in this outfit)...there may not be a "right" answer
    ...and yes, I lie - sometimes

    To be fair, I appreciate a lot of different body types, especially different from mine

    I don't lie, but I'm careful to phrase my answer as diplomatically as possible. "Those aren't the most flattering pants I've ever seen you wear but the colour/pattern/fabric/whatever is really nice... maybe if you wore them with a longer top?" or something like that.

    If I ask for an opinion, I am genuinely unsure and want an honest answer.
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    May I ask why you want to know? The intention will power your approach.

    She is a good friend and we hang out sometimes Now suddenly, she is sporting DDs and that's all I can think about when we are hanging out lol. You are bound to have questions in this situation right?

    Personally, if I genuinely thought she looked great or showed more confidence, then I'd compliment her with specifics. Likely in a loud and crass way (picture drunk drag queen energy with lots of hand-clapping and/or foot-stomping as well as calling her out of her name while pointing to her chest area, 'cuz I'm a classy *kitten*).

    You don't have to do all that and you know the energy/vibe between you two but once you compliment (again, I'd only do it if it's genuine) if she feels like sharing, then she will.

    However, I wouldn't press for who, what, when, where and why unless I had health concerns for her.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    Dude...

    You're so freaking hilarious, if you can't pull that off... I don't think anyone can ๐Ÿ˜‚...

    But of course, you could always ask her through text and use emojis like... ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘…๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿค—โœŒ๐Ÿผโฌ†๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’... ๐Ÿ˜‚
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys: ?๐Ÿ˜

    Definitely ๐Ÿ”ฅ
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited April 2020
    Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?

    Honestly, sometimes honesty really isn't the best policy... Tbh
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    edited April 2020
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    Dude...

    You're so freaking hilarious, if you can't pull that off... I don't think anyone can ๐Ÿ˜‚...

    But of course, you could always ask her through text and use emojis like... ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘…๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿค—โœŒ๐Ÿผโฌ†๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’... ๐Ÿ˜‚

    Like this too but...how would one clearly express the reference to the tig ole biddies though?

    โžฟ๐Ÿ‘€
    ๐Ÿ”

    Edit: found some more emoji to add lol
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?

    Dude...

    You're so freaking hilarious, if you can't pull that off... I don't think anyone can ๐Ÿ˜‚...

    But of course, you could always ask her through text and use emojis like... ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘…๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿค—โœŒ๐Ÿผโฌ†๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’... ๐Ÿ˜‚

    Like this too but...how would one clearly express the reference to the tig ole biddies though?

    โžฟ๐Ÿ‘€
    ๐Ÿ”

    Edit: found some more emoji to add lol

    Why not just say it...your 00 look amazing. Have you done anything?