Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: ยปPlentyofProtein00 wrote: ยป
I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type
In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโs a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโt have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโll have nothing.
This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.
Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?
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XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: ยปTwitchyMacGee wrote: ยปPlentyofProtein00 wrote: ยป
I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type
In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโs a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโt have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโll have nothing.
This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.
Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?
I get your reasoning but donโt do yourself a disservice based on the assumption that someday youโll be less busy. In my experience, that elusive someday never comes0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: ยปXxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: ยปTwitchyMacGee wrote: ยปPlentyofProtein00 wrote: ยป
I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type
In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโs a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโt have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโll have nothing.
This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.
Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?
I get your reasoning but donโt do yourself a disservice based on the assumption that someday youโll be less busy. In my experience, that elusive someday never comes
For some, or many, this holds true. In my case, I would disagree. Prior to relocating to where I'm at now, I had an exceptionally busy schedule that left little downtime. If something threw my schedule off, I had no free time to react or do at a different time. Most times, I was lucky to get four hours of sleep a night.
When I relocated, I resigned not only from my full-time job. But, also from the fire department I was a member of and the local Ski Patrol. As well as other volunteer work I did.
Where I'm at now, I am only working my full-time job. Have no plans to get involved with things as I did before. I gave up a lot of myself for years and am now content with working my job and having free time to get back into hobbies I gave up to join the fire department and ski patrol. Now that I have time, I'm much more open to the possibility of a relationship.6 -
XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: ยปGettinLean19 wrote: ยปXxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: ยปTwitchyMacGee wrote: ยปPlentyofProtein00 wrote: ยป
I know, I meant it as I glad they chose the "non clingy" type
In the beginning everyone is overzealous but Itโs a lot of pressure if a guy doesnโt have much of a life outside of me. I worry if we break up heโll have nothing.
This has never been me. If I'm in a relationship, I've always tried to maintain a balance between time with them and personal interests. There's always sometimes where can't maintain it. But, that should be the exception and not the rule.
Up until a few months ago, I had too much going on in my life to give time to a relationship. So, I avoided them. Couldn't justify bringing someone into my life when I had no time to give, so why cause unnecessary resentment or pain?
I get your reasoning but donโt do yourself a disservice based on the assumption that someday youโll be less busy. In my experience, that elusive someday never comes
For some, or many, this holds true. In my case, I would disagree. Prior to relocating to where I'm at now, I had an exceptionally busy schedule that left little downtime. If something threw my schedule off, I had no free time to react or do at a different time. Most times, I was lucky to get four hours of sleep a night.
When I relocated, I resigned not only from my full-time job. But, also from the fire department I was a member of and the local Ski Patrol. As well as other volunteer work I did.
Where I'm at now, I am only working my full-time job. Have no plans to get involved with things as I did before. I gave up a lot of myself for years and am now content with working my job and having free time to get back into hobbies I gave up to join the fire department and ski patrol. Now that I have time, I'm much more open to the possibility of a relationship.
Gotcha. Good for you!3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปr3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: ยปMr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปLadies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Pretending to be too busy for you is a flirting technique? This explains so much!
Well I never claimed to be good at it ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ...
Sorry I'll have to explain further later... Got some important things to take care of ๐
Cute...really really cute ๐๐2 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: ยปMr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปr3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: ยปMr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปLadies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Pretending to be too busy for you is a flirting technique? This explains so much!
Well I never claimed to be good at it ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ...
Sorry I'll have to explain further later... Got some important things to take care of ๐
Cute...really really cute ๐๐
It's the emojis ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ...
Otherwise sometimes people tend to take me to literal and seriously ๐ค2 -
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Ha
I don't "need" to be taken care of. I can take care of myself. I don't know how to do anything related to fixing a car or changing tires/oil/etc..... but I know where to go to get those things done. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
I will say, however, that for me personally...... a man who knows how to do things, fix things, build things, etc....
Men who are handy = sexy.
I may not "need" him to do things, but having a man who can do those things is hot.
And handy.
And appreciated.
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Preach.
Yaaaaasss!Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปLadies...
Do you prefer a guy that is...
A: Crazy into and needy for you, with no life...
B: Barely has time for you because he's got too much *kitten* going on irl...
Neither, I'd rather be alone.
If he's clingy it would drive me crazy, and if he doesn't have time for me why should I make time for him?
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It looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?1
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happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
โSomething looks different about you I donโt know what it is.....โ0 -
happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
Say I am thinking about getting some work done. (You could even throw in what ever you think they had done.)Do you know a good surgeon?1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปLadies...
Do you prefer a guy that is...
A: Crazy into and needy for you, with no life...
B: Barely has time for you because he's got too much *kitten* going on irl...
It depends on what stage of the relationship you are in. If itโs early on the needy one because you are needy too. Later on GTFO and have a life Iโm busy. ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ keep it real
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Guys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?0
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Bananabeats wrote: ยปGuys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?
My answer to that question is always: " How 'bout them Dodgers ?!"2 -
Safe answer!0
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happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
May I ask why you want to know? The intention will power your approach.0 -
Guys: ?๐0
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happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
โSomething looks different about you I donโt know what it is.....โ
haha this works!1 -
happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
Say I am thinking about getting some work done. (You could even throw in what ever you think they had done.)Do you know a good surgeon?
hmm It would be hilarious if I said I wanted pectoral implants0 -
happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
May I ask why you want to know? The intention will power your approach.
She is a good friend and we hang out sometimes Now suddenly, she is sporting DDs and that's all I can think about when we are hanging out lol. You are bound to have questions in this situation right?1 -
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Bananabeats wrote: ยปGuys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?
If one ever asked me, I would be yes. My assumption would be, they're asking cause they actually want my opinion. Not just trying to inflate their ego.1 -
Bananabeats wrote: ยปGuys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?
I'm a girl, but it sounds like the same as when a girl friend asking if her thighs/butt looks fat (in this outfit)...there may not be a "right" answer
...and yes, I lie - sometimes
To be fair, I appreciate a lot of different body types, especially different from mine
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Bananabeats wrote: ยปGuys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?
I'm a girl, but it sounds like the same as when a girl friend asking if her thighs/butt looks fat (in this outfit)...there may not be a "right" answer
...and yes, I lie - sometimes
To be fair, I appreciate a lot of different body types, especially different from mine
I don't lie, but I'm careful to phrase my answer as diplomatically as possible. "Those aren't the most flattering pants I've ever seen you wear but the colour/pattern/fabric/whatever is really nice... maybe if you wore them with a longer top?" or something like that.
If I ask for an opinion, I am genuinely unsure and want an honest answer.2 -
happimess01 wrote: ยปhappimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
May I ask why you want to know? The intention will power your approach.
She is a good friend and we hang out sometimes Now suddenly, she is sporting DDs and that's all I can think about when we are hanging out lol. You are bound to have questions in this situation right?
Personally, if I genuinely thought she looked great or showed more confidence, then I'd compliment her with specifics. Likely in a loud and crass way (picture drunk drag queen energy with lots of hand-clapping and/or foot-stomping as well as calling her out of her name while pointing to her chest area, 'cuz I'm a classy *kitten*).
You don't have to do all that and you know the energy/vibe between you two but once you compliment (again, I'd only do it if it's genuine) if she feels like sharing, then she will.
However, I wouldn't press for who, what, when, where and why unless I had health concerns for her.0 -
happimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
Dude...
You're so freaking hilarious, if you can't pull that off... I don't think anyone can ๐...
But of course, you could always ask her through text and use emojis like... ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ค๐ฌ๐ฑ๐๐๐โค๏ธ๐๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ผ๐คจ๐คโ๐ผโฌ๏ธ๐ฎ๐๐... ๐4 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: ยปGuys: ?๐
Definitely ๐ฅ0 -
Bananabeats wrote: ยปGuys: are you honest when a lady doesn't look good in a dress and asks for your opinion?
Honestly, sometimes honesty really isn't the best policy... Tbh3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปhappimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
Dude...
You're so freaking hilarious, if you can't pull that off... I don't think anyone can ๐...
But of course, you could always ask her through text and use emojis like... ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ค๐ฌ๐ฑ๐๐๐โค๏ธ๐๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ผ๐คจ๐คโ๐ผโฌ๏ธ๐ฎ๐๐... ๐
Like this too but...how would one clearly express the reference to the tig ole biddies though?
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Edit: found some more emoji to add lol1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: ยปhappimess01 wrote: ยปIt looks to me like one of my friends got plastic surgery but I can't be sure. What is a polite way to ask her without coming across as a perv?
Dude...
You're so freaking hilarious, if you can't pull that off... I don't think anyone can ๐...
But of course, you could always ask her through text and use emojis like... ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ค๐ฌ๐ฑ๐๐๐โค๏ธ๐๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ผ๐คจ๐คโ๐ผโฌ๏ธ๐ฎ๐๐... ๐
Like this too but...how would one clearly express the reference to the tig ole biddies though?
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Edit: found some more emoji to add lol
Why not just say it...your 00 look amazing. Have you done anything?1
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