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sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
i have major insecurity in how i look and sometimes even hate my body and have been told like * a lot * that its a major turn off and i can def see why bc confident people are more attractive. i basically have just learned to fake confidence sometimes but that *kitten* wears me out so mostly i avoid it all
The older I get the less insecurity I have. Who has the energy for all of that? I have stretch marks, acne, scars, deflated boobs and cellulite just like everyone else. Absolutely next to nothing I can do about all of that. What I have less time for is anyone who would look at those things and fault me for them.
You are an absolutely gorgeous woman with a larger than life personality. Don't waste another moment caught up in the cycle of insecurity.5 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
I have a lot of "flaws" but figured out at a young age its probably better to not draw people's attention to them, like don't say "I hate my *kitten*", then other people may look at your *kitten* any think " she's right, her *kitten* sucks". Dosen't mean I'm confident tho.
Learned this from hearing my friends critiquing themselves, like I never payed attention to Kelly's big thighs or Angie's nose especially, until they pointed it out.3 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
i have major insecurity in how i look and sometimes even hate my body and have been told like * a lot * that its a major turn off and i can def see why bc confident people are more attractive. i basically have just learned to fake confidence sometimes but that *kitten* wears me out so mostly i avoid it all
The older I get the less insecurity I have. Who has the energy for all of that? I have stretch marks, acne, scars, deflated boobs and cellulite just like everyone else. Absolutely next to nothing I can do about all of that. What I have less time for is anyone who would look at those things and fault me for them.
You are an absolutely gorgeous woman with a larger than life personality. Don't waste another moment caught up in the cycle of insecurity.
^^ This. All of it.
If you've been welcomed to my bed and/or I've agreed to enter your space, you had better be grateful to whichever higher power you communicate with that the opportunity to share our bodies and energy has presented itself.
Everyone has flaws as much as everyone has strengths.5 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?5 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
It's usually the flaws she has that I really appreciate about her the most...
So if she's always hiding them and never embraces them... It may be a problem...3 -
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ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man4 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
okay but what if he also has a mustache
this mustache:
and he is VERY happy with his look3 -
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ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
Introduce him to my newly found interest in millinery. But only if he's into cufflinks. Otherwise, forget it altogether.3 -
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I mean.. I'd probably keep his phone number in case I'm drunk and bored some night but we would definitely turn the lights off if he comes over.3 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
as long as he got that big lux boat in the keys i’m good
andGymGoddessGoals wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
i have major insecurity in how i look and sometimes even hate my body and have been told like * a lot * that its a major turn off and i can def see why bc confident people are more attractive. i basically have just learned to fake confidence sometimes but that *kitten* wears me out so mostly i avoid it all
The older I get the less insecurity I have. Who has the energy for all of that? I have stretch marks, acne, scars, deflated boobs and cellulite just like everyone else. Absolutely next to nothing I can do about all of that. What I have less time for is anyone who would look at those things and fault me for them.
You are an absolutely gorgeous woman with a larger than life personality. Don't waste another moment caught up in the cycle of insecurity.
thank you, this was really sweet of u to say ♥️6 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
okay but what if he also has a mustache
this mustache:
and he is VERY happy with his look
I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.
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ETA: Otherwise, forget it altogether.2 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
okay but what if he also has a mustache
this mustache:
and he is VERY happy with his look
I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.
oh no he doesn't like doing that either2 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
okay but what if he also has a mustache
this mustache:
and he is VERY happy with his look
I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.
oh no he doesn't like doing that either
How in the hell do I "like him a lot" then?
Fake news.4 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
okay but what if he also has a mustache
this mustache:
and he is VERY happy with his look
I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.
oh no he doesn't like doing that either
How in the hell do I "like him a lot" then?
Fake news.
i just figured yall would be attracted to his confidence ¯\_(ツ)_/¯4 -
ladies-
you like him a lot.
but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
and- he rocks the worlds worst combover
but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.
what ya'll doin?
100% in. Your hair, your way!
...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
okay but what if he also has a mustache
this mustache:
and he is VERY happy with his look
Ok, well the lip liner look flavor saver is a deal changer
...either I get him drunk and shave it and tell him he did it
Or
I barter with him, to change anything he wants about me
*eta (for him to shave it)4 -
I’ve been to that mustache’s bookstore this year but I didn’t buy anything cause I was parked illegally4
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Girls:
A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package
But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:
Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver
And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo
Next move?5
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