I'm too sexual looking...........accusation from a gym membe

can you wear the spandex and then a loose pair of running shorts over it?

I've done that. Only problem is that every few kicks, I'm pulling my shorts back up (they slide because of the spandex) and they are kinda hard to pull up with boxing gloves on. I may have no choice depending on whether or not my supervisor tells me that I have to wear shorts.

Or..you could just wear the shorts..so when you do a high kick she sees your wang. Then she might be okay with the spandex.

I say you wear something that will please the person complaining, BUT wear this shirt to go with it!

Wear this next time, I'm sure she'll love it.

This yellow thong thing!! When I scrolled down? LMFAO!!! I think I peed myself.

That's freaking awesome!!! I was gonna suggest tight spandex where the crotch was neon orange! Or a pair with a neon target right on your "junk!" What's she doin starin at your "junk" for anyway? You should complain to your manager that this customer is sexually harassing you by staring at your "junk" and turning you into a sexual object!!! That just may fly there in Cali!!

Hopefully she's in one of your classes!! You can turn the difficultity/intensity level up by at least a factor of 10! And when she falls out say, "oh may bad! My CPR/AED cert expired yesterday!"

Maybe you should refrain from teaching classes in spandex with an erection.

LOLOLOLOLL

Please know this is in no way intended to criticize the OP. His comment about allowing the supe deal with it was excellent! Sorry you're going through this, BTW. Dragging yourself to the gym is hard enough without additional hoops to jump through.

However, this thread amuses me, there is a whole lot of assumption going on here. We know a complaint was filed. But from there...It was rumored who it may be. It is believed that person is religious. If religious, then the only complaint they could possible have must be related to sexuality. If they have an issue with sexuality, it is only because they are lusting. Because they are lusting they are a hypocrite. Because they engaged in hypocrisy, all their claims are automatically without merit...Woah!

How about this one? If you advise not to stare someone down on a rumor...then you must be a lawyer or tree hugger! I can assure you I'm not an attorney, although I do recycle...so I'll let you be the judge.

I happen to think it is very likely the person who complained is a nut. Ninerbuff said there has only been one and if what he was doing was that outrageous certainly someone else would have come forward. However, the complainer, whoever (s)he is, should always have the freedom to voice their opinion. Admittedly, it would have been better to address one on one first but for whatever reason they did not do that. The problem lies with the management passing it along. They should either dismiss the complaint or provide concrete feedback on how Ninerbuff needs to change.

But if you poke the bear to much he's gonna rear up!

You are not a bear. You are a person with a brain who can use logic and reason. Rearing up is inappropriate for anyone past the sage of toddler.

Do I not have the right to face my accuser and hold them accountable for their words or actions?

This is not a court of law so no you don't. Had the club told the complainer they had to address it personally, then he would. But this is not the way the management chose to address this situation.

So, I rear up to meet force on force and defend myself and all of a sudden your the victim?

This is not about me, so no, I am not a victim. Voicing a complaint, ludicrous as it may be, is not force on force. Neither is staring someone down (that's passive-aggressive.)

is it wrong to meet force on force?

No, but it is wrong to intentionally intimidate those we disagree with.

Dave351, I've answered your questions, will you answer mine?

Ninerbuff didn't say he was gonna intimidate anyone. Staring her down? Big freaking deal!!

If not for intimidation, then what's the purpose?

Peace!

yet Im sure its fine for some college girl to run around in booty shorts????

I would not be offended as long as everything is not "bulging out". I wear compression shorts like that, but I wear shorts over them. I feel too underdressed with just compression shorts alone.

If I were you I would approach the old lady and do what Adam Sandler did in "You don't mess with the zohan" and just rub your junk against the old lady!

wow really, i have seen men and women wear far less clothing. I feel that you actually are very appropriate for the gym!

Thery are just hatin' on you, lmao

For fun and to weed out the weak!

Semper Fi!!

Semper Fi? The U.S. Marine Corps now finds it fun to intimidate the weak? I can't believe that's the attitude of most of the fine people who wear the uniform.

...in those days intimidation was the greatest tool the drill instructor had.
R. Lee Ermey

Hahahahaha! Ya got me there h82bfat!!! I offer my sincerest apologies for aggrevating your sensibilities or your tree hugger status. Whichever the case may be! Was just going to move on, but, you're persistent! I fear you toss around your "belief" of "THE uniform" without having much knowledge of it. Maybe "A" uniform but not "THE" uniform.

Sworn to uphold the Constitution of the United States...Protect this country against all enemies foreign and domestic...God, Country, Corps. Yup, the weak are certainly in there and I have spent nearly the past 30 years of my life protecting them on 3 continents (4 if you count exercises/intimidation against N. Korea) in 3 armed conflicts. I figured a smart comment deserved one in kind. You jumped straight to questioning the Marine Corps. When you wrote "Peace" I pictured a balding middle aged guy sittin around in his skivvies, smoking dope and eating twinkies...but I didn't voice that. Peace and Semper Fi seemed like 2 stellar opposites to me.

I do not speak for the Marine Corps as you so boldly assume. I will say that thru your comments there is much you do not know about it. As with all special military units (as well as the Marines) the weak are weeded out. They are usually sent to be IT people or admin folks. Our country intimidates the rest of the world every day, but not within it's own borders! Well, that's not true. Gangs and the police use violence and intimidation as a tool everyday (generally speaking)!

OK, I'm so over being butt hurt about your Marine comment. Rest assured they are a group of outstanding, hard charging and highly motivated individuals and that I am the *kitten* here!

Yes h82bfat, i can reason. I can use logic. I can use these tools to resolve issues. However, cross me and I am very much a bear...and not in the sexual meaning of that word. Threaten my family, threaten the money, food, or shelter that I provide for my family and you will see what "Teufel Hunden" really means. That's not a threat against you so dont go running for the moderator! Ninerbuff has been an instructor for a long time. Not to slam him but he's probably been wearing the same type gear for a long time as well. Never been a problem...til now. You're right, management did the right thing...absolutely! Not saying that it's right but if someone attacked me verbally or physically I would not roll over. I would unleash hell! I think that I have earned the right to wear a thong to the gym if I so desire-not that I would! If someone finds it offensive then they should approach me and express that. Is it not passive aggressive, OR, more accurately, obstructionism to attack my choice of gym wear (when it's never been an issue) by complaining to my boss by whatever vehicle or program instead of just saying, "Ahhh, do ya think you can cover your junk up?" It used to be that if someone had a problem with someone else they would either not have anything to do with them or they would express their dissatisfaction to that individual. Now a days a lot of folks feel entitled to say something from afar, or thru the net, or from the safety of a program. They use these vehicles to attack someone's professionalism or credibility without ever trying to deal with an issue on the lowest possible level. It has nothing to do with a court of law. If the means by which I provide for myself and my family are being threatened then I believe that I have every right to know who is doing me harm. But I realize that our country has moved away from that towards something more along the lines of "I can say and do anything I want to you without penality or accountability. I can seek to destroy your life, credibility or reputation without you ever knowing who I am."

my opionion is no man should be wearing spandex. ever............

i mean seriously, do you want to be more aerodynamic or something? try a pair of butt hugers and a regular pair of shorts man.

Good thing is that your opinion isn't as valuable to me as you think it is. Thanks of looking though.

thats pretty obvious by your choice in gym wear.

thats pretty obvious by your choice in gym wear.

Women like it. I'm not trying to attract your attention.

well now why you gotta go and ruin my day

im truly dissappointed

You fellas want me to get a ruler so you can settle this?