Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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My takeaway.....just don’t compliment people in that way. I don’t want to give people the wrong idea. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s not necessary to say anything really I suppose.
That's generally my approach too, which is unfortunate because I think compliments should be more freely given. But it seems like someone is always looking for something between the lines, and nothing is always safe, so...1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »My takeaway.....just don’t compliment people in that way. I don’t want to give people the wrong idea. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s not necessary to say anything really I suppose.
I was just legitimately confused...😅
I will no longer speak as I could be flirting, I could be insulting. I have no idea anymore😬
Just say 'nice toes' everybody wants to be complimented on their toes. And if toes are out of sight, nice ears?2 -
My takeaway.....just don’t compliment people in that way. I don’t want to give people the wrong idea. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s not necessary to say anything really I suppose.
That's generally my approach too, which is unfortunate because I think compliments should be more freely given. But it seems like someone is always looking for something between the lines, and nothing is always safe, so...
Agree with this! It's too easy for everybody to get the wrong idea these days.
No more 'nice hair', 'you eat soup so quietly', 'nice way strutting your stuff'.
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My takeaway.....just don’t compliment people in that way. I don’t want to give people the wrong idea. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s not necessary to say anything really I suppose.
That's generally my approach too, which is unfortunate because I think compliments should be more freely given. But it seems like someone is always looking for something between the lines, and nothing is always safe, so...
I was at Walmart a few months ago and I was standing in the bread section minding my own business wondering what bread I wanted to buy, an older man who worked there came up to me and said "please don't take this the wrong way but I find you extremely beautiful" he smiled then went on his way. The way he delivered his compliment was so respectful and I absolutely appreciated him telling me not to take it the wrong way. I understand why he felt the need to tell me this as I also been approached and been told "damn girl, you fine" all while getting looked at up and down. I think complimenting a stranger is a pretty great thing. So many times I've been complimented and those people didn't know that I was feeling so depressed and that little "I like your nails" went a long way for me. A stranger made me smile when I most needed it and they didn't even know it. I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you want to compliment someone do it. Your words could impact a person in the most positive of ways.8 -
Walmart bread section.
Noted.
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Alright, I'll be the anti-social one.
There are times and places where I like talking to people I don't know, but those don't include the grocery store (or, for that matter, any other store, public transportation, libraries, etc...). Gym would be borderline.
And yes, that does apply to attractive women. It might be an ego boost later on but at the time you're just freaking me out.2 -
ladies of mfp
would you prefer him to be overly toxic or kinda a doormat?
(no in betweens & honest answers only pls im trynna see something)
Toxic is horrible, so I would go with doormat and do my best to work with him on it. I've been a doormat before, so I get it. I feel like toxic people want to hurt other for what's best for themselves, and doormats do what is best for others at risk of making themselves unhappy. I would rather someone too selfless than selfish.2 -
Guys,
What kind of body type do you like for women? I'm always curious. Obviously I would never change for a man but I do wonder what they prefer.0 -
My taste has broadened as I've gotten older. I used to be really into tall, lanky women but now there's some room in my wheelhouse for Lizzo walking out of a floating sushi boat restaurant.Guys,
What kind of body type do you like for women? I'm always curious. Obviously I would never change for a man but I do wonder what they prefer.5 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »chuckle_bunny wrote: »
My taste has broadened as I've gotten older. I used to be really into tall, lanky women but now there's some room in my wheelhouse for Lizzo walking out of a floating sushi boat restaurant.Guys,
What kind of body type do you like for women? I'm always curious. Obviously I would never change for a man but I do wonder what they prefer.
I'm a girl but as I've aged ive grown to appreciate all body types. There seems something sexy about the unique curve or muslce or style of a woman's body1 -
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Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »
@eatpolerepeat
ETA: This post was relatable. I remember reaching above the stove (when I was 9 months pregnant) and catching my big belly on fire ...true store...also "insightful"
Okay but have you ever put the cereal in the fridge and the milk in the cupboard? That’s when things get real scaryfor real though, gives new meaning to having a bun in the oven. Did you get hurt??also..
Hi! ❤️2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »chuckle_bunny wrote: »
My taste has broadened as I've gotten older. I used to be really into tall, lanky women but now there's some room in my wheelhouse for Lizzo walking out of a floating sushi boat restaurant.Guys,
What kind of body type do you like for women? I'm always curious. Obviously I would never change for a man but I do wonder what they prefer.
I'm a girl but as I've aged ive grown to appreciate all body types. There seems something sexy about the unique curve or muslce or style of a woman's body
I agree with this. I used to prefer all feminine all the way but lately I’ve found myself really attracted to more stereotypically masculine body types, let me see if I can find a recent example
Edit: ok the one I was thinking about is a fairly controversial celebrity so I won’t go there but take Ruby Rose for example1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »
@eatpolerepeat
ETA: This post was relatable. I remember reaching above the stove (when I was 9 months pregnant) and catching my big belly on fire ...true store...also "insightful"
Okay but have you ever put the cereal in the fridge and the milk in the cupboard? That’s when things get real scaryfor real though, gives new meaning to having a bun in the oven. Did you get hurt??also..
Hi! ❤️
When I was pregnant I put Tabasco sauce in our bathroom linen closet. Like... how does that even happen?? 🤣 I still get reminded of that mistake 😑🤣2 -
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
How. Do. I. Pee?3 -
Simply pull one of the back straps over your head, then slide your arm (one at a time) underneath the arm straps. Now, from this point, you have a few options before you're free to tinkle. You can either continue destrapping all the straps until someone walks into the locker room and says "WTF is going on here" OR you can shimmy out of the dang gone thing like you're in a Paula Abdul video. A lot of this will depend on how urgent the situation is.GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
How. Do. I. Pee?6 -
chuckle_bunny wrote: »
Simply pull one of the back straps over your head, then slide your arm (one at a time) underneath the arm straps. Now, from this point, (*)you have a few options before you're free to tinkle. You can either continue destrapping all the straps until someone walks into the locker room and says "WTF is going on here" OR you can shimmy out of the dang gone thing like you're in a Paula Abdul video. A lot of this will depend on how urgent the situation is.GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
How. Do. I. Pee?
(*) indicates the exact moment I peed myself before getting to the bathroom stall 🤷🏿♀️5 -
chuckle_bunny wrote: »
Simply pull one of the back straps over your head, then slide your arm (one at a time) underneath the arm straps. Now, from this point, you have a few options before you're free to tinkle. You can either continue destrapping all the straps until someone walks into the locker room and says "WTF is going on here" OR you can shimmy out of the dang gone thing like you're in a Paula Abdul video. A lot of this will depend on how urgent the situation is.GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
How. Do. I. Pee?
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
All the nope. I've never been able to wear one-piece anything because of my height, jumpsuits, rompers or whatever, so there's just no way I'd be comfortable working out in that.0 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
I can 8magine things creeping in all the wrong places...id probably look like a 7 day old rolled up tube of ground meat in plastic wrap.3 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
I can 8magine things creeping in all the wrong places...id probably look like a 7 day old rolled up tube of ground meat in plastic wrap.
Yeah I look at them and fear the busted can of biscuits look.0 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
How yall feel about this new trend in workout gear? Unitards for lifting?
I can 8magine things creeping in all the wrong places...id probably look like a 7 day old rolled up tube of ground meat in plastic wrap.
Yeah I look at them and fear the busted can of biscuits look.
As long as that popping sound doesn't come with it.
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Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?1
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twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
🤔 I've not been on any dating apps (where, legend has it, 🍆 pics are unfortunately abundant) and I rarely frequent gyms but of the two...it would be the advice.3 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?3 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆5 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
You may wish to avail yourself the use of a comma to delineate time from advice.4
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