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The New Singles Hangout...Come & Mingle

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  • Posts: 2,540 Member

    Oh it got better.. he met a new woman and she fell pregnant. His way of telling my kids was so kind and thoughtful.
    He proceeded to tell them they'd never amount to much because they have too much of me in them and that he was starting another family, a better family.
    Of course, the fact that 3 of the 4 chose not to speak to him these past many years is obviously my fault 🙄

    Oh.. he was a peach alright. 😒
    Sorry, tmi 😬 the one thing that can still rile me is what he put my kids through. 😠

    Its stories like these that make me thankful that my ex wife and I are such good friends. I'm so sorry Jo. People can be so thoughtless and cruel. If I'm ever in Australia I'll pay him a visit.
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    J_NY_Z wrote: »

    Its stories like these that make me thankful that my ex wife and I are such good friends. I'm so sorry Jo. People can be so thoughtless and cruel. If I'm ever in Australia I'll pay him a visit.

    Thank you.. its all good though, he's someone else's problem 😆
  • Posts: 3,684 Member
    Mingle mingle
  • Posts: 587 Member

    Aww 😔 Divorce is a tough emotional time ..big hugs girl 🤗

    Thank you 😊 your always so sweet.
  • Posts: 587 Member

    *You’re
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    jcrav77 wrote: »
    *You’re

    🤗😙

    Psst a little tip.. see that cog top right corner of your text box... near the 3 dots, click on it and you can edit your post for 1 hour 🙂
  • Posts: 587 Member

    Oh it got better.. he met a new woman and she fell pregnant. His way of telling my kids was so kind and thoughtful.
    He proceeded to tell them they'd never amount to much because they have too much of me in them and that he was starting another family, a better family.
    Of course, the fact that 3 of the 4 chose not to speak to him these past many years is obviously my fault 🙄

    Oh.. he was a peach alright. 😒
    Sorry, tmi 😬 the one thing that can still rile me is what he put my kids through. 😠

    Oh goodness Jo yours sounds a lot like mine. He wants to start a new family with someone he met 3 weeks ago because she makes more money than I do. I am a nurse and make a decent living but apparently it wasn’t enough for him. Things mean so much more to him than people. We are better off without him. I’m on the road to happiness. So glad you and the kids are better off. Hugs 🤗
  • Posts: 587 Member
    terrordawg wrote: »
    Aww, I just popped in here, and happened to see all these messages of support around divorce ❤️ It is definitely a difficult/painful ordeal. Still screws my head up sometimes.

    @jcrav77 @PlentyofProtein00 @slimgirljo15 and @J_NY_Z it’s really nice to hear your stories. It’s been almost 2 years since my split, and I’m slowly starting to feel like myself again but older, wiser, stronger 💪 (and still learning). Covid made things doubly hard, since I couldn’t really surround myself with friends/support (there were SO many days where I just wanted a damn hug 😭) but also gave me time to reflect and focus on myself, and what I want/need out of future relationships. It’s been a pretty interesting, transformative experience for me, both mentally and emotionally. Almost out of the trenches! 😊

    Anyway, just wanted to say thanks! You guys are awesome ❤️❤️❤️

    Big hugs to you. We will be ok.
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    jcrav77 wrote: »

    Oh goodness Jo yours sounds a lot like mine. He wants to start a new family with someone he met 3 weeks ago because she makes more money than I do. I am a nurse and make a decent living but apparently it wasn’t enough for him. Things mean so much more to him than people. We are better off without him. I’m on the road to happiness. So glad you and the kids are better off. Hugs 🤗

    You absolutely are better off without toxic, negative stuff in your life.. its tough for a while.. but its so worth the peace you get. 🤗
  • Posts: 587 Member

    🤗😙

    Psst a little tip.. see that cog top right corner of your text box... near the 3 dots, click on it and you can edit your post for 1 hour 🙂

    Thank you. I have been trying to figure that out lol
  • Posts: 587 Member
    J_NY_Z wrote: »

    Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.

    😉 So much
  • Posts: 587 Member

    You absolutely are better off without toxic, negative stuff in your life.. its tough for a while.. but its so worth the peace you get. 🤗

    So true. Thank you so much for all of the support. Thank you to everyone in here. Some great supportive people. 🥰
  • Posts: 7,164 Member

    Oh it got better.. he met a new woman and she fell pregnant. His way of telling my kids was so kind and thoughtful.
    He proceeded to tell them they'd never amount to much because they have too much of me in them and that he was starting another family, a better family.
    Of course, the fact that 3 of the 4 chose not to speak to him these past many years is obviously my fault 🙄

    Oh.. he was a peach alright. 😒
    Sorry, tmi 😬 the one thing that can still rile me is what he put my kids through. 😠

    🤗🤗🤗 :smooched:
    Glad you a rid of that d bag
  • Posts: 269,456 Member

    🤗🤗🤗 :smooched:
    Glad you a rid of that d bag

    Me too 😄 I see his wife sometimes shopping and can't help but feel sorry for her 😏
  • Posts: 7,164 Member
    I think it took me about 3.5 years to recover after the divorce. Doing the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence was like my final purge.
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    I think it took me about 3.5 years to recover after the divorce. Doing the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence was like my final purge.

    🤗❤
  • Posts: 2,540 Member
    I think it took me about 3.5 years to recover after the divorce. Doing the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence was like my final purge.

    I'm seven years post split, nearly 4 since the actual divorce. I'm the one who initiated it and I still struggle all the time.
  • Posts: 846 Member

    🤗😙

    Psst a little tip...🙂

    If I had a dollar for every time @slimgirljo15 started a conversation that way...

    Hello 'minglers'
  • Posts: 269,456 Member

    If I had a dollar for every time @slimgirljo15 started a conversation that way...

    Hello 'minglers'

    😆😁 🤫 shhhh Stan
  • Posts: 52 Member
    Mingle mingle

    You sure know how to mingle lol
  • Posts: 2,466 Member
    jcrav77 wrote: »

    So true. Thank you so much for all of the support. Thank you to everyone in here. Some great supportive people. 🥰

    Yep, there's some good people here. :)
  • Posts: 54 Member
    So single that not even the NSFW spam accounts want to mingle with me :D
  • Posts: 214 Member
    Hello!
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    ajlmfp22 wrote: »
    So single that not even the NSFW spam accounts want to mingle with me :D

    :laugh: too funny
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    Morning Singletons :)
  • Posts: 71 Member
    Hello All!
  • Posts: 7,164 Member
    We got some new faces here. Nice to see you all! Welcome and pull up a chair. I'm going to get some coffee; who wants?
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited April 2021
    We got some new faces here. Nice to see you all! Welcome and pull up a chair. I'm going to get some coffee; who wants?

    I'll take one thanks Nadine 😙
  • Posts: 846 Member
    edited April 2021

    I'll take one thanks Nadine 😙

    :confounded:@slimgirljo15 ... you'll take one of the new faces ?? :confused: Seems kinda unnecessarily graphic when your existing face seems to be doin' just fine as it is.

    (g'morning single folk)
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