At Goal & Successfully Maintaining. So Why Am I Doing This All Over Again?
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@wunderkindking I love your post!
As promised: down 3 pounds 4 oz overnight, despite the calorie glut. Disregard the 130 goal. I looked like a female Stretch Armstrong toy at that weight. *shudder*
BTW, I fully expect to be up a little tomorrow because that’s the pattern I’m used to as the big overages burn off.7 -
I spent a week away from home. I did pretty well with staying within limits while we were gone, but the long travel days led to lots of roadtrip carb snacking. And then Easter happened.... There was candy... and brownies... and more candy... and snickerdoodles....
Anyway, my first weigh-in at home post-gluttony has me up 2 pounds. We'll see how long it lasts. I'm not worried. I'm confident that it will go away, since all that sugar comes with a ton of water.
Edit: Sorry, hit post too soon! I meant to add a thanks to you all for the discussion. It reminded me to not beat myself up over the Easter candy madness, but to use it as a tool to watch how my body responds. I'm very close to the maintenance phase of things, so this "data" will prove useful then.8 -
Love the conversations here. Such great "food for thought". I manage better when I know I can have an indulgence meal once a week. I'm at a bit of a plateau right now, mainly because I'm grazing a bit too much in the evening. I'm adjusting by eating my dinner just a little later so that I'm not hungry before I go to bed.
My vacation is coming up and I'll be gone for two weeks. I'm planning to enjoy it, but to shrink my portions down a little from what I would have eaten in the past. I fully expect to gain some weight, but will be eager to get back at it once I return. It's a great time for a break and for a big trip now that things are opening up.
I can't wait to see how this impacts things. Always a learning experience.6 -
I love this thread.
In a plateau myself, have eaten more then I wanted with holiday goodness, however, I dont think it was too much to actually gain fat. Will wait a couple weeks and re-evaluate. Maybe now is the time to get a food scale and start accurately logging. (I try to choose the highest calorie amount on the items I am just not sure of). That might be eye popping.
Even with the plateau, I have confidence I am going in the right direction. I am confident I can do this. AND this is because of all of you awesome posters. Thanks for keeping it real, for all the wealth of knowledge of your life experiences and what science dictates. CICO. Thanks for all the fun food ideas.
Glad to see success stories. Glad to know BL scale is moving in the right direction and that all the maintainers can successfully maintain their weight in not so perfect world.6 -
From 139 on Sunday to 135 on Wednesday, simply by going back to plan and doing and eating same stuff as usual- which included a carefully recorded CookOut burger and onion rings meal for dinner last night.
Spending last week at an average 3600+ per day didn’t kill me. I didn’t fall off the wagon, I didn’t wake up fat, my clothes still fit.
Our bodies are very accommodating and resilient. I sometimes think they’re just so darn happy to have any love and attention after so many years of dietary abuse, that it’s their way of rewarding us. 🤔
Life happens.
Sometimes, ya just gotta enjoy the whole bag of Beaver Nuggets and then get over and past it. 🤷🏻♀️
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springlering62 wrote: »
From 139 on Sunday to 135 on Wednesday, simply by going back to plan and doing and eating same stuff as usual- which included a carefully recorded CookOut burger and onion rings meal for dinner last night.
Spending last week at an average 3600+ per day didn’t kill me. I didn’t fall off the wagon, I didn’t wake up fat, my clothes still fit.
Our bodies are very accommodating and resilient. I sometimes think they’re just so darn happy to have any love and attention after so many years of dietary abuse, that it’s their way of rewarding us. 🤔
Life happens.
Sometimes, ya just gotta enjoy the whole bag of Beaver Nuggets and then get over and past it. 🤷🏻♀️
This gives me a great deal of hope, thank you.
Also- yay Buc-ee’s!!2 -
springlering62 wrote: »
From 139 on Sunday to 135 on Wednesday, simply by going back to plan and doing and eating same stuff as usual- which included a carefully recorded CookOut burger and onion rings meal for dinner last night.
Spending last week at an average 3600+ per day didn’t kill me. I didn’t fall off the wagon, I didn’t wake up fat, my clothes still fit.
Our bodies are very accommodating and resilient. I sometimes think they’re just so darn happy to have any love and attention after so many years of dietary abuse, that it’s their way of rewarding us. 🤔
Life happens.
Sometimes, ya just gotta enjoy the whole bag of Beaver Nuggets and then get over and past it. 🤷🏻♀️
This gives me a great deal of hope, thank you.
Also- yay Buc-ee’s!!
Comically, before Tuesday I had no idea what Buc-ee's was. Had to be in Austin and San Antonio for work and was flummoxed when I drove past one on I-35 Tuesday afternoon. After being regaled of their wonder by a San Antonio-based colleague on Wednesday morning I stopped to see for myself on the way back to Austin that afternoon. Come to find out there opening one up here (Kentucky) about 90 minutes away, but near some friends we occasionally visit. Been a very Buc-ee's-centric week.
I didn't try the beaver nuggets but did sample some venison sausage that was quite good as a road trip snack.5 -
I've never heard of Buc-ee's. It's been months since I've traveled south (from MN here). Are they like "Corn Nuts"?1
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I've never heard of Buc-ee's. It's been months since I've traveled south (from MN here). Are they like "Corn Nuts"?
I'm from the West Coast and have never heard of the store or snack either. Just googled Beaver Nuggets: "A delectable puffy yet crunchy corn nugget with a brown sugar caramel coating"
Maybe sort-of a Cracker Jack version of Corn Nuts? Or maybe like the cereal, Sugar Smacks?
@springlering62 help us out!2 -
Think big ole Corn Pops smothered in caramel corn stuff that makes your teeth stick together.
A loving ode to the glories of corn syrup, which is the #2 ingredient. 😬.3 -
My Easter weekend splurge was a week ago. Today, I'm back to my pre-"eat all the candy" weight. So, one week of going back to normal eating and exercise, and I'm back to where I was. Like @springlering62 said, my clothes still fit, I didn't suddenly get fat. What you do MOST days is key. Have fun on the other days.6
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Arrived at the airport, weighed and checked all three suitcases. We are traveling unusually heavy, taking tubs of baby formula from here to there, since there is having supply chain shortages.
As we weighed the bags, I realized all three suitcases plus our various carry-on bags (including a disco ball - don’t even ask 🤦🏻♀️) weighed a little less than BL’s and my combined weight loss so far.
That was pretty sobering.
Thanks MFP, and thanks to all the support we get here. You guys are awesome.13 -
Have a wonderful trip!1
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It really is like a body in the bag .
The Bee Gees, Donna Summers, and anything Disco inspired is running through my head currently. Love me the Disco Ball2 -
@springlering62 @AnnPT77 and anyone else who has lost a significant amount of weight and maintained it:
What is the difference in your maintenance calories compared to what it was when you started? How much strength training do you do vs. cardio vs. nothing?
I am trying to gauge what my maintenance calories may be once I’m at goal. I’m 22 lbs down and have noted that it takes more time and/or effort to burn the same calories I did when I started. (Expected of course.) With how active I am, I’ve averaged around 2300 kcal daily for maintenance. (I did the math based on my rate of loss.) I’m guessing that will decrease over the last 20 lbs.0 -
I got organically more active as I dripped weight. The result of that is that, weirdly, I eat about 100 calories a day MORE now than when I started. About 2500 calorows/day. I think my lowest even losing was 1500. I run about 20 miles/week, hike another 10. Do about 90 minutes a week of weight stuff. And do some recreational sports, swim, paddle board and horseback ride.
I do want to emphasize though that I do none of this for any reason because I want to and its fun. I did some long before i started losing weighr, and what I added I added because it was fun.
Except the weights. I do those for health but find them pretty boring.4 -
@springlering62 @AnnPT77 and anyone else who has lost a significant amount of weight and maintained it:
What is the difference in your maintenance calories compared to what it was when you started? How much strength training do you do vs. cardio vs. nothing?
I am trying to gauge what my maintenance calories may be once I’m at goal. I’m 22 lbs down and have noted that it takes more time and/or effort to burn the same calories I did when I started. (Expected of course.) With how active I am, I’ve averaged around 2300 kcal daily for maintenance. (I did the math based on my rate of loss.) I’m guessing that will decrease over the last 20 lbs.
Curses: I started a reply, was almost done, lost the whole long thing! I'll try again.
I don't know what my maintenance calories were when I started losing: About the first half of weight loss, the first maybe 25-30 pounds, was rough-estimated calorie reductions. I didn't join MFP until after that, so I don't know what I was eating exactly enough to be useful. It was after logging in MFP that I found out (by losing too (bleep) fast) that MFP and a lot of other so-called calorie calculators materially underestimate my calorie needs (as does my good brand/model tracker), because apparently I'm some kind of non-average weirdo.
I doubt that your maintenance calories will be much lower than what you're seeing now, with only 20 pounds to go, for a variety of reasons. Some thoughts about that:
* TDEE calculator (Sailrabbit) estimates that my sedentary maintenance calories at my maintenance weight vs. 20 pounds above would only differ by around 100 calories. My actual maintenance wasn't much lower (if any) than what I'd estimated during the last month or two of loss (but I did intentionally slow loss down in the last stage, so the weight change over a couple of months was maybe less than 10 pounds?).
* Some people find that as they get lighter, they feel livelier and naturally move more (spontaneous movement, slightly higher exercise intensity), because moving is easier and more fun for a lighter person. They then burn a few more calories through movement.
* You don't say how long you've been active, or what exercise you do. It's common, as fitness increases, to gradually increase exercise intensity (keeping the same perceived exertion level), so burn a few more exercise calories kind of automagically that way.
* You mention exercise calories dropping as one gets lighter. Well, sort of. If one uses MFP to estimate exercise the research-based methods it uses do vary the estimate linearly with changes in body weight (at constant intensity/type of exercise). That's a reasonable methodology for some exercises, and less valid for others, depending on how much body weight per se influences the intensity of the particular exercise. So, the estimates may go down more than the actuals do. Or less. Or whatever. (These are not big numbers, probably, in any case . . . but it's a wild card.)
* Some people find that when they go to maintenance calories, they start gradually, slowly losing again after a few weeks/months, at that calorie level, because of adaptive thermogenesis.
I don't know whether it may help, but there's a thread in the Maintaining Weight part of the Community where people talk about methods of estimating maintenance calories.
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10638211/how-to-find-your-maintenance-calorie-level/p1
I'm not sure how much it helps to comment on my exercise routine, since we're all so different.
I've continued to use the "MFP method" in maintenance, basically: I set a base calorie goal, carefully estimate and log exercise when I do it, and eat those calories, too. (I use different methods for estimating calories for different types of exercise.) At 5'5", trying to maintain around mid-120s pounds, age 66, sedentary outside of intentional exercise, I have my base calorie goal set at 1850. I think my actual maintenance base is more like 1950-2000, maybe a bit more, but I intentionally "calorie bank" a bit to indulge occasionally.
I nearly always have one weekly rest day, with little or no formal exercise.
In the warm seasons, I row (on water) for around an hour 4 days a week (weather permitting), which involves some incidental boat carrying and such. Often I take an hour or so bike ride (road/paved trail) another couple of days a week, so 10 miles or so. Last summer, I worked my way up to walking about 5 miles on 3 of the rowing days, around 3.2-4mph pace. That's the basic routine, with maybe some random other things thrown in occasionally.
Once it's too cold/snowy for the outdoor activities, I shift into mostly alternating stationary bike and rowing machine. Between US Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve, I do a challenge that requires about 45 minutes of those times 6 days a week, and don't feel like doing much else. After Christmas, I usually back the row/bike volume down to more like 30-35 minutes, and add some strength training (mostly dumbbell lifts, sometimes kettlebell) 3 times a week, usually gradually increasing from 20 minutes to maybe 40-45. That never lasts, because I dislike strength training quite a lot, and have zero self-discipline. This year, I think it lasted until March. Now I'm back at just the rowing/cycling. Sometimes I throw in core workouts (around 30 minutes, lots of stuff on the exercise ball), sometimes I do half an hour of yoga in the morning. I'm a flake, especially in Winter.
Most exercise days, I end up with a calorie goal between 2000 and 2500 calories, toward the lower end in Winter, upper in Summer.
I go through periods where I do less exercise, even none briefly, but I've been working out regularly and often for enough years (decades) that I quickly start feeling moody, stiff, depressive, tense, and other Bad Things when I don't work out. That gets me to start working out again before long. Now, I don't much worry if I slack off, because I'm pretty confident that'll kick in.
FWIW, rowing is one of the strength-y-er forms of cardio (in the lower body push, upper body pull directions), and it can be mildly progressive in strength demand, done properly. I'm not devoid of muscle, and most of it comes from rowing, which I've now been doing for over 20 years (started when obese), and I'm not terrible at it for my demographic, intensity-wise. It's not as simple as "cardio can't build muscle", y'know? It matters what the cardio is. Lifting is a more efficient route, for sure, though.3 -
OK, my answer is totally N=1, and “me” N is an odd N.
I started 222+ pounds at 1470, and increased to 1700, 1900, and then 2100. The more weight I lost, the more active I became, as others have noticed, requiring fuel.
I was at 2700 (averaged on a weekly basis) for about six months, but began doing aquafit daily with my husband, lost my adored trainer (who retired at 74, and promptly began training for a Spartan with her grandkids).
After losing my trainer (I’m still looking for another), I compensated by adding HIIT, spin and cardio classes. I also maintained my daily power yoga addiction, and still weight train several times a week, albeit at lower weights since I no longer have a spotter, and my trainer made sure to leave me with horror stories of non-spotted lifters. She knows me too well. The dog also gets several miles a day because he’s cute and manipulative.
As a result of all this movement, I’m averaging about 3,200 a day the past month, and maintaining easily.
So yeah, my maintenance calories are more than what I needed for loss, but it’s necessary fuel because lighter me is so incredibly much more mobile and active than couch bound me.
Like @wunderkindking, I do this for fun. I like to stay challenged, and it’s such a feeling of accomplishment to finish a difficult class, still standing.
So all this is to say, are you going to fall back into “old” habits in maintenance, are you going to continue to log, are you moving more than before, do you anticipate moving more?
I’ve been in maintenance two or three years. It’s taken just as much work and attention as losing. You lose the thrill of the chase, that WooHoo feeling when the scale shows a loss, and you have those moments of blind panic when it goes up five or seven pounds, the fear your clothes will no longer fit, turning in front of the mirror to see “how fat” you’ve become. Yet, if you stick to plan, are mindful and adjust when needed, everything bounces right along as it’s supposed to, which is extraordinarily - and very mathematically, which is satisfying- reassuring.
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@springlering62 @AnnPT77 and anyone else who has lost a significant amount of weight and maintained it:
What is the difference in your maintenance calories compared to what it was when you started? How much strength training do you do vs. cardio vs. nothing?
I am trying to gauge what my maintenance calories may be once I’m at goal. I’m 22 lbs down and have noted that it takes more time and/or effort to burn the same calories I did when I started. (Expected of course.) With how active I am, I’ve averaged around 2300 kcal daily for maintenance. (I did the math based on my rate of loss.) I’m guessing that will decrease over the last 20 lbs.
For the bolded: this observation is based on what? A smaller body burns less calories, yes. But if you're basing your observation on burns given by a HRM or fitness tracker with HRM, beware that this may not reflect your calorie burn accurately. As you get fitter, your heart rate will decrease for the same intensity exercise, which will lead fitness trackers to (incorrectly) give a lower calorie burn.
My Garmin gives me lower burns for running now, disproportionately lower compared to the weight I've lost (I'm losing veeeery slowly at the moment). I think it's one of the reasons the difference between my actual TDEE and the TDEE according to my Garmin is increasing.
Side note: I'm not technically in maintenance yet (I keep reassessing my goal weight) but like several posters above me, my TDEE now is probably higher than it was before (75lbs ago), because my activity level has increased a lot (a gradual thing). My strength training is minimal: I find it boring, I prefer running and walking.3
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