WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2022

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,282 Member
    Stat for the day-

    housecleaning etc- 4hrs 14min 58sec- vacuum, dust, laundry fold and put away, make hummingbird food, sweep front patio and entryway, clean refill birdbath, water plants= 1196c

    So sorry katla
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,209 Member
    <3Katla I am so sorry to hear that your driver's license has been revoked. This is a sad and scary thing. I am sending many hugs your way

    Barbie
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,292 Member
    Katla hugs for you. Such a difficult time.

    Annie in Delaware
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,624 Member
    edited August 2022
    Katla49 wrote: »
    My drivers license was revoked by a doctor’s orders. I am still angry but have no recourse at this time. DH did not get anything saying his was revoked and he was hospitalized for 2 weeks, and then in a skilled nursing facility for several weeks.

    Over the course of time, I’ve never had a driving mishap, or traffic ticket but did have a doctor who banned me from driving. I am sad and mad. My adult children were on his side. There was no fairness and plenty of humiliation.

    I am sorry that has happened but everyone wants you and those around you to be safe.

    Did the doctor give you a diagnosis?


    Not having a driver's license anymore has upset my husband too. He's not allowed to drive because of his brain injury and epilepsy. It is like an aspect of freedom is taken away.

    But he walks to the local shops and uses the bus to get around, like I do most of the time, so that helps.

    M in Oz

  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,533 Member
    Got to exercise today so did a Tight on Time DVD (this is a new one) and then some pilates. Then I went for a walk around the block, then to Aldi just for a few things. It’s nice out so I’ll probably go in the pool

    When we moved to NC, as I recall you had something like 30 days to get a new license. To be honest, a lot of people don’t. A friend of mine got hers a few years after she moved here.

    Kim – you can imagine our Christmas electric bill! We now only use LED’s and, boy, has it sure saved a lot. Replaced almost all the incadescent bulbs in the house with LED’s. The biggest problem is that there’s no where to even give the incadescent bulbs to. How I wish we could have a clothes line! Our house in Stroudsburg had one and I absolutely loved it. I believe the people who bought the house from us removed it. Our homeowner’s assoc. won’t allow it (boo). TECHNICALLY we’re not supposed to have one of those plastic sheds. We have one, only it’s in a spot where no one can see it. We just keep the pool supplies in it. I am very impressed how you ingeniously have a clothes line! I had an indoor clothes line in the furnace room in Stroudsburg. It was very warm in there so the clothes dried really well. The only thing that I really didn’t line dry were towels. They were too rough for Vince. But otherwise, almost everything was line dried. Then when we moved to Kennett Square I had to use the dryer and the same here.

    Just back from my walk

    Katla – why did the doctor revoke your driving license?

    Ginny – (((HUGS)))

    Michele NC
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,101 Member
    Katla- im so sorry to hear your license was revoked ,but it must be for safety reasons.. and you know we all love you.and I know your children do too. Thats why they have you living close so they can be there to help out with things... xoxox.
    Had and impromptu picnic with the ladies tonight.. was a blast of course..
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,282 Member
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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,610 Member
    Katla ~ I know you have stated that you have never had an accident or a ticket, but, I have a friend (my age 74) who got her license revoked last Spring because she had had 4 accidents that were her fault. She retook the driver's test 5 times and finally passed. So there is hope for those who persist! Keep your head up!

    Carol in GA
  • Rosemarie2972
    Rosemarie2972 Posts: 493 Member
    We have a heat pump that generally works okay but when it gets cold we are forced to use electric heat.
    Last winter my husband had me run the heat quite high and in February the bill was $600.00. I was in shorts and sleeveless. We are in Georgia but it was cold. This is triple our usual bill! I am going to try some different clothes for him this winter. Recall he is paralyzed,so prone to being cold.

    Katia, I am so sorry about your license. How is the assisted living residence? It is great news that your husband is doing so well.

    We had a quiet day, watched a movie and some of the baseball game. It is a balance of caretaking vs companionship time and unfortunately the caretaking wins out. I would like to plant a Fall Garden even though it is still hot. I will see what plants are in at the garden center. We did talk with family today via zoom and a video call. They all live out of state, so it was fun to see everyone.

  • Rosemarie2972
    Rosemarie2972 Posts: 493 Member
    Rosemarie from GA
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,049 Member
    <3
  • OregonMother
    OregonMother Posts: 1,664 Member
    Rori -- I hope you enjoy Hadestown. You'll have to let me know what you think. I saw it a few weeks ago in Portland.

    Flea
    Willamette Valley, OR
  • OregonMother
    OregonMother Posts: 1,664 Member
    Katla49 wrote: »
    At this time DH and I are in a retirement center in Illinois where he is getting physical therapy & occupational therapy after his heart attack. He is very pleased with his progress. We are content being here while he is getting help. Once he his ready we both want to return to our home in Oregon. We are taking things one day at a time.

    I'm glad things are going well, Katla. We love you and are thankful for your friendship.

    Flea
    Willamette Valley, OR
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,719 Member
    edited August 2022
    Katla - Sending love to you and your DH. <3<3<3

    I haven't driven since we moved to Hove, nearly four years ago. I don't even like being driven, and I will not go far with DH driving. If I do get in the car, I sit in the back and distract myself with a screen. I hate motorways.
    This does have an effect on our ability to travel. DH is not enthusiastic about trains, but will, tolerate them. Luckily, cruises are perfect, though the journey to the port, by chauffeured car, is not my favourite part.

    Rosemarie- Have you investigated electrically, or battery, warmed clothing? It must be cheaper than having the heat up high. DH gets very cold hands and I looked at battery gloves for him once. Light thermal layers, like mountaineers wear, also make a huge difference. We will be wearing those this winter with our astronomical rises in energy bills.

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,624 Member
    Katla49 wrote: »
    I went shopping with our daughter today. She was preparing for our grandson’s birthday party. I hope the party went well. I picked up a few groceries for DH & me. He has not been feeling well and I’ve been worried for him.

    Sorry your husband isn't doing very well.

    I hope the medical staff where you live now are looking after him.

    Are they looking after you too?


    Machka in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,624 Member
    Katla49 wrote: »
    At this time DH and I are in a retirement center in Illinois where he is getting physical therapy & occupational therapy after his heart attack. He is very pleased with his progress. We are content being here while he is getting help. Once he his ready we both want to return to our home in Oregon. We are taking things one day at a time.

    I thought you were going to move in with your daughter.

    Machka in Oz
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,055 Member
    Rori: 🥰 all the exciting activities you are doing. The joy jumps off the page.

    Katla: (((Hugs)))

    I’m off out to visit a friend this morning.

    🥳🎉 Cheers to all those celebrating.

    Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.

    ☘️ Terri
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,719 Member
    Rori - So happy that you are finding some waves of joy. Your friendships are such a blessing. When are you visiting England? :pB)<3

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Machka — My daughter wants us to build a home on her property. DH is recovering from his heart attack & stroke at an assisted living facility in Illinois. He is doing well here, and is improving. I am living here with him.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,624 Member
    Katla49 wrote: »
    Machka — My daughter wants us to build a home on her property. DH is recovering from his heart attack & stroke at an assisted living facility in Illinois. He is doing well here, and is improving. I am living here with him.

    Both a heart attack AND a stroke!! :open_mouth:

    That's a lot to be recovering from.


    Take this time to rest and recover.




    Machka in Oz
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,719 Member
    edited August 2022
    Lots of time planned with the grandchildren. <3
    Tomorrow the girls are coming until 1 pm. I will give them lunch.
    Next week Max is coming for one of the days and we will walk with him to collect the girls from school. He starts his new school a bit later in the week.
    This year my birthday is on a Sunday in October. Edie has been agitating about having a sleepover, so I have booked them in to stay on the Saturday night and have birthday breakfast with us. :D Last year we did it for DH'S birthday, which is on a Monday this year, of course. I can see DH tossing gluten free pancakes! :p Last year, I was on duty.

    Bank Holiday today. I didn’t write, but bought Edie's birthday presents. A board game she asked for, and Fymo modelling stuff, which she really wants. So that's all done. I also bought myself a long sleeve thermal vest in black. I have a cream one. Hope to be able to turn the temps down this winter by a degree. I hate being cold though. The government is bringing out packages of help, but I estimate we will have to find an extra £1000.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,624 Member
    I also bought myself a long sleeve thermal vest in black. I have a cream one. Hope to be able to turn the temps down this winter by a degree. I hate being cold though. The government is bringing out packages of help, but I estimate we will have to find an extra £1000.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

    It's funny ... I like hot weather and being outside when it's hot.

    But I really dislike being in a hot building or hot car.

    And I'm rarely cold ... or even cool.


    The temp in here right now is about 17C (62F) and I'm in a sleeveless top and quite comfortable. I do have a small desk fan if I start feeling too warm.
    I'm pretty sure the temp at work is about 20C (68F) at least. And I run my desk fan all day long.
    The bus ... they tell me they keep it at a scorching 22C (71F) but I have seen it up to 30C (86) on my thermometer.


    M in Oz



  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,663 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Rori - reading about your life really energizes me! Thank you for sharing your joy. If your roomie has a twin brother, please find out if he'd like to live in SW WA State. :D And if he likes yard work, lol. I have a spot for him. ;)

    Heather - glad your family is back safe and sound. I'll bet the grands will have plenty of stories to tell. :)

    Rosemarie - a few times I was able to get my husband to use a lap blanket or put on an extra sweatshirt, but not often. I too turned up the heat. :# Really noticeable when we'd run out of firewood. Sigh.

    I have very cold hands that are almost painful in the winter. I bought kid's socks at the dollar store, put a cup or so of rice in each one, and tied it off at the top - and made mini handwarmers to stick in my pockets when I go for a walk, zapping for 40 seconds before heading out the door. Otherwise I have to fight sticking my hands down my pants to keep them warm but the neighbors.... :o

    Also, I'm a fan of quarter zip pullovers with stand-up collars. If I get too hot, I can just unzip a bit but the back of my neck stays warm. A few years ago I bought a couple on sale at the Eddie Bauer outlet. They are really warm - not thermal weave, but perhaps something skiers wear.

    I look for them when I go to thrift stores, and sometimes find good ones in the men's section. Something I can pull over a light shirt. Don't think I can let my house get down to 45F like Kim, but I'm looking forward to experimenting to see how Rosie and I will fare. She has plenty of sweaters.

    Make it a super week! <3

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State



  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,610 Member
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