WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2023
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Yay Katla!0
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Katla so glad your DH is walking on his own2
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Katla ... great news that your husband is improving!
Tracey... hugs ...
Ginny ... glad to hear that your medical concerns are under control!
Barbara ... a call to the doctor for his/her recommendation might be in order?
Besides a trip to Walmart to make a return, should be a slow day. Rain expected for the next few days so outdoor projects on hold. Will use the time to do some spring cleaning.
Beth2 -
Good morning, or whatever point it is in your day!
I was up at 4:41am today. It’s not unusual for me to be awake, but it is out of the norm for me to up and around. I love my quiet mornings. I did some reading and listened to news. Sadly, I cannot make “real” coffee so early or the smell wakes up the mister and I like this time alone. So, I have instant and it’s just not so good when compared to the freshly roasted tasty treat we have when he gets up. Maybe tea would be more satisfying.
Katla-So good to hear your DH is up! Great news!
Tracey-I feel for you. I was not ever bullied by a boss or even co-worker, but I was bullied by clients many times. The last one did me in and I quit the job so I could escape the client. It ended up being one of the best things I’ve done for myself. I started working with a long time friend and it’s been blissful for 10 years now. Hugs. You will make the right decision for you.
Lisa-Good news that you have an advocate! I hope you get some answers. I think I’d have given up trying to figure it out by now.
I finally have something to try regarding my sore feet. I should know if it helps by next week. Sadly, I’ve been dealing with it so long that I forget to pay attention to the pain.
I know there were others I wanted to comment to, but I can’t recall. Typical of me.
Hope you all have the best day possible.
Tina in CA
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Tina hope your sore feet feel better.
Annie in Delaware0 -
I am delighted with DH’s improvement. Thank you for your support & encouragement. 💖
Katla in Illinois2 -
(((hugs))) to those who need them.
28. Meet a friend outside for a walk and a chat... no outside, but meeting friends for our quarterly retreat and walking and shopping and crafting!
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN4 -
Katla - That is great news!
Went into Hove to the Sardinian shop and bought the guanciale etc. Also bought hand milled spaghetti and coppa for Edie. Her favourite food. The lady there guessed I was making carbonara, and said she makes it every January 1st to celebrate their moving in together anniversary!
Got my watch battery changed, and a new soda cylinder. Then popped into the big supermarket for a couple of items, including porcine and truffle mezzaluna. Triple yum!
So, a very good trip.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx2 -
Ginny you model effective, fair management style. Wish Tracey could work for you,
Machka thanks! I’ll pick up some chewable vit c, a bag of salted almonds and some cream (this will likely work as I’m slightly lactase deficient).
Heather will Johnny listen to Dr. Heather, or must he hear it from a white coat?
Kylia if DH and SIL can’t/won’t develop exit strategy, what can you do? Not much but perhaps develop an exit strategy for yourself?
Kelly strong dream, no wonder you’re feeling off. “big girl underoos” are they WonderWoman? Want to hear more about superhero day.
Katla up and walking? Miraculous! Thanks for the good news.
Betsy sorry to hear you’re miserable doing all that to reduce pressure. May 31 is a long time to wait. Has the eye Dr. discussed next steps?
Beth, now why didn’t I think of that? SMH :sick: :laugh:
Tina fingers X’d for new help for sore feet.
Carla ((hugs)) right back atcha.
Procrastinated enough won’t have time for PT before shower before leaving for dogs’ nail trims. Oops!
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
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April 2023 Action for Happiness
Word of the year: Appreciate : today I appreciate my morning coffee.27. Find a fun exercise to do while waiting for the kettle to boil (or pan of water.) HMMM. Will have to think about when to do this.
Exercise goals added
Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week 11/15(100%,100%,80%)
Walk 7,000 every day 25/30 (84%,86%,94%)
6 min HIIT -2x a day start April 1 27/60
Arm weights twice a week 5/10 (100%, 60%hurt my elbow, hurt my shoulder 30%)
Meditation: daily. 27/30 (82%(started Feb)94%)
PT— head. 5/17. Started 4/13/23
Hands 18/17
1. cut back drinking and limit to 2 days a week. 9/8–(100%,100%,0%)
2. Average 7,000 steps a week. 9867, 9491,10170, 8706, (7,700,100%-9851,100%—9526,100%)
3. Update budget every 2 weeks 6/2 —(100%,100%,100%,100%)
4. Contact close family every week (4x) 35/208/ —(100%,100%,100%)should be 68 by May 1.
5. Contact Donat and sibs once a month (8x)35/94 (100%,100%,100%)
6. Weigh less last day of month compared to first until I reach 140. Start at 178.6,176,174.2,173.4 (100%,100%,100%)
7. Develop a journaling practice by aiming to journal at least 5 days a week. 27/20-(100%,88%,100)
8. Read 12 books at least this year. 17/12 (100%,100%,100%)
9. Pay off credit card debt by January 2024 by making monthly payments to NDR——4/12—(100%.100%,100%,100%)
10. Continue building emergency fund at SLFCU (min$25 a month)$25+$25+$71+700+25(100%,100%,100%,100%)
11. April started putting 4% on income in savings (100%)
Decided that if I do more than stated I will not grade higher than 100% 2/5/23
January Met —100%
February met —-90%
March met met —-90%
April met
May met
June met
July met — met
August met
September met
October met —
November met—
December met—
ACTIVE APRIL
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Commit to being more active this month starting today. I commit to this by adding the exercises from the 6 minute book for over 60’s.
2. Spend as much time as possible outdoors today. Easy! LOL
3. Listen to your body and be grateful for what it can do. I do this during walking meditations every day.
4. Eat healthy and natural food today and drinks lots of water. Yogurt and raspberries for breakfast with 17 oz water bottle and coffee, more to come.
5. Turn a regular activity into a playful game today. Not sure. Joked with hairdresser while getting hair cut. Everyone was laughing and joining in.
6. Do a body-scan meditation and really notice how your body feels. I do this often in my meditations.
7. Get natural light early in the day. Dim the lights in the evening. Morning done. Will do in evening.
8. give your body a boost by laughing or making someone laugh. I will as soon as I can! Did this with friends.
9. Turn your housework or chores into a fun form of exercise. Hmmmm tbd
10. Have a day with less screen time and more movement. I’ll try.
11. Set yourself an exercise goal or sign up to an activity challenge. Already have goals: Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week, Walk 7,000 every day, 6 min HIIT -2x a day, Arm weights twice a week
12. Move as much as possible, even if you’re stuck inside. I will do. Vet this morning then normal day, so will be able to do this.
13. Make sleep a priority and go to bed in good time. Easy Peasy!
14. Relax your body & mind with yoga, tai chi or meditation. I will meditate and try to find time for yoga too. I did all I wanted to do.
15. Get active by singing today (even if you think you can’t sing). I can’t sing but will sing along with music anyway. Sang “When the ants go marching in” during my walk.
16. Go exploring around your local area and notice new things. OOOH, this sounds like fun.
17. Be active outside. Dig up weeds or plant some seeds. I will tend my container garden. I have watered it but need to remove dead leaves from tomato plants.
18. Try a new online exercise, activity or dance class. Not sure if I will have time today. Did not have time today.
19. Spend less time sitting today. Get up and move more often. After the last 2 days, this is a welcome change!
20. Focus on eating ‘a rainbow of multi-colored vegetables today. I did that on Tuesday but will try again today.
21. Regularly pause to stretch and breathe during the day. Ahhhhh. But forgot to do it.
22. Enjoy moving to your favorite music. Really go for it. Going to try to remember to do this. Forgot.
23. Go out and do an errand for a loved one or neighbor. I do this every day in my hosting.
24. Get active in nature. Feed the birds or go wild-life spotting. Will do! I love doing this.
25. Have a ‘no screens’ night and take time to recharge yourself. Did this![
26. Take an extra break in your day and walk outside for 15 minutes. Already did this today, first thing in the morning.
28. Meet a friend outside for a walk and a chat. Not sure about the walk, way too windy, but I will chat outside with a friend.29. Become an activist for a cause you really believe in
30. Make time to run, swim, dance, cycle or stretch today
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Tracey--Sending prayers and HUGS!!
Kelly--I can so relate to your dream. HUGS!
Katla--Great news about DH!!
So glad it is Friday. Have the weekend off and have birthday party for our oldest granddaughter, then after church on Sunday a gradution party.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE4 -
Annie ~ Hope the tech helped you with computer issues.
Katla ~ So happy to her that your husband is making progress.
Karen ~ Wow! You have so many activities going and I hope you continue to enjoy all of them.
Tracey ~ Hugs for You.
Carol in GA
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27. Find a fun exercise to do while waiting for the kettle to boil (or pan of water.) – practice “Homesick”
TMI whineReally weary of being “stove up”. Tuesday the 18th was the most recent healthy relief, since then it’s been digging out dribs and drabs. H20, fiber, prunes, ginger, exercise, twisting, massage struggle to make it bearable. Could hemorrhoid pain be halting the process? Gonna try a little lidocaine.Sorry about that. Time to snooze.04/27: Move: 2 sets PT w/x&a, dogs to powerline, ½ hr picking up sticks, Jeopardy walking. steps:7710.
Fuel: plants running count for week so far 23+9+3+1+9+1 avocado, beans-kidney, beets, blueberries, broccoli, cantaloupe, carrots, celery, cucumber, ginger-beer/candied/snap, granola, honeydew, hummus, juices-beet/carrot/celery/lettuce/parsley/spinach/tomato/watercress, juice/pineapple, mushrooms, olives-almond, onion, orange, peanut brittle, pecans, pepperoncini, pineapple, popcorn, potato chips, prune, radish, romaine, snap peas, sweet peppers-orange/red/yellow, tea, tomato sauce, turmeric, walnuts, watermelon, wheat-fettuccine/pizza. CI=1292
Live: Joe, readings, BP,. Wt: 134.3
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. April: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
Try Milk of Magnesia- that worked for dh after his surgery-nothing else did because he waited too long. Warm prune juice helps with the kids.
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Katla great news!
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Katla,
How encouraging! No wonder you are elated!
Karen in Virginia0 -
Karen-I think I am actually mentally getting there. I won't be leaving because I hate it, but I just want to enjoy my me time. I also want to make initial move while I am able to do things myself-this is a choice. I understand what you mean about the waiting lists and the end of life place. At this stage I am not certain what part of the country that will be. If I get to needing more than assisted living I think I will want to be physically located close to one of my sons and their family so that is to be determined. But-I am making sure my children know all of my wishes (you never know!). I found another place I want to check out and then I believe I will have it narrowed down to 3.
Heather-yes, I agree, I need no more plans than most of us should have already!
Annie-I think most any cancer has the potential to spread. I'm fortunate that most thyroid cancers are slow movers. I have always found it misleading for doctors to proclaim a person cured when they don't know where cells may be hiding. My doctors have always referred to detectable or non-detectable. have been detectable for a while based on blood work and we are just now getting to point of being able to get an idea of location. Since it has taken 27 years to get to this point, it could take quite a while for it to move beyond a nuisance.
Katla-wonderful news regarding your husband walking! It does seem like your family got him in the right place!
Tinaplease share the sore feet solution (especially if it works!)
Barbara-I try to be balanced and fair but when you are being honest I'm sure it doesn't feel that way. I have discovered that not being honest does not help anyone long term. Given the vegetables you eat, I have no ideas for your issue. Agree with Milk of magnesia suggestion.
Now that I am back from care appt. and grocery, going to deep clean a couple of spots.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio4 -
Thank you all for the good thoughts for DH. He is making progress, and I am very grateful.
❤️
Katla5 -
Tinaplease share the sore feet solution (especially if it works!)
Ginny in Ohio
The short answer: corticosteroids. The long answer in a spoiler:I was diagnosed with Plantar Fasciitis by multiple doctors. They all said to rest, ice. So, I didn't run on it for a year thinking that the pressure was irritating it...and it likely does. Well, I went to a recommended podiatrist (took me forever to get an appointment) and he said that advice is unrealistic. To cure this under that advice, I'd have to float for 6 weeks; meaning completely stay off my feet. So, he said steroids are the treatment. I could have gotten injections (it's in both feet), but there is also an oral option. I chose the oral option because it might also help with some other inflammation I'm having, where the injection would be localized, though likely would work faster. I'm on day 2 of 6 of the oral option. I need to be better about paying attention to the pain factor when I get out of bed in the morning since that's when it's at its most intense state. Since I've been dealing with this for a year, I've basically just gotten used to it.
I was also told to run, walk, and exercise as normal because merely resting it won't help.
Tina in CA3 -
Hi Gals,
Still reading along, still have mom here.
She got evaluated by PT and yesterday started the transition from walking with a walker to a cane. This is a big step to being able to go home with no help there. She said to PT when asked that yes her son lived with her but he would not be much help. That was a big change for her, the reality is not only will he not help but she will be asked/feel obligated to do for him. Its been just about 2 months since she fell and he has yet to do any household cleaning, wash sheet or towels… and she will refuse to have any help. It will be another month for the next evaluation and then she may or may not be released to go home.
just whining about my family situationI have been in discussion with my DN (her grandson) and my counselor. The situation with my brother is so volatile that once mom is released my DN will come pick her up and drive her home, and I will never be at her home again without a security person. It is indeed possible that I will never see my mom alive again. I have very mixed feelings about this. But there is a lot of mixed feelings in relation to my bio-family. The mental health of my mom and my brother is really on the edge of should be in a mental health care facility. Yet the edge is a fine line and because they feed off of one another and believe each other’s truth it is easy for them to pass any review of their mental health. And of course they will not willingly get reviewed.
My counselor is a huge help for me, and I feel stronger yet still very fragile. The current stressor is financial – while I have done as some of you recommended and kept records it has done little to no good, as discussions are close to impossible as they are reacted to with tears and being told assorted things about what an uncaring money grabbing daughter I am.
But I am learning to be more “creative” in how things are handled, so when filling a prescription, I did it at the grocery store pharmacy and bought her specific brand of salad dressing, facial tissue and a small carton of milk for me all at the same time on her credit card, and that slid under her radar. I am working on the “Sorry not now, I am working” line, but sometimes she truly needs help and that makes the elimination of interruptions even harder.
Karen – your location sounds like it is perfect for this time in your life. Just a check in on your spouse, any more improvements related to elimination of the med? I think I remember that it was expected to be very slow.
Heather – the art work is amazing… not were my talents lie so that makes me appreciate it more. I listen to food glue and find it delightful… I wish I could go to some of the restaurants, but it is a bit of distance for me LOL
Barbie - we listen to the same food podcasts!
Lisa – Hip Hip Hooray for an advocate!
Katla - Wow how great for DH – walking is a big step and so good for health and point of view.
Annie – you are so consistent and accountable to yourself! Well done.
I caught a bit of an interview the other day, and it was of someone who had written a book about fitting exercise in where you could. Unfortunately I can not remember exactly when I was listening, the author’s name, or the book title… BUT the good news is it was about the little things, so not kicking your shoes into the closet but bending down, picking them up and putting them away, learning to balance enough to put your pants on while standing, standing up without pushing off, walking with great posture, pushing the cart (at the grocery store) or a stroller without leaning on it but just pushing with your hands … you get the idea and for me where it is hard with a full time job, full time care giving, and just keeping a house and yard going I have a hard time fitting exercise in these were ideas that did not take any extra time they were just going about life with exercise as the default. I thought it was brilliant. At least for me.
Kim in N. California
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