WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2023
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Clicked a unrelated post to me , walked away with 2 inspiring quotes. Well played ladies.1
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Rita - I try to live my life with 'loving detachment'. I don't always succeed because I am an empath.
Most spiritual principles require practice and discipline, and they get easier with practice. I am still practicing. 
Love Heather, still recovering from her empathy with the poor pigeon. UK xxxxxxxx
I'm more of an "apath"
Although I feel more empathy toward animals than people.
But you took me by surprise. From your posts, I would have put you slightly closer to the apath end of the "empath---apath" scale than to the empath end. Of course, I don't know you in person.
M in Oz
I had to look up the difference between apath and empath. I think you are correct, I try to have empathy, I used to be good at that until the divorce, and some other things that happened during that time. That pushed me more toward apath. I am now trying to get my empathy back. Being on 3 depression/anxiety medications takes a lot of feeling away….
RVRita7 -
Good morning, ladies.
DH is dealing with a gout flare up. He hasn't had one in awhile and yes, Machka, we are both meat eaters. It is sugar that is the cause of his flare ups though. He has a prescription that he takes as needed but is cautious with taking them as they create havoc with his stomach. We have to go to the bank this afternoon to arrange for a bank draft and the bank we are dealing with is a hour drive away so hoping he will be o.k. We are purchasing a mobile seed cleaner for our farming operation. Found a new one in Saskatchewan that a dealer has and it is just the right size for us. Dealer said it is too small for bigger farming operations but would be good for a smaller organic farm. We were hoping to buy a used one but they are hard to come by.
Tracey, sorry to hear that your last market didn't turn out very well. I wonder if people just don't have as much disposable income. Good that your wall is being finished. I'm sure you will come up with something to make it blend in with your Christmas decor...you are so creative.
Lisa, your fire looks inviting.
Annie, thinking about you and your ongoing struggles. Good you are able to talk with your sister.
Tina, sad to hear about your friend. Such a tragedy. Hope they catch the driver.
Joy
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Today is compassion day! fits the conversations lately! Have some French toast with that compassion. LOL
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Annie ~ So sorry for the further bad news regarding your mom's health and so glad your sister will be there to help you through this tough time.
Lanette ~ Good news that Thelma and Glady's are producing eggs again. Hope your tarp works for the snowy conditions.
Tina ~ Sorry to hear about your friend's passing. Glad that you have been able to sort through your wardrobe. I looked at myself in my old baggy jeans and t shirt yesterday and thought I really need a makeover. Don't know if it will every happen.
I took my overcooked tough old hen and put it in the pressure cooker this morning. Yielded a large bowl of meat that we can freeze for whatever!
Worked on my husband's new laptop yesterday and this morning and finally seem to have it setup! He has made so many sarcastic remarks over the years because I had to take some computer courses when still teaching and now I think he may be realizing that I am able to help him. Researching on Google is a God Send!
Carol in GA7 -
"Those who are not grateful soon begin to complain of everything."
–THOMAS MERTON
Thoughts in Solitude5 -
Annie, Kylia, Rita, and others in need of hugs...sent your way!
What makes a sad day a bit better? Seeing all the pics of the kiddos in your lives! Thanks for sharing your families.
Back to the kitchen. Baking and cooking make me feel better.
Tina in CA
Sorry about your friend.
That kind of hit me because of what I went through a little over 5 years ago with my husband ... and the man across the ward from him who didn't survive his severe brain injury.
I'm very sorry. I guess I should have put in a trigger warning and in a spoiler.
Tina in CA
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Picked both the girls up. I went home first with Edie because she was planning to bake some cupcakes for her friend's birthday tomorrow. John followed on because Bea likes to play in the park.
Here is Edie baking. She is very good, but I had to curb my tendency to interfere!
The machine she was using was not user friendly.
The cakes are in the oven and she is soon off to Cyclo-cross.
My thigh survived perfectly today. A mystery.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Picked both the girls up. I went home first with Edie because she was planning to bake some cupcakes for her friend's birthday tomorrow. John followed on because Bea likes to play in the park.
Here is Edie baking. She is very good, but I had to curb my tendency to interfere! The machine she was using was not user friendly.
The cakes are in the oven and she is soon off to Cyclo-cross.
My thigh survived perfectly today. A mystery.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
I can't wait to see Edie as an award-winning chef on the Food Network.
Tina in CA6 -
Tracey - I kind of love the idea of the giant Christmas present, but there is one more option with your wall - and that's to mud and tape it yourself... it's not hard... especially when it's a wall and not a ceiling! It's just like making mud pies when you were a kid. Put some mud on the seam between the drywall sheets, lay tape over the mud, and then smooth the mud over the tape until the edges disappear. You can buy the mud pre-mixed, even. The hard part is sanding it afterward, so the smoother you get it, the easier the sanding. You've got a neat hand with your painting of your crafts, and I don't think you'd have an issue with it, dear heart. It needs 24 hours to dry, at the very least, so give yourself some time. There are lots of YouTube videos out there on "how to mud and tape drywall."
Margaret - Thank you to both you and Machka for the reminder on saying "no." It's helped me remember that I don't always have to answer the phone, either. It is no longer necessary that I be at the end of the phone just because someone has decided to call me. If I'm not in the mood to answer or am busy, I do not have to pick up the phone. Nor do I have to apologize later, or tell them why I didn't pick up. Please note, if I hear the phone, I always pick up my husband's calls... he still hasn't fully rid himself of the worry from the last few years, and I honestly love hearing his voice. The calls are short, just a good morning call, a noon call to decide on dinner, and an evening call to say he's on his way home. They make me feel cared for and provide a structure for my day (and his, most likely). But those, as well as all other calls, are optional. My option, my choice.
Lovely, quiet day here. Thinking about dinner... something with chicken and potatoes, I think.
Later, y'all,
Love from Arkansas,
Lisa
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Today is running lots of errands! Boxes to pack for sons, cards to be mailed, need to find something small for the baby's first Christmas! I am choking down coffee, with my new sweater on. It was too crystal looking on the roads this morning, so husband didn't dare drive to the gym. There are some major hills and our car is as light as a feather. We slip if there is anything on the road, whether its just a frosty road, or any water on a cold morning. We just wait until the day progresses on and warms up.
I have been dealing with a sore gum issue. Just one tooth that, though not angry looking, its exposed the root abit, and the gum below is bruised, like a canker sore area. Need some good mouth wash! Husband was looking in my mouth with a flashlight. The dweeb. 😂😂
Yesterday was Monday and so that is the day my youngest calls! He is getting really good with that, and I'm so happy he's learning that communicating with his momma is key to her mental and emotional well-being. We always video chat a good hour or so. So many stories, and engaging conversations! I love this adult! He does say the f word, but that's just the Navy coming out. He says its lizard season so they are everywhere, so he's having conversations with them, "move please sir so I can open my door". Some a foot long! He seems well, and he's still organizing his leave request.💖
Enjoy the day all!
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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So sorry, Annie. I am thankful your sister is there to help you think through options. I also advocate for hospice. They serve the patient and the family.
Much love.
Flea
Willamette Valley OR4 -
Rebecca--I agree with the others and glad you are going to give your son the ramen plushie. It's someting meaningful to both of you.
Tracey--Hugs for you and Roger. Glad you were able to talk and share your feelings. I saw that video and loved it. Did make me tear up. What a great gift of understanding.
Kylia--Our kids have the power to hurt us. Our youngest son did not come to Thanksgiving dinner. When I asked his sister why all she would say was not her story to tell. So not sure what we did wrong now. I am not looking forward to Christmas with them if they would show up. Thankful for my son and famiy as they had us over and we had a good time. The kids do not celeabrate together since they are adults. The youngest and daughter our husbands kids, but we have always gotten along so not sure what the problem is. He is the son that keeps runnig around on his wife and this last time I said I would not listen anymore that they had to figure it out.
Katiebug--Glad to see you posting, have missed you.
Rosemarie--I do not think anything is wrong with bringing precut apple slices. A lot less hassle.
Annie--I am so sorry about the news for your mom. Sending prayers and hugs. Glad your sister is coming and can help with your day.
Flea--I am sending hugs as anything I would say would not be nice about DH's thinking. The lights are very pretty. I enjoy watching Christmas lights.
Rita--Good for you.
Tina--So sorry to hear about your friend.
I am all caught up. time just seems to be flying by. This last weekend DH decided to put up our new tree and decorate the house inside and out.I wasn't in the mood so let him do it. Inside is done and he has a couple things to finish outside.I did get my Christmas done and mailed and that is my favorite part. I have been just not feeling well and tried. Today I only have a whisper for a voice and everyone who calls wants to talk about it.
Take care dear ladies.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE
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Rosemarie-I may be late, but if the apples are going on fondue forks, you should consider not peeling them and cutting them into large-ish chunks. They will keep more of their integrity and stay on the forks as they are dipped in what I presume to be thick chocolate sauce or cheese. If you slice them thinly, they will keep falling off the forks. Cut them and squeeze lemon juice over them and they should not brown as much.
My 2 cents.
Tina in CA5 -
Prayers and Good Wishes for All of You Going Through Tough Times!
I have read and read but can't respond because I have been so busy trying to get my computer problems figured out for the last few days. I have had to reset my computer and fight with my internet provider to get my wifi settings corrected. Think I finally got it done today.
Annie ~ I laid awake last night thinking about your dad dealing with the possible loss of his beloved wife. I pray that he will be given the help he needs when that time comes.
Pip ~ Your decorations are beautiful! Everything looks so neat and orderly!
Barbie ~ Love your OWL.
Rosemarie ~ Your efforts to clean out your storage rooms are great! You would be aghast at all the things in our home that need to be dealt with. A basement full of old things from an antique shop and estate sales that never got rid of, 3 generations of family furniture, nick knacks, and clutter. I cringe to think what my son and his wife will have to deal with at some point. I and my husband have clothes from ourselves and parents that are probably 25 yrs old.
Tried to roast a 6 lb hen tonight and it was as tough as could be. Will put it in the pressure cooker tomorrow to try to get some of the meal. Won't buy any more hens! LOL
Carol in GA
Carol
Regarding those clothes ... I know your husband doesn't like you to throw anything away of his, but can you go through your stuff and toss, give away or sell it?
M in Oz1 -
Worked then stopped at the church for my lector book since I’m supposed to lector Sat. and the book only goes up to Nov. 26. Anyway, the gal wasn’t there so I went to Sam’s. Needed gifts for the ceramic Christmas party, got some hors duerves (or however it’s spelled) cookie dough to make for Jess to take to the party (I just don’t feel like making it from scratch). Used our Sam’s bucks so only paid $33 for 3 party gifts, 4 boxes of hors duerves, container of cookie dough, and these cocoa bomb things that Jess might like. Went for my boob squeeze today. Then stopped at the Salvation Army (natch)
Tracey – we’re having our Christmas Eve on the 23rd, too, because Jess and Colby are flying out to Idaho on the 24th
Barbara – I don’t mind cleaning, but for some reason, and this I can’t explain, I just procrastinate making beds. But I do it and afterwards feel good about doing it So why do I procrastinate? I don’t know. It’s not like it’s a big deal
Ginny – I can’t help thinking that Denise has an “entitled” feeling. Also, I admit that there may not be anything to worry about, but I worry anyway (that’s a mother’s job, huh?). We know that Pete abused her cat, even tho neither of them admitted it. The SPCA told us when they seized the cat, he threw the cat to them. I do worry because someone who will abuse an animal is very likely to abuse a person. I also know that there’s nothing I can do about it. One of the signs of an abuser is that they separate their victim from their family. Is this what’s going on? I don’t know.
Annie – my car won’t start if I don’t have the key. Would your father get very upset if only YOU had the key? Regarding your daughter, remember “you only hurt the ones you love”
Well, we have all of the trees up (all nine). Vince has most of the lights on them. We started decorating outside this year early (like I’ve been suggesting we do for years). Now Vince is saying that he is going to try not having any commitments (MD appt. dentist appt) during Nov. and Dec. Guess he sees the wisdom in getting things done early. Also have most of the Christmas gift shopping done. Or at least I do, which is like 90% of the shopping.
Heather – how sad for that pigeon
Rita – a piece of cardboard works to keep the frost off? I think we have a cardboard sunshield that we don’t use (not sure why Vince insisted on keeping it) that I could probably use. I’m so not used to this frost on the windshield stuff. Really wish Hyundai would get their act together
Tina – I’m so sorry to read about your friend. Absolutely, go to the game. He would have wanted you to. I wouldn’t be surprised at all if he was at that game, too
Lisa – that pic of Egg and the fire looks like something out of Norman Rockwell
Oh Annie – how I wish I could be there to give you a real big hug. But since I can’t, just take the virtual one that I’m sending. My neighbor just had in-home hospice and it seemed to work out quite well for them. Of course, everyone is different
Joy – does your husband take uloric for his gout? Vince takes that
Rebecca – could there be a silver lining in your gum issue – you don’t want to eat????
They’re celebrating the birthdays at ceramics. To be honest, I really don’t care to. But I got some pigs in the blanket to take with me tonight. Vince will eat whatever is left over.
Michele NC3 -
OK, it made me laugh. I think those of you who do these things are wonderful, and I haven't given up yet, I swear!
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Annie: You are so brave and compassionate to begin palliative care for your mother. I have had only amazing experiences with hospice care. I suggested it my friend Amy's husband in Poconos, but it was too late. She passed in the hospital ICU. 😥
Tina: My sympathies on the loss of your dear friend.
Rori
Colorado Foothills9
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