WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR OCTOBER 2024
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Machka: I admire so much the effort you put in to understand Brain function and to love and have compassion for your husband on a day to day basis. I know this must be a lonely endeavor at times...and that those around you might not understand what your day to day life is all about.
Best,
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Good morning beautiful ladies!
Machka good work on your yard! And you are right about Dad. Thank you. He cries fairly often. He has a picture of Mom that always makes him weepy, and he keeps it on the kitchen table. He cries just sitting on the couch. But he never says anything about why, and I let him be. It's tough for a man of his generation to identify feelings but I think he is sliding from grief into depression. He feels useless, and hates to see his abilities declining. Not much more I can do, as long as he tells the doctor that all is well.
Pip ten miles! Wow. When is the marathon?
Lisa sorry about your back pain. Tylenol on an iron? Who knew?
Mo great job walking 3 miles! Sounds like that parent is really a handful. So sad. And hope your situation with Julia improves. I have an estranged daughter and I'm so full of guilt and questions over her!
Michele thank you. And glad you got rid of the red ants.
Rita glad you are out of the flooding.
Rosemarie a new poodle! How exciting! What's his name? What color? How is his training going?
Rebecca my sympathies with your waiting for your son's to reply. It is tough.
Barbara that's excellent that Mooch and Shadow avoided joining the dog tussle. Good job training!
Not much on the schedule today. I have a book to finish reading. And several ongoing chores.
One of my college friends Mark has cancer surgery on Wednesday. I need to write to him, but I don't have much to say.
Anyway, have a great day! May you all be happy, healthy, safe and free!
Annie in Delaware
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Machka I just wanted to thank you again for your comments on emotions and brain damage. I have a tendency to slide from "what can I do" to "it's my responsibility" down to " it's my fault." You remind me that it's his disease, and I have very little control. Thank you.
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Machka I just wanted to thank you again for your comments on emotions and brain damage. I have a tendency to slide from "what can I do" to "it's my responsibility" down to " it's my fault." You remind me that it's his disease, and I have very little control. Thank you.
Annie in Delaware
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One of the things I have to remind myself about quite frequently is that, in my husband's case, it's his injury. It's not my fault. It's not his fault. It's just the injury.
There isn't much I can do to make certain situations easier (although I have a few tricks up my sleeve that may help sometimes) and I can't expect him to "snap out of it" or come good after a few minutes because his brain is no longer capable of that. Not my fault. Not his fault. Just the injury.
It's a similar situation with your father. It's not your fault. It's not his fault. It's the dementia.
It's so sad when things affect the brain like that.
Machka in Oz
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mcmillonmail wrote: »Good early morning, ladies. I got called off from work last night, so I am home. We only had 13 patients. That mom will be upset that I am not there to care for them. Her little girl is doing much better and tolerating food. She has gained weight as well. The mom gets mad when we are focusing on her child. I told her that if she doesn't get it together and stop threatening people, I will have my husband counsel her. She loved the idea. She hates for me to leave the room, and she talks so much I can't think. I told her to give me a moment to figure out the total volume of fluid that I was giving her daughter. I explained that I could not walk and chew bubble gum simultaneously. I tell her I have other patients to tend to, and she always says, "Don't leave me." I told her that she needed to sleep and stop obsessing.
As for my birthday plans, I didn't get my mani-pedi that day, but I will soon. Thank you, Pip, for the bike advice. I wanted an answer for whoever knew. Since moving to Chicago, a Hybrid will be excellent, and I am keeping my road bike, too. (My dad bought it for me.) Growing up, my dad always purchased a yellow Schwinn for me. I don't know why he got yellow in sunny CA. I always preferred red. So he finally got a wine-red Trek for me on Mother's Day. As for e-bikes, Lanette, those sound cool as well. I prefer to ride them on a quiet road—so much traffic in Chicago. I used to ride a lot in MS, but if I do again, it will be on the Natchez Trace. It Is so beautiful and scenic. I will need glasses. The bugs here are very aggressive. A bug got in my eye the last time I rode, and it swelled up. We have a friend in Chicago who sponsors rides on trails, and he taught my daughter and his four-year-old daughter how to ride without training wheels. Thank you, Flea, for your breakdown. I want a human-powered bike to burn calories, too. Machka, a human power bike, is all I have experience with.
Annie, six bags are impressive. I only have two boxes ready for Goodwill or the Salvation Army. DH wants to donate his pants to the Salvation Army. Goodwill is next door to Kroger, where I need to go, so that is where I will drop off tomorrow. There are pictures in Julia's room that I will save for her. Even though she is not allowed in my house anymore, I still love her. I am hoping that God is working on her. So far, she has a steady job. I will anonymously help her.
Pip, can you post a pick of the Klein bike? Your Yogi looks good for his age. He doesn't have a frosted snout. Rose is 9, and her face is now white. She is still playful and energetic, and she snores, too. I thought Yogi was younger than Rose.
Margaret, those scenic pictures are so beautiful. You look happy and radiant.
Tracey, that dragon is beautiful. My aunt loves dragons, and one year, I made her some dragon earrings and added purple crystals(her favorite color); she loved them. I love that ceramic place as well. I would go there every week if we had one. Michelle sent a link to Etsy, and I ordered some pieces to paint. The way you paint your ceramics is very detail-oriented, and they always look so good. Did you paint the eyes of the dragon too? You all are so creative.
Heather, you have been doing so well since your surgery. You are beautiful, and I can't wait to go to London and try the fish and chips I read about in books and now see in your pictures. I love John's painting. He is a natural.
Hi, Terri. I hope all is well with you. Thank you all for wishing me a happy birthday. Being friends with all of you is one of the best gifts I have received.
Lisa, I always wanted to be a coffee drinker. I couldn't wait until I liked coffee as a kid. I had some at work, but it didn't work with my reflux issue. Tea is my jam. I switch to Decaff close to bedtime. Our weather is the same; it is a lot cooler. I hope it will be warm enough for Rose and me to hit the trail this week. It sounds like your creative juices are flowing, and you and Corey are into your projects. This may be a crystal ball of what retirement will look like, having him home all day. With my DH, I must stop and cater to him and then return to work. I wish I could sew, but I failed that part in home economics. I want to make pretty hospital gowns for the more comfortable kids. You are multitalented, and I can't wait to see what you are selling at your booth.
Allie, I hope you have a smooth sailing on your cruise. Beware; it can be addictive. When you get home, you will be planning your next cruise. If so, maybe Greece?? Anyway, have fun. BTW, I love the matching PJs on sMiles and Delia. It is priceless.
Michelle, did you ever make those Whoopi pies? I think I will soon. I tend to cook more when my son is home. DH can bring things to Jules that I cook, too. I can't wait to try your recipe, too.
Well, Lisa is right, I can talk. Have a wonderful Monday, everyone.
XO,
MO, in Mississippi
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good morning beautiful ladies!
Machka good work on your yard! And you are right about Dad. Thank you. He cries fairly often. He has a picture of Mom that always makes him weepy, and he keeps it on the kitchen table. He cries just sitting on the couch. But he never says anything about why, and I let him be. It's tough for a man of his generation to identify feelings but I think he is sliding from grief into depression. He feels useless, and hates to see his abilities declining. Not much more I can do, as long as he tells the doctor that all is well.
Pip ten miles! Wow. When is the marathon?
Lisa sorry about your back pain. Tylenol on an iron? Who knew?
Mo great job walking 3 miles! Sounds like that parent is really a handful. So sad. And hope your situation with Julia improves. I have an estranged daughter and I'm so full of guilt and questions over her!
Michele thank you. And glad you got rid of the red ants.
Rita glad you are out of the flooding.
Rosemarie a new poodle! How exciting! What's his name? What color? How is his training going?
Rebecca my sympathies with your waiting for your son's to reply. It is tough.
Barbara that's excellent that Mooch and Shadow avoided joining the dog tussle. Good job training!
Not much on the schedule today. I have a book to finish reading. And several ongoing chores.
One of my college friends Mark has cancer surgery on Wednesday. I need to write to him, but I don't have much to say.
Anyway, have a great day! May you all be happy, healthy, safe and free!
Annie in Delaware
November 3rd. Last Saturday we did 11.
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(((Rita)))Your flooding made our local weather news. In the paper today it said people had to be rescued and two died in the area. So sorry you have to go through this.
M Your brain can also be damaged by too much alcohol (my DS) and a diet of processed food.
To protect my Brain my new mantra is protect my liver(major organ for detoxing) and feed my gut (having a healthy gut helps all of the organs in your body)
Picture from rest stop with a Grant Wood theme...the wagon is a shout out to the Amish who live in the area.
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A relief made of a Grant Wood art work...
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Flowers to brighten the day...
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Morning, kids,
Mo - I definitely meant it when I said that I love it that you talk! There are all levels of communication in this group, and those who reach out to others and share more of their own lives are a vital part of this wonderful mix. So are those that don't necessarily talk a lot, but are part of the whole in different ways that share where they feel comfortable and reach out as they can. Those who are new to the group often feel so terribly intimidated, and watching you jump in and become part of the mix so quickly was just wonderful. You've got a good handle on where so many of us are, and show it. It may be that empathy that's part of your healthcare background--the one where your little patient's clingy mama obviously pushes people's empathy into exhaustion and frustration. That you still have empathy AT ALL is such a tribute to your strength of mind and emotion. Love having you here.
Finally realized what I would need to pull all the last few years of work together into a single item (or a number of items, in the end). Woke up with that in mind this morning, after more than 8 hours of sleep... now to see if I can get anywhere close to what I've envisioned!
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa in AR
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Morning all
Well ol Allie has a cold.. sheesh if its not one thing its another.. it hasn't been ideal but Ive spent more time in my room than I want to..I know I brought cold meds with me but for the life of me I can't find them..today I have a massage at 1:30,and its been cloudy most of the time,warm but cloudy..havent even hit the pool yet.and 1 cocktail with the premium package.. lol
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@Lisa, must be something in the air. For me, change in air pressure makes all my bones hurt. The higher the pressure, the more they hurt. Anything over 29.5 of pressure I know it without looking. Join me in the back brace, just add a knee brace and we can be “twins”!
LOL. RVRita in Roswell
This month’s diabetic class is on sleep. Take a look in the spoiler:Overview
Session 17: Sleep
When you are trying to lose weight, it makes sense to focus on your food intake and your activity. Another factor that is important to think about is your sleep. In an earlier session, we talked about the damage stress can cause to your
body. When your
body is not rested, it is
in a state of stress. In
addition to this stress,
being tired decreases
your motivation and
makes it hard to
make good choices.
In this session, you will
learn how sleep
affects you, and you
will learn some basic skills that will help you to get the sleep that you need.
How Sleep Impacts Your Body
Two key hormones that affect your hunger are ghrelin and leptin. Ghrelin is the “go” hormone that tells you when to eat. When you are sleep deprived you have more ghrelin and this causes you to want to eat. Leptin
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is the hormone that tells you to stop eating. When you are sleep deprived you have less leptin and this makes it harder to stop eating. Can you see how this combination could lead to weight gain?
In addition to the impact that a lack of sleep has on your hunger and fullness signals, not getting enough sleep can also increase your risk of many health issues including heart disease, diabetes and heart attacks.
How Sleep Impacts Your Behavior
If you are feeling sleepy at work, you may be tempted to reach for a cup of coffee and a doughnut for a quick shot of energy. If you are tired, you may skip the gym and pick up takeout on your way home. When you are sleep deprived and running low on energy, you may reach for comfort, high-calorie foods. Poor food choices and a lack of exercise can lead to weight gain.
Recommendations for Sleep
The National Sleep Foundation says that while sleep needs can be different for different people and change with age, most adults need 7-9 hours of sleep and most older adults (65+) need 7-8 hours of sleep each night.
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Tips to Improve Sleep
➢ Do not go to bed hungry or stuffed.
➢ Limit drinks before bed.
➢ Avoid any caffeine in the afternoon as it can keep you in the lighter stages of sleep.
➢ Limit alcohol intake.
➢ Stick to a sleep schedule. Try to go to bed and
wake up at the same time each day.
➢ Get comfortable. Create a room that is ideal for sleeping. Often, this means cool, dark and quiet.
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Regular activity can promote better sleep.
➢ Manage stress. When you have too much to do and too much to think about, your sleep will likely suffer. (use tips from session 14)
➢ Limit screen time before going to bed, and avoid any screen time while in bed.
➢ Consider making your bedroom a screen free zone to avoid temptation.
✓ Skill Building Activity: Preparing for Sleep (your coach will lead you through this activity)
Sleep Journal
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See Handout: Your Sleep Space
Unwind about an hour before bed.
See Handout: 8 Tips to Unwind Before Bed
Limit daytime naps.
Include physical activity in your daily routine.
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If you are struggling to get enough sleep, use the mobile app, website, or the handout provided to track your sleep and the behaviors that may affect your sleep. You may need to track for a few weeks before you can find a pattern. Once you figure out what is preventing you from getting enough sleep, you can work with your coach on making changes. It may take a little time and effort to improve your sleep, but it is worth it. Your body will thank you.
Be sure to track the following:
Total hours of sleep
Number of caffeinated and alcoholic beverages
Physical activity minutes
Nap minutes
Wake time and bedtime
See Handout: Sleep Journal
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Summary
Sleep plays a very big role in overall health. If you are not getting enough sleep, use the tips given in this session and try to increase your sleep hours each night. You may find that your mood, energy, memory, weight, and overall health benefits from your efforts.
Skill Building Activity: Sleep Journal (your coach will lead you through this activity)
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Keep Moving
After getting a good night’s sleep, you may wake up with more energy. Start your day with a set of simple stretches to wake your body up.
Activities
□ Use the app, website, or the sleep journal provided to track your sleep this week.
□ Review the handout for improving your sleep space and make one change to improve where you sleep.
□ Goal setting: Work with your coach this week to set one goal associated with this session. Example: I will decrease my coffee intake to one cup per day.
List your goal here or message it to your coach: ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________
Discussion/Questions
□ Ask your coach how he/she would rate the amount of sleep you currently get.
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□ Ask group members if they have any tips or suggestions for getting better sleep.
“Sleep is the golden chain that binds health and our bodies together.” -Thomas Dekker
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Your Sleep Space
Use the five tips below to make your bedroom an ideal place to get the rest you need!
Keep your bedroom temperature comfortable:
● Some studies say 65 degrees is optimal sleep temperature. However, you can play with the thermostat to see what works best for you.
✔Keep the room dark:
● Eliminate as much natural & artificial light as
possible.
● Artificial light from a television, phone or
computer screen can decrease the hormone that helps you fall asleep and stay asleep.
✔Make the room smell nice:
● Using scents like lavender may decrease your
heart rate and blood pressure making you
more relaxed.
● It may help to keep your sheets clean & fresh.
✔Turn off the volume:
● Rather than falling asleep to the sound of the
television, try using white noise or making your room as quiet as possible.
✔Invest in a good mattress and bedding:
● Consider getting a quality mattress about every
eight years and new pillows every two years.
Eight Tips to Unwind Before Bed
Below is the list of tips to help you unwind before bed:
1. Listen to soft, relaxing music
2. Drink non-caffeinated herbal tea
3. Take a warm bath or shower
4. Drink warm milk or warmed up non-dairy alternative 5. Read - hard copies are the best!
6. Practice deep breathing exercises
7. Mediation - try a meditation app!
8. Hide your clock so you can’t keep an eye on it
Sleep Journal Date: ___________
Notes: (Include Stress and Emotions) ______________________________________________________________________________________
Date: ___________
Notes: (Include Stress and Emotions)
______________________________________________________________________________________ Date: ___________
Notes: (Include Stress and Emotions) ______________________________________________________________________________________
Hours of Sleep
Wake Time
Woke # times
Exercise (Y/N)
Alcohol (Y/N)
Nap (Y/N)
Caffeine (Y/N)
Meds
Energy (1-5)
Bed Time
Hours of Sleep
Wake Time
Woke # times
Exercise (Y/N)
Alcohol (Y/N)
Nap (Y/N)
Caffeine (Y/N)
Meds
Energy (1-5)
Bed Time
Hours of Sleep
Wake Time
Woke # times
Exercise (Y/N)
Alcohol (Y/N)
Nap (Y/N)
Caffeine (Y/N)
Meds
Energy (1-5)
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Rosemarie2972 wrote: »Thank you Lisa.
RVRita: I just read about the flooding in NM..near Roswell. Hope everything is okay at the camp!
Best,
Rosemarie from GA
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This is a video of the damage in town. The city itself is 15 miles from me. There are a couple of bridges out that I have to direct campers around, but other than that, the campground itself was fine. Just muddy in spots but that’s to be expected. We had 4 inches of rain in a short time in a dessert where that is a year’s worth of rain. They have had 2 deaths because of the flooding. Vehicles are still in the washes and rivers that were almost dry before this. The ground here doesn’t absorb the water like other places. It just runs off the top. Sand, clay, lime, and salt.
We are good and avoiding downtown for a few days to let them clean up.
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Today is: celebrate pumpkin pie, apples, and lizards! Have a great day!
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Machka - thank you so much for that in-depth look at how our brains function. One of the best I've read, plus your personal experience with your DH sheds a lot of light on brain injury.
Rosemarie - so glad to see you back with us! You have been very busy - good to hear your son's move is just about completed, and that you're back knitting and now writing. Enjoy your poodle, they are so smart, I bet you'll have him trained in no time. Welcome, sadly, to the pre-diabetes club. But the good news is that there are ways to head it off at the pass with cleaning up our eating and getting more exercise. Your walking will help a lot. Did your doctor give you any guidance on nutrition/activity/lifestyle changes?
Ginny - I use 3 or 5 pound weights on my house walks too. I aim to get 30 minutes or over each day, walking after meals 10 to 15 minutes each time, to help control blood sugar. I know that's beneficial. I'm interested in the Farmer's Walk with gradually heavier weights to increase my grip strength. After my foot started giving me hassle earlier this year, I stopped wearing the weighted vest to lessen the pressure on that foot, but the stress fracture or whatever was causing swelling has settled down so might resume putting it on for a little bit at a time. How's your foot?
Friend Charlie stopped by yesterday and took a look at my mower, which had been making some noise. I wear heavy duty hearing protectors when I mow and I could still hear it "scream", which told me it might be a bearing. Sure enough, Charlie took it for a spin and one of the bearings is going out. He found the right wrenches in DH's tool collection and dismantled that part of the mower deck in just a couple minutes. He'll get a new bearing and install it for me next time he's out this way. He told me it's a simple process, even I could do it, and I thought I probably could as I watched him remove the bolts. But my problem would be strength to turn the wrench. Hence my interest in getting and keeping my hands (grip) and forearms strong. Hope Farmer's Carry/Walk helps with that.
Make it a fabulous week, ladies!
Lanette
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Recovery day for me after our guest. I managed a good exercise session this morning, including dumbbells.
I also did some research for my next chapter, which is about the meeting of gametes and the chance of us being here at all as a unique individual.
In terms of just human DNA it's 400,000,000,000,000,000.
Then you have to go back in natural history, so it's pretty close to zero.
Luckily, I'm 100% here!
Enjoying myself.
Had Tandoori Chicken for dinner. Monday night is quiz night on the TV, which John enjoys.
Bea pick up tomorrow. It looks as though the weather is going to clear up and be quite nice.
DSIL showed me that the top bathroom tap was leaking, so I've got our plumber coming on Wednesday. He wanted lots of photos. Max is coming over for lunch, so it's best if John takes him out on his own. That suits me better.
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Rita - Your post the other day reminded me that I own a back brace from the last time I was doing so much work outside. It's helping, too! And I've been putting flextape on my knees for nearly ten years, I try to let them breathe for a night once a week or so... Never thought about the pressure affecting my joints as well as my sinuses... good grief!
I painted three pieces this morning to possibly use for the side of bags - but as usual, I tried to go with representational and fell short, even while deliberately using the impressionist style! I know better--it's the same trap I fell in with the bookshelf quilt. So I'm backing off of the idea for a few days, and will see how I feel about it a little down the road. The spoiler has the only one I would even think about using to make a bag out of it, and I don't like it. But, as I said, I'll think about it for a few days and make a decision about it at a later point.
Later, my chickens,
Love,
Lisa in AR
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Rosemarie A poodle puppy. How wonderful for you. One of the happiest chapters in my life was when we had poodles. Is yours a Standard Poodle or a smaller one?
🌻🌞I have so much less time to work in my yard this year primarily because of the need to supervise Annie, the puppy. However, I am delighted at how much I have been able to accomplish with the 15-30 minutes a day I can leave Annie by herself inside the fenced yard.
🖥😀Heather I, too, am watching Midsomer Murders. I am on Season 4. You are probably watching the current season.
🌧🐶🐾Barbie in NW WA 💖4 -
MFP Weekly Check-In for October 21, 2024
Rita in Roswell NM - Stayed the same this week. Probably because of not walking and just laying around all week due to knee and back. But still down from original high of 210, and down from my start of 186 this time around. I’m 171.6 this morning. Started walking a bit yesterday. Today a little more. Soon, I’ll be back to 3 to 5 miles a day!
Barbara on the Southern Oregon Coast - WT today down to 130.1 yay. Weekly average down to 131.6 from last week's average 132.2. Monthly average at 132.0 will be a challenge to get it down to September's 130.9. No more anniversary Chinese food for me!
Sugar, CI<CO, steps, all below par. Back to line dancing and dog group, but not BB&B, PT or Zumba.
Sue in WA State - I lost 1 pound this week and was able to cut back on sugar all but 1 day. Somehow Wednesday was a sugar day. Not sure why. Will endeavor to keep up the low sugar this week along with consistent exercise.
Lanette SW WA State – 158.75 this weekend. Well within range and clothes fitting fine, which is the main thing for me. Slowly upping time walking with weights after meals.
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Amazon told me I could shop faster with voice. I don't want to shop faster! I want to browse slowly like a good bookstore. And my wallet can barely keep up as it is. And I need a new bookcase!
And I made the mistake of looking at my Facebook friend requests. Is it normal for total strangers (men) to show up there? And do I sound totally desperate if I wonder if that's a good way to meet someone? My profile pic is a closeup of Teddyboo. I think most of the rest of it is private. Hmm. They wouldn't even know my age. Probably trolling for twenty somethings or else bots flooding the community.
Anyway, I got my Dad's hair cut and finished my
book and ordered six more.
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Stats for the day-
1st time doing a farlek run, interesting…
Fartlek or Interval
A fartlek run is a run where you alternate running fast and slow for a predetermined number of minutes. I like to warm up for 15-20min and then run the fartlek before cooling down. If a fartlek is written 8,7,7,6,6,4,4,2,2,1,1 you start with 8min fast, then 7min recovery, 7min fast, then 6min recovery, and so on.
Walk w/family- 1hr 36min 52sec, 64elev, 3.11ap, 83ahr, 192mhr, 11370steps, 5.13mi= 459c
Strava app = 622c
Walk home to gym- 11.20min, 1278steps, 2.83ap, .53mi= 54c
Strava app= 64c
Treadmill *farlek* run- 39.56min, 177spm, 149ahr, 173mhr, 9.59 min mi, 7-6-6-5-5-4-4-3-3-1-1, fast pace @ 6.5sp, slow @ 5.5sp, last .05 at 8.0sp, 4mi= 402c. 7002.12steps
Walk gym to home- 12.06min, 3.32ap, 1342steps, .66mi= 58c
Strava app = 80c
Total cal 973
The run was over before I knew it
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good morning beautiful ladies!
Machka good work on your yard! And you are right about Dad. Thank you. He cries fairly often. He has a picture of Mom that always makes him weepy, and he keeps it on the kitchen table. He cries just sitting on the couch. But he never says anything about why, and I let him be. It's tough for a man of his generation to identify feelings but I think he is sliding from grief into depression. He feels useless, and hates to see his abilities declining. Not much more I can do, as long as he tells the doctor that all is well.
Annie in Delaware
Annie- my mom still gets weepy at little things, missing my dad. They were married 65 yrs(just a few months shy-his celebration of life was on what would have been their 65th). 12/30 will be 4 yrs since he passed away. No time limit on a grief that big. She struggles to keep up with everything on the property pretty much by herself. Her memory is getting worse and that frustrates her at times. She is supposed to talk to her doctor about it, hopefully this week. I will need to be up with her more. Another concern is what you already dealt with- driving. She does limit her driving but there will be a time when she won't be able to drive and she lives 10 miles from town.4 -
Afternoon folks
Had a fabulous massage and facial,and scalp massage and caved and bought product,but had onboard credit..and i still cant find the cold meds so ill get some cold meds this evening.
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Today’s gratitude: Dogs competing for “cutest” during morning time with Joe. Three way tie
Belated welcome @PennyinTX and @eagles226. Start by logging every bite, lick or sip, it’s a real eye-opener. You can do this!
Heather I started watching the Cas “forgot to deep clean” YouTube but stopped when she said “… this is why I don’t deep clean my house.” Will go back to it later Brava for all that writing!!!
Attagal Carol for persisting and getting your printer to work with new drivers!
Annie hooray for waling in the forest, for hip soreness getting better and SIX bags to go!!!. The Clutterbug’s 30 day challenge really helped shift my default position from “Maybe I could/should do something with this.” To “Can I release this back to the universe either by donating, recycling or tossing into the trash.” Doesn’t happen every time but it NEVER used to happen before the 5 minutes/5 things a day for 30 days. Cas puts the stuff that she doesn’t know where they belong, where she would look for them if the needed to use ‘em. Good luck!
Margaret hope the vaguely remembered gal is a pleasant addition to your circle.
Rita hope the knee issue is NOT serious. ((hugs)) Very appealing trails, hope you can soon explore them.
Allie your and dgd’s smiles.
Michele that poor tree! Those kittens really made it a “Nightmare before Christmas” Halloween tree.
Rori hip flexors not arthritis, hooray! Know you’ll persist with the needed exercises.
Tracey thankful indeed for your paid time off. Hope you continue to enjoy the new job and coworkers.
Rebecca ((hugs)) The waiting is the hardest part.
Lisa gorgeous clutch but did I miss the gold lined pocket? Don’t remember Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light and Ruler of Heck, but I loved Dilbert. Will have to see if I can find any of those books.
Heather Johnny’s second acrylic, truly beautiful! Your palette knife splosh is exuberant! Your carbonara mouth-watering and giving me ideas.
Barbie loved your “be kind to yourself” counsel to Annie.
Pip poor Yogi! Could his allergies contribute to his ear infection? Our Wheaten Terrier had horrible allergies and ear infections. :’(
Machka had to laugh that the part of gardening you’re really looking forward to is digging and moving rocks. Know your passphrase security advice is sound but I just can’t do it. I have a few passwords, with variations to meet length and character type variations that I use for most of my accounts. Keep them in a little notebook in my desk. If someone gets into our house and study they’ll get more important things than my passwords. We do what we can do.
Mo belated happiest birthday wishes to you! Hooray for smaller sized jeans fitting.
Lanette Tumble would not allow us to forget Tummy Time. She becomes quite insistent if its delayed, even if we’re napping. She’ll poke and prod and failing that launch into heart-rending “Yipes! I’m STARVING.”
Rita truth about data being forever available, especially to authorities and bad actors. The cloud is just a hard drive in someone’s data center.
Sue ((hugs)) and prayers for your sister.
Decluttering challenge Day 34/30 Fire district binders and Thrivent folder34-Loaded the binders into the car to take to the fire hall tonight. Spent close to an hour purging from the monster Thrivent folder to make room for the new annuity contract paperwork. Now only the fire district GRANTS binder and WTH pile remain.Only through pg 18 but time to get those binders to the fire hall.
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
Move more than yesterday, fuel better than yesterday, live NOW.
Open heart and mind before mouth.
2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Amazon told me I could shop faster with voice. I don't want to shop faster! I want to browse slowly like a good bookstore. And my wallet can barely keep up as it is. And I need a new bookcase!
And I made the mistake of looking at my Facebook friend requests. Is it normal for total strangers (men) to show up there? And do I sound totally desperate if I wonder if that's a good way to meet someone? My profile pic is a closeup of Teddyboo. I think most of the rest of it is private. Hmm. They wouldn't even know my age. Probably trolling for twenty somethings or else bots flooding the community.
Anyway, I got my Dad's hair cut and finished my
book and ordered six more.
Annie in Delaware
The "men" are bots, not real men. Yes, they turn up in droves.
Always delete them. Also delete friend requests from people who are already your friends. Basically I delete most friend requests unless I have met someone in person and they are making the request then and there.
You can view your page on FB as the public would see it.
Go to your FB page on your laptop. Click the various ... buttons to see what options they give you. I don't have it in front of me but I think it's a ... button on the right. Just under your banner photo. And the button may consist of ... (3 dots).
Under one of the buttons there is a choice that says 'View As'. Click that and you'll see your page as the general public sees it.
M in Oz
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Today’s gratitude: Dogs competing for “cutest” during morning time with Joe. Three way tie
Belated welcome @PennyinTX and @eagles226. Start by logging every bite, lick or sip, it’s a real eye-opener. You can do this!
Heather I started watching the Cas “forgot to deep clean” YouTube but stopped when she said “… this is why I don’t deep clean my house.” Will go back to it later Brava for all that writing!!!
Attagal Carol for persisting and getting your printer to work with new drivers!
Annie hooray for waling in the forest, for hip soreness getting better and SIX bags to go!!!. The Clutterbug’s 30 day challenge really helped shift my default position from “Maybe I could/should do something with this.” To “Can I release this back to the universe either by donating, recycling or tossing into the trash.” Doesn’t happen every time but it NEVER used to happen before the 5 minutes/5 things a day for 30 days. Cas puts the stuff that she doesn’t know where they belong, where she would look for them if the needed to use ‘em. Good luck!
Margaret hope the vaguely remembered gal is a pleasant addition to your circle.
Rita hope the knee issue is NOT serious. ((hugs)) Very appealing trails, hope you can soon explore them.
Allie your and dgd’s smiles.
Michele that poor tree! Those kittens really made it a “Nightmare before Christmas” Halloween tree.
Rori hip flexors not arthritis, hooray! Know you’ll persist with the needed exercises.
Tracey thankful indeed for your paid time off. Hope you continue to enjoy the new job and coworkers.
Rebecca ((hugs)) The waiting is the hardest part.
Lisa gorgeous clutch but did I miss the gold lined pocket? Don’t remember Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light and Ruler of Heck, but I loved Dilbert. Will have to see if I can find any of those books.
Heather Johnny’s second acrylic, truly beautiful! Your palette knife splosh is exuberant! Your carbonara mouth-watering and giving me ideas.
Barbie loved your “be kind to yourself” counsel to Annie.
Pip poor Yogi! Could his allergies contribute to his ear infection? Our Wheaten Terrier had horrible allergies and ear infections. :’(
Machka had to laugh that the part of gardening you’re really looking forward to is digging and moving rocks. Know your passphrase security advice is sound but I just can’t do it. I have a few passwords, with variations to meet length and character type variations that I use for most of my accounts. Keep them in a little notebook in my desk. If someone gets into our house and study they’ll get more important things than my passwords. We do what we can do.
Mo belated happiest birthday wishes to you! Hooray for smaller sized jeans fitting.
Lanette Tumble would not allow us to forget Tummy Time. She becomes quite insistent if its delayed, even if we’re napping. She’ll poke and prod and failing that launch into heart-rending “Yipes! I’m STARVING.”
Rita truth about data being forever available, especially to authorities and bad actors. The cloud is just a hard drive in someone’s data center.
Sue ((hugs)) and prayers for your sister.
Decluttering challenge Day 34/30 Fire district binders and Thrivent folder34-Loaded the binders into the car to take to the fire hall tonight. Spent close to an hour purging from the monster Thrivent folder to make room for the new annuity contract paperwork. Now only the fire district GRANTS binder and WTH pile remain.Only through pg 18 but time to get those binders to the fire hall.
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
Move more than yesterday, fuel better than yesterday, live NOW.
Open heart and mind before mouth.
2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections
I guess that’s possible.
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Amazon told me I could shop faster with voice. I don't want to shop faster! I want to browse slowly like a good bookstore. And my wallet can barely keep up as it is. And I need a new bookcase!
And I made the mistake of looking at my Facebook friend requests. Is it normal for total strangers (men) to show up there? And do I sound totally desperate if I wonder if that's a good way to meet someone? My profile pic is a closeup of Teddyboo. I think most of the rest of it is private. Hmm. They wouldn't even know my age. Probably trolling for twenty somethings or else bots flooding the community.
Anyway, I got my Dad's hair cut and finished my
book and ordered six more.
Annie in Delaware
do you notice that the men sending the friend requests are almost always men in military uniform? If you click on their page- they have only a few pictures but no real posts and their friends are usually middle age or older women.
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