What do guys want....

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  • Jferg69
    Jferg69 Posts: 241 Member
    Was gonna say a cheeseburger but.....

    I would like a woman to be herself, to want the best things for herself, to want to be pleased with what she achieves in life, but most of all to be happy with the choices she has made.....

    Fortunately, I have been married to such a woman for 23 years.
    Every day is like the first day I met her, because she still takes my breath away.

    ;-)
  • KatieJane83
    KatieJane83 Posts: 2,002 Member
    ...in terms of a girl?

    (take 2 - this thread was accidentally deleted yesterday by a moderator and they failed to restore it, *grumble*...lol)

    So, once again, in response to the 'what do women want' thread. This is a chance for all you guys to break the sad stereotyping that says all you care about is t&a. What qualities are you really looking for (or been lucky enough to find)? And if you replied yesterday, feel free to respond again today, lol!

    I've already commented that I want "you", but since that's not enough lol

    I want someone who will accept me for me, allow me my quirks that make me who I am, I want someone who is as concerned about being healthy as I am, I'd like someone with skills in two specific rooms in the house (bedroom and kitchen), someone who realizes I'm not psychic, and that I will change if you want me to, don't just expect me to know you want me to, but I will not change enough to compromise myself or my morals, also I want them to be caring, loving, giving, but not to the point they feel taken advantage of, I want it to be as close to 50/50 as possible, a love of animals, and a desire to spawn some chillens... I think that covers most of it.

    And yes, unfortunately I'm single, and I would bring flowers on the second date... maybe even the first (per another thread).

    i always thought men like you were mythical. Where do the men like that hide out?

    On my friends list! I'm so lucky! :smile:
  • KatieJane83
    KatieJane83 Posts: 2,002 Member
    I think we scared all the men away lol

    :laugh:
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    I'd bring flowers on the first date. Chivalry isn't dead, it's 26 and lives in Chicago.


    it's becoming more and more unfortunate that you are way too young for me and live in Chicago

    :flowerforyou: But...I suspect there is an awesome 20something Bears fan out there looking for this guy.
  • fit4mom
    fit4mom Posts: 1,352 Member
    Loyalty, integrity, kindness, generosity, shared interests and goals, sexual compatibility, roses on the second date...
    WOW your not asking for enough! LOL
  • therenegadeangel
    therenegadeangel Posts: 36 Member
    Take me as I am - The only thing I've changed for a man is my # and I had the tail removed... it wagged when I got excited and was quite the distraction. :cry: I miss you Fleshy.

    Amen.

    I have no list. That almost always gets you nowhere. Just fall in love for God sakes.
  • Orrgarde86
    Orrgarde86 Posts: 120 Member
    Someone who isn't arrogant or superficial, who doesn't mind my bad sides (childish humour, impulsive decision making) and my old-fashioned way of being a gentleman. Someone I can have fun with and share experiences with.

    Openness and honesty is also a big thing for me - I can't do the sulking etc - If there is an issue I'd rather solve it right away.

    Know this woman?? Send her my way!
  • slimlissy3
    slimlissy3 Posts: 7 Member
    LOL we are here, theres loads of women out there like that, but i think men these days are too picky (not you) in general and then they come crawling back once they've realised they want you...its then too late heeheeeee!! :)
  • Orrgarde86
    Orrgarde86 Posts: 120 Member
    LOL we are here, theres loads of women out there like that, but i think men these days are too picky (not you) in general and then they come crawling back once they've realised they want you...its then too late heeheeeee!! :)

    Was that aimed at me? I can't seem to find her! HAHA
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    Honesty first and foremost, but also friendship and a good sex life. Most everything else can be worked out.
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