Gap between my legs

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  • People are so snippy on the forums lately. Lighten up people we just entered into a new year. She didn't say you have to have a gap between your legs! LOL. Well that was one of my NSVs in 2011 (my thighs no longer rub together) and I didn't intentionally try to have a gap it just happened. I have tried so many workouts under the sun but I would say running and the stepmill (rotating step machine that is evil) can contribute to getting that gap.

    I am working on no triceps flapping when I wave (will someone scream at me about that?).

    Nicely said!!1 congrats ont he gap! ;)
  • I want one I want one! - Better cut back on the pies!

    Cr@p...now I want pie

    Ooops sorry! Me too come to think of it! Oh the pain I put myself through! :explode:
  • Jacquelyn913
    Jacquelyn913 Posts: 300 Member
    Wow, this has been really enlightening. I always thought this was a totally achievable goal and physically thought there might have been something wrong with me because I have been trying to get that 'gap' for over a year now and havent achieved it. They just barely touch at the top. I have been beating myself up over the fact that they still touch, I feel much better now that I know it's not actually that common. Seriously this made my day. :happy:
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    this "thigh gap" thing is still going?

    What's wrong with Elle Macpherson surfing, kayaking and jogging with her 70+ year old father? enjoying sun and waves with her family? She's almost 50! Good for her, whatever her legs look like. They work. Quite well, apparently. :wink:
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    I just want this in my topics.

    I'll never have a gap between my legs again. I'm not a teenager, and I don't want to be that thin.

    Good luck with this.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    Running. That did it for me. I never had one when I rowed, even though I weighed a stone less than now.

    I have 34 inch hips, so narrow by most standards.
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    this "thigh gap" thing is still going?

    What's wrong with Elle Macpherson surfing, kayaking and jogging with her 70+ year old father? enjoying sun and waves with her family? She's almost 50! Good for her, whatever her legs look like. They work. Quite well, apparently. :wink:
    lol I don't think it was the legs that people were looking at so much... :laugh:
  • llkilgore
    llkilgore Posts: 1,169 Member
    I don't worry about my thighs too much though because I have an apple shaped body. I'm overweight for my size and my thighs don't touch.

    That was me too when I was overweight. My thighs might have touched when I stood with my ankles together 50 pounds ago - I don't know because it never occurred to me that I needed to check - but they never, ever rubbed when I walked. I never had the "pones" of fat that some overweight women have on their outer thighs either. It has to do with fat distribution, as well as bone structure, and I never carried much excess fat on my legs. I did, however, have a spare tire around my middle large enough to fit a dump truck.

    Still, I can understand where the OP is coming from. I've always wanted a small waist and will never have it because I'm relatively short in the torso and there isn't enough room between my rib cage and pelvis for a well defined waist. Knowing that doesn't stop me from wanting one.
  • LemonSocks
    LemonSocks Posts: 238 Member
    I would love to have the gap. Whilst on holiday last summer I'd gotten use to wearing a swimsuit and dress without shorts down to the pool, so I figured I'd be fine to walk to the local town. I was not! I was hot and sweaty and ended up with very large, very sore blisters across my thighs.

    I'm not hopeful I will ever see it though.
  • ChanlynMay
    ChanlynMay Posts: 37 Member
    I'm sorry for some of the negative snippy answers you received. I too have always wished that my thighs had that "gap" not because I want to look anorexic or look like a teenager, just to get rid of the discomfort that comes from your thighs rubbing together. For anyone who hasn't experienced it, it is very sore and uncomfortable and can actually interfere with some activities. I don't think my body structure will ever allow for it but hopefully as I lose weight some of it will come off my inners thighs and make it a bit more bearable.
  • Akjenn89
    Akjenn89 Posts: 265 Member
    I remember asking my mom when I was younger (like 13-14) why some women have a gap between their thighs. Her answer? "They're loose and have lots of sex." Never tested the theory and I remember growing up always hoping I would never get one, in case my mom thought I was a slut. Haha. =] (Obviously I don't believe that now, but this topic always makes me laugh a little when I think about it).
  • ReverendJim
    ReverendJim Posts: 260 Member
    *withholding wildly inappropriate comment*

    My thoughts exactly... first thing that popped into my mind isn't suitable for this forum.
  • sbeisel1
    sbeisel1 Posts: 181
    Stand with your legs slightly further apart.

    :flowerforyou:

    :laugh:
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    question for OP - "thigh gap" like this?

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  • Anyone who says they think a gap between the thighs is "discusting" or anything along that line is jealous in my opinion. Id kill for it!
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Anyone who says they think a gap between the thighs is "discusting" or anything along that line is jealous in my opinion. Id kill for it!
    Funny, didn't see anyone saying it was "discusting". Don't know what that means either.

    As for those of us that don't dig the unhealthy protruding bone and underdeveloped thigh look -- to each his own.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Stand with your legs slightly further apart.

    :flowerforyou:
    This is my favorite response. I totally agree. I mean, yes it is possible for a lot of people - not everyone - but if you are at a healthy body weight and body fat % and your thighs still touch, it's not a big deal?
    Mine do but I've got a big sturdy build (but low body fat and am fit and healthy) and if I really don't want them to touch, I can just widen my stance a bit. :happy:
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Stand with your legs slightly further apart.

    :flowerforyou:
    This is my favorite response. I totally agree. I mean, yes it is possible for a lot of people - not everyone - but if you are at a healthy body weight and body fat % and your thighs still touch, it's not a big deal?
    Mine do but I've got a big sturdy build (but low body fat and am fit and healthy) and if I really don't want them to touch, I can just widen my stance a bit. :happy:

    Exactly!

    I was thinking this morning about this thread and how someone said she sees this everywhere she goes. I tend to wear pretty tight-fitting jeans and because I'm actually at a pretty healthy weight, generally-speaking, I don't have especially large legs. The way my jeans fit there is an illusion that my thighs don't quite touch. But ONLY in tightish jeans. Any other clothing, naked or in a bathing suit, they touch.
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    Anyone who says they think a gap between the thighs is "discusting" or anything along that line is jealous in my opinion. Id kill for it!

    You might just die for it if you fixate on a goal that you may only achieve by being underweight and unhealthy. I understand people wanting to look slim, healhty, athletic, etc, but I do not understand fixating on things that may or may not even be possible for your body to DO and still be healthy. If it happens when you are at a healthy weight and in good shape, good for you, celebrate it. But if your body will not do it without you being underweight and jeopardizing your health and wellbeing, is it really worth it?
  • TXBlonde81
    TXBlonde81 Posts: 78 Member
    I don't think it is wrong for you at all to set a personal goal as having a gap between your thighs; I don't know who really enjoys rubbing a hole in their jeans in that particular area. However, as stated above I do agree that some people are just not built to have the gap. Perhaps you should try and find a weight that is healthy and that you are comfortable with and see if the gap comes then?

    OMG! This was ME! I used to rub holes in my jeans from my legs rubbing and it would RUIN them! AND I couldn't wear dresses without the shorts or spanx with thigh control underneath or else my legs would rub together and get sore! I WANT the gap too, just not as much as :http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2079695/Elle-Macpherson-rides-waves-cutaway-wetsuit.html

    That's really extreme! LOL....If I can lose enough inner thigh to not have them rub holes in my jeans, that's good enough for me! lol

    I would love to be able to wear a dress or skirt all day and not worry about how bad my inner thighs will look after. My skin gets so irritated and bumpy afterwards from the rubbing together like you are talking about. I often dream of a gap between my thighs too but I'm not obsessive about it.
  • lmao this is effing retarded. you people have nothing better to do with your precious life than to analyze this haha... DEUCES!
  • mallorybriann
    mallorybriann Posts: 1,380 Member
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  • juliesummers
    juliesummers Posts: 738 Member
    There's about .5% of the population that has this. And most of them are models that are over 6 foot and weigh around 100 lbs. In other words, it's out of the ordinary. I don't think anyone focuses on that part of a person.
    My college is 65% Asian, and in the four years that I've been there, I have only seen about two dozen Japanese girls who DIDN'T have one.
  • Hungry_Tuna
    Hungry_Tuna Posts: 361 Member
    I have heard that riding horses for long periods of time can create a gap between the thighs. I haven't tried it, though.

    LMAO!!
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    lmao this is effing retarded. you people have nothing better to do with your precious life than to analyze this haha... DEUCES!

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  • WilliamsPeggy
    WilliamsPeggy Posts: 440 Member
    Stand with your legs slightly further apart.

    :flowerforyou:

    Like. :smile:
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