In love with flatmate, what to do?

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Bump. I wanna know how it went!

i feel like im listening to a movie ....what happend!!! im so curious and hope everything went good!!!!!!

DONT tell him you love him.. This is scary when it happens.. Do something nice.. dinner is a good suggestion.. Maybe drink a bit if you're old enough.. And let him drink a bit too.. Make a move.. If you don't - you'll always wonder 'what could've been'.. If you're scared of getting rejected.. Be more subtle about how you feel.. Down play your feelings for him. Tell him you think he's cute when he does those lunches and things for you.. But with meaning. If he continues to do them - he's totally into you. If not - he thinks its weird you think its cute and he's just doing it to be nice.. I doubt it though..

Or just straight up tell him that you're into him. Ask him on a date.. ??? But let him know it's a date.. and not just as roomies

Youre gorgeous and I'm sure he thinks it too.. GO GET HIM TIGER!!!

I would really advise against "making a move". That could end really really badly. I would advise against being drunk too.

I was in love with my best friend for a really long time. He was my next door neighbour. I kept dropping hints but he never got it, the big buffoon.

One day we were at the pool together and I told him how I felt. It was empty but I just thought a public place would make it less awkward somehow. I think that's personal perference.

But I really think you should talk to him, not make a move. If you just make a move it could end badly after and ruin your friendship.

If you tell him how you feel and you are both mature about whatever response he gives then life will go on..Either together or seperate

He is not going to judge you for telling him. Men are not like women. It will be okay, sweetie :smooched: Good luck.

Good luck!

bump--I totally believe in happy endings--let us know!

The suspense is killing me!

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Bump! I'm dying to see what happens. I think he has a crush too. You are beautiful!! Good luck!!

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I really hope that all goes well with this. I definitely think that you should tell him how you feel, without using the word love, and make sure to let him know that no matter what you don't want to lose him as a friend. Make sure that he knows that even if he doesn't feel the same way, you don't want things to get weird and you don't want to scare him away.

Hmm.. either it's going really well or, in true sitcom style, there was some kind of hitch - she found the perfect outfit, did her nails, shaved her legs, got the fondue set up.. and he went to the game with his buddies, then to a bar and hasn't come home yet. (but I've got my fingers crossed that they're into their second bottle of wine by now..)

I think I saw that episode...

I think I speak for everyone ...OMG....for the love of god woman hurry up and let us know what happens ......please and thank you!!!

I hope everything went well!

Also, I must say that I'm really impressed by how amazing the MFP community is. There's some really kind, thoughtful advice here. :flowerforyou:

This is what I was thinking! Hope all went well for you!

BUMP!! I can't wait to hear how it turned out! lol.....this is like an MFP Soap Opera.....