In love with flatmate, what to do?

Awesome, awesome, awesome! You are starting off my Saturday off with a smile on my face. I am a sucker for a romantic story with a happy ending.

About the lying next to each other - my now husband and I did right from the start, literally from day one.

I don't see why there would be any problem unless you have religious reasons not to be physical.

Question: I loved laying in his arms last night but would it be inappropriate just to have him lay next to me each and every night to feel his embrace?

It's one of the nicest feelings in the world, so if you feel ready to make that leap - go for it. Congratlutions sweetheart :]

Have totally welled up! Congratulations on a successful evening!

My husband moved in with me straight away after we got together and had to share a single bed with me, so we were all about the embrace without the R rating!!

if it was akward andquiet then from then you could tell you liked each other. That's when people are nervous around each other, either that or both are really shy.
nice to hear it turned out great for you. you kind of came on too hard with the husband thing but i guess it came off as sweet since he likes you too

YAY!

was so happy to read what you posted about your evening. This sounds like it could be the start of an amazing adventure together. COngrats to the both of you and I pray you have many of years together. It was such a sweet story.I literally was holding my breath reading what you had put until you said he grabbed your hand and I let out a big sigh and said I love it and my hubby said what are you doing?? LOl thanks

So Happy for you both...such a wonderful beginning!

Very very sweet ) It sounds like you guys are quite serious about eachother... I urge you to take it nice and slow... since you asked, i think too much physical too early can ruin a relationship. Glad things worked out the way you wanted!

Exactly. There is nothing wrong with moving slowly. But cuddling can be just fine and is simply wonderful.

My hubby and I fell asleep in each other's arms the night we met. BUT we remained fully clothed and nothing more than kissing went on. We met at a party and were both a bit too tipsy to get home safely. It's been 22 years since that night and I still love to fall asleep in his arms.

I am so very happy for you. Take it at your own pace. Just because you are already living together doesn't mean you need to jump right to "living together" with all that often entails with a relationship. When I was dating my hubby we lived in the same apartment building for a year. It would have been very easy to just move in with him but neither of us wanted to do that. I spent quite a few nights there and we were sexually involved but we still maintained our own spaces. You guys are in a pretty unique situation in that you started as friends and are already living together. But things sound wonderful and I hope you two are and remain very happy together.

God I was nearly in tears reading that! lol Aawwwww so so soooooo happy for you!!

This made my day! So sweet, I feel as if she now is required to keep a blog so we can keep up with the relationship.

Tell him how you feel…. then you can gauge his reaction and if its a negative you can say hey i was only kidding
Good Luck

I eventually passed away ....

You guys! We had it wrong! It wasn't a sit-com or a chick-flick, it was a zombie movie!!

All kidding aside, I'm so glad it worked out well for you. We all had our fingers crossed. Best of luck going forward.

Perhaps I am a pessimist - but after reading your 'date night' - either you copied and pasted OR you need to become a romance novelist as PoshTaush says...

Awww so sweeeeeeet!

As for the cuddling thing, it totally depends on what your'e comfortable with! I accidentally fell asleep at my boyfriend's place on our second date. Nothing happened but we just slept next to each other. It was so nice that now we rarely spend a night apart But if that feels too intimate for you, don't rush it!

Congrats on your success!