In love with flatmate, what to do?

YEH!!!! I'm so happy for you! I'm doing a happy dance for you. Happy Dance, Happy Dance! I wish you both all the best!

Lucky girl! Hold on to that one :flowerforyou:

That is so great....congrats to you both. Things should get a lot easier from here out. I wouldn't worry too much about the physical stuff as it really should come naturally, and I don't think you'll have to force the issue. Besides, it's a natural thing to want more, so take your time and enjoy it! Do yourselves a favor and get out of your heads because you could have resolved this much sooner by being a bit more forthright . Anyway, thanks so much for following up as you've held a lot of people in suspense, yet made us reflect on how great our own relationships have been as well. Kudos to you \m/

This is the sweetest story I've ever heard!! I'm so happy for you two!

Awwww... this is just sweet. I'm so glad to hear it went well :-)

Late to this thread but loved it!

So sweet!! So glad things went so well

Aw that's so very sweet actually made me well up!

And as for the laying together, that's just one bonus of feeling that comfortable with someone

I wish you all the best :drinker:

I'm so happy this went well!!!
That is SO romantic!
I actually teared up a little reading what went down.
And that is SO sweet that he is asking your dad permission to date you!
Happy for you guys!!!

YAY!!! Big hugs and I'm soooo happy for you!

I have wondered all day how it went. I am so glad it all turned out well. Congratulations!!!! :flowerforyou:

I live with one of the most amazing guys ever!! He cooks and even packs me lunch every morning and on special occasions I even get a chocolate for college.

So he does stuff that is generally tendered to female gender roles? Fantastic! Marry him!

so sweet!!!! I literally paged through 12 or 13 pages to find your response to how things went! And clapped my hands like a little kid reading that it went SO preciously! :bigsmile: So amazing he wants to ask your dad for permission to date you! Barely ever hear that kind of thing... best wishes to you my dear! May this be the start of something incredible for you both!! :flowerforyou:

He sounds like a keeper. Dont let that one go! Hold on tight! Lol

He served the dessert and sat right next to me taking my hand and told me that any girl might be lucky to have him, but he would be lucky to have me.

I laughed so loud feeling the tears run down my cheeks as he tries to wipe them off with a napkin. I just kept hugging him and didn't feel like eating the dessert as long as I get to stay in his arms the whole evening. He picked me up and carried me into the living room where we spent the rest of the evening talking about all those special moments we shared but never confessed our feelings to each other. I eventually passed away and woke up in my room this morning so I guessed he carried to my room lol

We are going to spend the day at the beach and have ourselves a picnic before going to my family, he really wants to ask my dad for his permission to date me :happy:

Question: I loved laying in his arms last night but would it be inappropriate just to have him lay next to me each and every night to feel his embrace?

I just knew that it would work out if you told him how you feel! I think that what makes this so special is that you have all this "history" from being friends and roommates, and now that friendship can develop/morph into something so much more. I also think it's adorable that he wants to ask permission to date you. That's really sweet and it's not often that you find guys like that these days. Sounds like he's a keeper! As far as it being okay to lay with each other for the closeness without being intimate, I think that as long as you are both okay with it, go for it!! One of my co-workers went on a 1st date with her husband, got tired and fell asleep in his arms, and as it turns out, she never went home! LOL One day kept running into the next and they just kept making more plans, and before she knew it he said she may as well move in since she was always there. And now they're married! I hope we will occasionally hear more updates!