At a loss for words...my journey is put on hold.

We were trying for three in our family, and wound up with four when the third turned out to be twins. It put a lot of things on hold for us, in terms of health, lifestyle, financial, etc. But I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. And all of those other goals will still be there to work on after the baby comes. Enjoy the time, and continue the journey after the birth. The journey is on hold, it is not over.

Congratulations!

I agree. I think you should check with your doctor first, but normally it is perfectly safe (and actually encouraged) for you to continue your healthy lifestyle. Especially with the eating healthy. As for any exercise, (again, talk to your dr) but should should be able to continue with maybe a few modifications.

Congratulations to you!!:flowerforyou:

One more thought: I believe it is generally OK to continue any exercising you are currently doing. I have a friend who ran a marathon while 4 months pregnant.

It's just a shock right now to find our you're pregnant. Don't feel bad for feeling this way, it's just something you weren't expecting & it is shocking. Once you get used to the idea you'll feel much better about it & of course when your child gets here you will be overjoyed. As someone said you can continue trying to get fit & become a healthy weight for carrying your child. Congrats! You will feel much better soon.

I truly believe that everything happens for a reason! Stay strong and focused and only good things can come from it!

My journey was put on hold too for 5 months, because of a blood clot and eventually the diagnoses of cancer. The surgery is behind me and I start radiation treatments next week. BUT I'm a silver lining girl... everything that I've been thru has made me feel so loved. I started back on exercising slowly 2 weeks ago, and it feels great.

Also, I had a surprise pregnancy... and while I already had 2 healthy kids, number 3 has been a wonderful experience. You'll be fine.

Everything will work out for you! Congratulations! Just keep eating right, drinking lots of water, & exercising when you can during the pregnancy (as long as your doc says it's ok) Then after the baby is born you'll be so busy that the weight will just come off!
:flowerforyou: Best wishes during your pregnancy!

Congratulations!!!!! And hugs, too!! It does take time to make the mental shift, and adding fear to the mix does complicate it. I'm sorry for your acquaintance who died giving birth. Remember YOUR experiences, and know you and your family will be fine. Your feelings are perfectly normal, and will turn to excitement and joy again.

WHY NOT KEEP YOUR ACOUNT OPEN AND CONTINUE TO LOG IN WITH WHAT YOU EAT ANYWAY, AND TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS!

they always say when you least expect it, I was in a similar position before, we were trying for our second and it was not really happening so i focussed on my weight as husband was navy and off away for 3months. I thought i will get down while away... I worked my butt off got to 10st 11 which is my smallest and then he returned and within 6months I was pregnant with twins!
It was a shock and also I was like you not sure as I was just starting to enjoy my new figure ..... its true though the same goal will be there after but you will proberly have more focus and determination. I put on 5st with my twins they are 6months old on Wed and I have 11lbs to be at pre preg weight so dont be disheartened. The baby is a lovely thing, you will love it and ebjoy it and be back to your slim self in no time. 'Oh and congratulations.... :-) x

Oh darlin", I can feel for you. I, too, had a surprise fourth child, 23 years ago. The trouble and strife babies bring are repaid a thousandfold in the joy you get. It is scary, I was 36, and was sure the baby would have problems. She was perfect. The odds are on your side that things will turn out great. Just keep eating healthy and exercise in moderation and remember, we are hear for you.

First off...congratulations!!! Secondly, I have kind of been in the same boat as you are now. I had 3 boys, I felt my family was complete and didn't want anymore. But alas, oops, we found ourselves pregnant AGAIN. I was angry and scared at first, but I had to just suck it up and realize, this is what was meant to be. I was very overweight, and actually LOST weight during my pregnancy, because I really watched everything I ate, and I did whatever gentle exercises I could do right up till the very day I gave birth. We didn't know what we were having, we had the ultrasound, but because I was very big, they had trouble seeing what was growing inside of me. So it was a mystery all the way up until I gave birth. Hearing those words.... "It's a girl!!!"... I was over the moon and thought I was in a dream. I could not believe I had FINALLY had a daughter. We gave up trying because we thought it was just never meant to be and we were more than happy with the 3 sons we had already had. But having her, was the best thing that ever happened to me and I am sooo glad it did! But again, as I said, I gained NO weight whatsoever during my pregnancy with her, and my doctor said the baby was apparently taking what she needed from my body anyways, so she was healthy the entire pregnancy even though I gained nothing. So just try to ENJOY your pregnancy. It really is a blessing in disguise and meant to be. Keep doing what you're doing, just modify it for your pregnancy and you will be fine! Again congratulations, when you hold that new precious angel in your arms, you too will see, all this sacrifice was so very worth it!
Best of luck!!!!

I wish my husband and I would have that kind of 'accident'. I just turned 40 and we've been trying to conceive for over a year now (we have a 6 yr old). I kinda feel like my weight is a factor in me not gettting pregnant.

Good luck to you. Talk to your dr about how many calories you and your baby need to be healthy. You can still exercise. Just be sensible. It's not like you'll be pregnant forever.

Well everyone. I have been working hard and lost 20 lbs, which is great, I am happy. My husband and I found out we had a little accident and we are pregnant. I was just really working hard on trying to lose the weight from our last one. Of course I would always love any baby that comes into our family, but I'm not ready right now, we have 3 healthy children and I feel so lost and confused. I could use some inspiration if anyone has some.

OOPS!
How'd that happen?
Yes, I think I know or sure as heck should.
We had our 2 kids, then OOPS!
Another - number 3, and 9 months after he was born - OOPS!

Here comes another, but NO - TWINS!

Guess what? You'll get through it, and the joy you'll have will make you wonder how you made it so long without them.
Believe it!

And one final thought.
My wife lost all the weight from each delivery, and she is in peak condition today.
After 5 kids!
Worry NOT!

At the right time, you shall get yourself in shape and reach your own goals.

If I were you, I'd be thrilled that I could get pregnant and carry a baby to term.

Congrats!!