may-december relationships

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  • shmunster
    shmunster Posts: 538 Member
    My husband is 10.5 years older than me lol! We've been together 12 years now

    I was 19 when we met, and he was turning 30
  • sarahgilmore
    sarahgilmore Posts: 572 Member
    4 years.

    Doesn't sound too extreme but I was 14.
  • caretheaton
    caretheaton Posts: 90 Member
    I dated an 18 year old when I was 22. He was a college freshman and I was a senior. It was fun during that time in my life, but there was definitely a HUGE maturity difference. My current bf is 31, and I don't think I could ever stand to date someone 30 ever again.
  • CarrieAnne22
    CarrieAnne22 Posts: 231 Member
    Whe I was 34 I dated a man who was 49. It didn't last very long simply because of his very outdated ideas about the roles of men & women in a relationship, though. I haven't completely ruled out ever dating someone that much older agian, but I'd have to know that he was someone with much more open views before I could consider any level of commitment.

    I typically tend to date 3-7 years younger than myself.
  • JayneWilson1963
    JayneWilson1963 Posts: 543 Member
    My husband is 14 years older than me. We have been married for 7 years. He is the best! :heart: him so!
  • Pidders89
    Pidders89 Posts: 1,169 Member
    i am 22 and my boyfriend is 31 xx
  • YummyTpn
    YummyTpn Posts: 334 Member
    My ex-husband and I are 18 years apart (him being older). Funnily enough, we split up over issues that had nothing to do with age!

    As well, when I was 19 I dated a 40-year-old...Which wasn't anything serious, I just wanted to experiment.

    Now I have a 22-year-old interested in dating me...and I'm going to be 40 on Macrh 6! I'm thinking he's too young though...but who knows!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I was 19 and he was 29. Have had "relationships" with guys who were quite a bit younger since I've been separated. A lot of guys my age look old enough to be my dad!
  • Pocket_Pixi
    Pocket_Pixi Posts: 1,167 Member
    I was 18 and he was 34.
  • admanMike
    admanMike Posts: 371 Member
    I recently heard about an age formula for old dudes...take your age, divide by two and then add 7.

    So for an old dog like me (47) 30.5 is the youngest someone my age should date.

    Of course, its hip for older women to date much younger guys...not so much the other way around :)
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
    lol!!! my husband (now in Heaven) was 4 years older than me, but boy did we differ in ideas of how things should be and what we remembered! I met someone who's 8 months older and we just click in the ways we think and what we enjoy! I think there's that thrill of having someone older than you when you are young, but when you're seasoned (I am 47) you know better what you want and how you want things to be and it helps when you're on the same level of thinking! :)
  • kittyinaz
    kittyinaz Posts: 300 Member
    My fiance and I are 10 years and 18 days apart. I believe that's the biggest age difference I've dated.
  • kittyinaz
    kittyinaz Posts: 300 Member
    I recently heard about an age formula for old dudes...take your age, divide by two and then add 7.

    So for an old dog like me (47) 30.5 is the youngest someone my age should date.

    Of course, its hip for older women to date much younger guys...not so much the other way around :)

    Oh lord, I could never, ever, ever date a 20 year old =/
  • milf_n_cookies
    milf_n_cookies Posts: 2,244 Member
    I am 32 and my husband is 51.
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    Me being may: I was 25, she was 39
    Me being December: I was 26, she was 18 (that is really more like a May-June)
  • soulwarder
    soulwarder Posts: 21
    My wife is 3 months older than I am!

    All kidding aside; anything younger than I am is something that I have to raise! Older women are BEAUTIFUL!
  • Shanna_Inc86
    Shanna_Inc86 Posts: 781 Member
    Love all these posts!!

    I'd rather date someone 10yrs older Jus because, I don't want more children lol however I'm almost 26 & now I get lil 18 & 19 y.o. boys hitting on me...that whole milf thing I think
  • queenpushycat
    queenpushycat Posts: 762 Member
    I wish I'm in a relationship with an older man... because mine is such a kid :grumble: he ignored me for a day or 2 now... but whatever. he's 26 and i'm 28. not that big...
  • findingfit23
    findingfit23 Posts: 845 Member
    I was in a 7 year relationship with someone 15 years older then me. Wont be doing that again....
  • wbgolden
    wbgolden Posts: 2,066 Member
    I recently heard about an age formula for old dudes...take your age, divide by two and then add 7.

    So for an old dog like me (47) 30.5 is the youngest someone my age should date.

    Of course, its hip for older women to date much younger guys...not so much the other way around :)
    HA...this totally works for me! Like I said I was 41 and she was 27 (almost 28). Another time, when I was 36 I dated someone 25.

    See kids, and you thought you'd never use math in the real world!
  • Hoakiebs
    Hoakiebs Posts: 430 Member
    I'm 51, married to a 34 year old. First marriage, sowed my wild oats, now settled down w/ 4 yr. old daughter. Probably had a 16 plus year on the opposite side when i was 23.
  • jennylsapia
    jennylsapia Posts: 236 Member
    Biggest diference I was 21 he was 36 so 15 year difference....He was actually a really great guy...just didn't work..I was in college and partying it up and he was worried about "real life" LOL

    My current fiance is 33 and I am 27 so 6 year difference

    Always had a thing for older guys.
  • danithegirl89
    danithegirl89 Posts: 203 Member
    I'm 22 and my bf's 33. I prefer older guys though. :)
  • determinedbutlazy
    determinedbutlazy Posts: 1,941 Member
    I was 17 he was 26 :)
  • katya73
    katya73 Posts: 464
    When I was 18 my bf was 32 .. We lasted 5 years together plus he is the father to my first child ... Still good friends :)
  • ryansgram
    ryansgram Posts: 693 Member
    Im 55 and my husband is 39
  • LittleMissDoll
    LittleMissDoll Posts: 185
    I was 19 dating a 27 yr old
    now 21 and bf is 23
  • StaceyL76
    StaceyL76 Posts: 711 Member
    When I was 22, I dated a 32 year old. 10 years that is the most.

    My hubs is 4 months younger than me. = )
  • sexforjaffacakes
    sexforjaffacakes Posts: 1,001 Member
    I had an errrr night *ahem* with a 25 year old when I was 15...tbf he thought I was 17 though xD

    My bf now is 21 and I'm 19, and all is perfect (:
  • splashangel
    splashangel Posts: 494 Member
    I'm 44 my husband is 33.
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