I look better fat?

jmuell91
jmuell91 Posts: 9
edited November 11 in Health and Weight Loss
I've received a number of positive messages lately and I appreciate all of the support....BUT I have read some that aren't so great...Some saying I look better fat, not attractive skinny, etc...I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks, but when I have some users telling me that... it isn't so great! I propose the idea of keeping messages positive, full of love and support! We are all going through this together and everyone should send good vibes!!
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  • btzisabel
    btzisabel Posts: 29 Member
    Don't pay attention, you don't do this just for looking good, it's also a health thing, doing what is best for your body. Don't pay attention to them, if you feel great, you'll look great.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    as long as you are not underweight, really malnourished, or unhealthy, others opinion should not have any impact.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks
    good plan...so is not putting a lot of emphasis on what others think of your looks
  • chuckles217
    chuckles217 Posts: 123 Member
    If you live for vanity and that which comes with it, you will be one of the herd who fights aging tooth and nail only for disappointment.

    Live for health and satisfaction of life. Know that by living a healthier lifestyle you will have many more years of life to share with those important to you. That, in my opinion, should matter a whole lot more than compliments or suggestions you receive based on your physical appearance.
  • Carolyn_79
    Carolyn_79 Posts: 935 Member
    I think you're smokin'. Don't listen to them.
  • bellevie23
    bellevie23 Posts: 208 Member
    You look cute just the way you are. As for the negative comments, it comes with the territory, there will always be people on both sides of the fence on how you look, so best just to do what you feel comfortable in, whether they are jealous or just like bigger/smaller people, you will never please them all, but you are correct, they should leave those negative comments with themselves, you didnt lose the weight for them.
  • RoboLikes
    RoboLikes Posts: 519 Member
    I've received a number of positive messages lately and I appreciate all of the support....BUT I have read some that aren't so great...Some saying I look better fat, not attractive skinny, etc...I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks, but when I have some users telling me that... it isn't so great! I propose the idea of keeping messages positive, full of love and support! We are all going through this together and everyone should send good vibes!!

    Tell everyone to shove off, you're adorable
  • fiberartist219
    fiberartist219 Posts: 1,865 Member
    Confidence is more attractive than any number on the scale.
  • hexrei
    hexrei Posts: 163
    So you apparently had that some admirers that were into fatties, and don't appreciate the change. Who cares? There are people who like all kinds of builds (and that's good!), but I can guarantee you that a greater percentage will dig a fit body.
  • _persephone_
    _persephone_ Posts: 138 Member
    You look fine to me. Ignore them.
  • teresab46970
    teresab46970 Posts: 35 Member
    I agree with you!!!!!
  • invisibubble
    invisibubble Posts: 662 Member
    I think you're smokin'. Don't listen to them.
    What she said. Ignore chubby chasers ;)
    Seriously, though, opinions are opinions. You know you best. And its about what YOU want.
  • Kenzietea2
    Kenzietea2 Posts: 1,132 Member
    Not sure what they see but you look pretty good to me!
  • carlyholly
    carlyholly Posts: 52
    They're just jealous.
  • stablesong
    stablesong Posts: 224
    They're silly. You're gorgeous. Don't listen to them.
  • PeaceLoveVeggies
    PeaceLoveVeggies Posts: 673 Member
    Wow, those people need glasses lol. You are hot! Just saying :)
  • shastacrystal
    shastacrystal Posts: 262
    I think you look really healthy. You're adorable don't let them make you feel bad. I've never seen you fat but I am sure looking healthy is WAY better then looking FAT no matter what! ;)
  • KristyGirl8
    KristyGirl8 Posts: 20 Member
    You look AWESOME! Don't let negative people get you down. A lot of dorks hide behind the internet, and write things they would NEVER say to your face... it gives them confidence- to be MEAN. Congrats to you!
  • Bradysgirl214
    Bradysgirl214 Posts: 36 Member
    I think you look great the way you are! Ignore the negative comments
  • CandaceyD
    CandaceyD Posts: 74
    I think you look good. There are a lot of negative people who want to bring others own. Don't let them get to you! Keep doing what feels good.
  • Alacey88
    Alacey88 Posts: 486 Member
    Those who are telling you that you are fat are the ones that are jealous of what you have accomplished. I know I have some people that shows the green monster around me. I may not be losing as much weight as I wanted but at least my clothes are loose and that I am eating healthier then they are... Also what really matters is how YOU feel about what you have accomplished for yourself.

    Keep it up!!!!
  • gregpack
    gregpack Posts: 426 Member
    I need to lose more weight, but have several people tell me I look sick. They just have never seen a thin me before.

    Also, I do notice all of those "you have lost too much weight" comments come from people that are overweight.
  • chrystee
    chrystee Posts: 295 Member
    You look very attractive.. Don't let others get to you.. they just aren't used to the thin you!
  • bademasi
    bademasi Posts: 180 Member
    I can not believe that people are so sad to say that to you. I dislike the blogs when some people are hurtful in comments. We are all here for support on our weight loss journey. Also, for a healthy lifestyle... everyone knows that being overweight is not healthy. I think your awesome. Dont listen to the negative comments. Momma must not have told them if they have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all.

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  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    im sorry but I would not sleep with you. :p



    lol, what people mean when they say "look better fat" is that like when you look more muscular... now that you dont have that fat covering your muscles, you dont look as big.
    if it bothers you.. lift weights. eat slightly more... and get yourself wherever you want to be without being fat. or if you're happy... good, be happy.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    Skinny hipster > fat hipster
  • fatgirlslove
    fatgirlslove Posts: 614 Member
    first of all, you're hot! lol there... the truth has been told....everyone who says anything else is a LIAR!
  • justbecause2014
    justbecause2014 Posts: 371 Member
    You look HOT! haha, okay maybe that was a little creepy! But anyway, you look great and you've made amazing progress!Never let anyone get you down! This should be a place of encouragment!
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    Skinny hipster > fat hipster

    not a hipster > hipsters.



    its OK for me to hate hipsters though.... they hated me first. before it was cool.
  • jhardenbergh
    jhardenbergh Posts: 1,035 Member
    My guess is they are jealous of your success cause they are probably unhappy with themselves.
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