I look better fat?

I think it could be a part of jelousy and(or) part of them have never seen you(us) as slim as you(we) are and it goes toward the whole change thing and most people dont like change. I must say I do enjoy my men thick and not bulky but if my man ever decided to lose weight and come to the gym with me I wouldn't stop him. Just keep doing what makes you happy and later they will get used to it. I think you look good in your pic anyway as I am sure you have heard already.

Seriously? That's ridiculous! You look great and healthy! Don't listen to them at all. :flowerforyou:

Probably need to consider the source. What types of people are leaving comments, etc. Either that or they just aren't used to you being a different size- if it's someone you know in real life. The only other thing it could be is that there was more of you. There will be so many opinions, but the one that matters the most is yours. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

You look great! Screw anyone who just wants to bring you down.

Had to edit. You look even better than great. Very handsome and healthy looking. Just make sure you are happy with your health and fitness goals and let everyone else hate if they want.

I think you're really cute and hey it's about how YOU feel x

those people can **** off then. if you feel healthy and good then that's all that matters

I think you're super hot!
Dont let people get in ur head cuz the ones who said that are obviously blind!

They're joking, right? You look great! WTH is wrong with people?

Bro all that matter is how you feel in your own body, it doesn't matter what others think honestly. What really most important is that your improving your overall health, and it helps with how you view your own body if you feel good about how you are now then embrace it !! Because I'm trying my hardest to achieve the some of the same things you have already done.

Do you have before and after pics? I'm curious about why people are saying this to you. Maybe they are jealous and trying to get you down.

I have only been here for 2 weeks and I have found 2 chronic negative posters! These people have something to say in EVERY post but it is NEVER positive. Or their sick version of positive like "I don't see what all the fuss is about, I didn't have any problems with it". Some people need to put others down to feel good about themselves. Some need to be negative to fill some sort of brain chemical addiction some are just nasty people better avoided. Just take it is stride.

You look fantastic and if you feel fantastic and healthy that is all that matters. And when you find the person that loves you for all that you are (if you haven't already) they will appreciate that you are healthy enough to be around with them for a long time.

I wish I knew how to embed pictures because I found this fantastic meme of a kitten on his hind legs doing a strut and it says "Haters gonna hate"

If your profile pic is you, now, you look terrific. Anyway, it doesn't matter. It matters how you feel, and how healthy you want to be.

-t

You know i dont quite remember how the quote goes but let me butcher it i believe it goes something like this "The same people who once called me fat now spread rumors that are anorexic" regardless of what you do someone is always going to have something to say! do what makes YOU happy and screw everyone else

i look awful being fat... and you look super awesome!

I've received a number of positive messages lately and I appreciate all of the support....BUT I have read some that aren't so great...Some saying I look better fat, not attractive skinny, etc...I don't place a lot of emphasis on my looks, but when I have some users telling me that... it isn't so great! I propose the idea of keeping messages positive, full of love and support! We are all going through this together and everyone should send good vibes!!

if your are in your healthy weight range, if you are happy with how you look, if you are listening to your body and catering to its needs, it doesnt matter a hoot what anybody else says, youve come along in your journey and you should be proud of youurself, this healthy llife style bizzo is a daily thing and it takes dedication to "stay on the wagon"every day
so Sarah says block those nasty pasties, there are usually more then enough haters (dare i say green eyed monsters) in our day to day lives, you shouldnt and do not have to tollerate/acknowledge or deal with that bollocks.

a mental note for when those comments pop up, and this was gifted to me from an old school miner so scuse my french but opinion are like arseholes, everyones got one.
I say everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to it, but i dont have to worry about theirs cause mine is worth more to me. Its taken me over 12 years to actually mean the second half of that, life will be much easier if you can get yourself to that line a little quicker than i did

Now have a great day (: