Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

Yanicka1
Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
edited November 11 in Chit-Chat
.....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

it is the fastest way to be declined.

But thank you for the compliment
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  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    Seriously?! How can I be hot with this little clothes on!? There's a chill in my pampers.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I'd like to chip my tooth on your stomach?

    How's that?
  • m615dan
    m615dan Posts: 40
    I never send a message which is a huge no no, but I just add people men and women who are actually supportive. If they are not going to be supportive, then I don't need you as a friend, haha
  • Spinelli2288
    Spinelli2288 Posts: 188 Member
    In all fairness, if I were a guy and stumbled across a girl half naked (showing their weight loss or not) I would do the same thing.
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:
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  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    I sent that to a woman once. She denied me....
  • SimplyShanRunning
    SimplyShanRunning Posts: 885 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    I sent that to a woman once. She denied me....

    haha so did I but she accepted me
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    I sent that to a woman once. She denied me....

    To be fair, I think there's a filter that blocks requests with dirty words like *kitten*....
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    dang I must have lost that message...please resend !!!!!
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    Okay, this is probably just me, but I'd rather they say "because I think you're hot" than have them come up with some clearly BS excuse about why they're adding you. Especially when you look at a guy's friends list and it's almost all relatively thin, "attractive" women in a certain age range. You're not friending me because we have similar goals or interest, clearly you have one primary criteria, don't insult my intelligence by trying to tell me otherwise. I tend not to accept friend requests from men who I think are BSing me, while the ones who come out and say they sent the invite because they liked my user pic, get some consideration.
  • MrsFelton2010
    MrsFelton2010 Posts: 339 Member
    Lol at least they are being honest
  • IamRoJ
    IamRoJ Posts: 530 Member
    ACK!!!! Don't tell them these secrets...if they PRETEND to be normal non-creeps, I'll accept their FR's in error! At least when they ACT like creeps, I know to hit the decline button!
  • ShellBelle6
    ShellBelle6 Posts: 105 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    dang I must have lost that message...please resend !!!!!

    Ditto!
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    and i appreciated it.

    seriously, if i'm at a point when i'm getting a fr based on my pic, i'm pretty happy. so please, keep telling me i'm hot. :flowerforyou: thanks!
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    Seriously, guys... stunning is the perfect word choice. Try it!
  • Devlyn_P
    Devlyn_P Posts: 294 Member
    LOL
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    I usually send mine with "I've been watching you...:glasses: "
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  • Classalete
    Classalete Posts: 464 Member
    No way. I keep it 100 with everybody. If a girl is pretty and it's enough for me to send a request...I'll tell em' exactly how I feel.

    If you're physically attractive take pride in it!
  • DawnOf1969
    DawnOf1969 Posts: 726 Member
    But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

    ^^That. exactly.
  • kaylammurphy
    kaylammurphy Posts: 63
    I'd like to chip my tooth on your stomach?

    How's that?

    That is much more acceptable. Duh.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    I sent that to a woman once. She denied me....

    To be fair, I think there's a filter that blocks requests with dirty words like *kitten*....


    there is no such thing
  • AmyLRed
    AmyLRed Posts: 856 Member
    i just wish more would PUT a message. I even have it in my profile to PLEASE include a message with your FR.........
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    I usually say " You look smart, be my friend..........or else.................:flowerforyou: "
  • Lynschell
    Lynschell Posts: 21 Member
    one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

    I sent that to a woman once. She denied me....

    I'd had to accept if a woman says it then it must be true :)
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
    But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

    Ditto!
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    I usually send mine with "I've been watching you...:glasses: "

    :cry: i've not received such a flattering request yet...
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