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      I've never cheated. Never will.
    • Posts: 1,340 Member
      No. My boyfriend is a very good looking man and is in pretty damn good shape. Never on looks alone. I wouldnt cheat in my current relationship at all, but especially not for that. I would have to break it off if I were considering cheating that seriously.
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      I already re-worded the question earlier on in the thread. It's a free country (supposed to be anyway) so I just asked a question. I don't really care if people are upset by it. Actually, I respect the people that are. It shows me that love does really mean more to people than physical attraction. So, Captain Obvious, thanks for your response.


      is it obvious that his rank is captain? or no?
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      It just puzzles me as to why any one would ever cheat, if you're not happy with the person, end it & move on.

      Exaclty
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      Before my wife, family, friends, and God, I vowed to be only with one woman until one of us dies. Nothing on this planet will ever make my cheat.

      Nothing.


      What about oreo cookies? i seriously might for those..
    • Posts: 4,855 Member
      Um no. Plus people cheat not because of looks...

      I will say my ex cheated on me because first of all, we were in an unhappy marriage, second he cheated on me (and purposely looked for) girls with huge breasts. He was always fascinated with big huge breasts and seeked out women with such when he was cheating. This was later confirmed when we talked about it.

      There is wrong with the person that cheats, on the inside. That is a given. After that, they may look for their "preference" but that's not THE reason why they cheated in the first place.
    • Posts: 2,132 Member
      If I continuously told her she needed to lose weight and she did nothing about it? Is she won't change to keep my interest? Yeah...I am going to find someone else. You only live once.
    • Posts: 64 Member
      I'd totally cheat on my husband with someone who was "hotter."

      Oh, no, wait. I wouldn't.

      And I don't have to wait to be put in the situation--I know myself really well. I know my marriage really well. I have years of relationships and my own behavior as evidence to back it up. I don't cheat. I'm not that kind of person. (And by that kind of person, I mean a liar.) And I say that as someone who isn't totally convinced that total monogamy is the key to happiness.

      Though, serious answer: if I really, really wanted to sleep with someone else, I'd talk to my husband about it and see if it was something he would be okay with. If it was, then I'd maybe do it. If it wasn't, then I wouldn't. Our marriage is the most important thing in the world to me and sex with someone, no matter how hot or exciting, isn't worth hurting him.
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      If I continuously told her she needed to lose weight and she did nothing about it? Is she won't change to keep my interest? Yeah...I am going to find someone else. You only live once.

      well if i asked you to cut your red fro would you?
    • Posts: 122 Member
      If I continuously told her she needed to lose weight and she did nothing about it? Is she won't change to keep my interest? Yeah...I am going to find someone else. You only live once.

      If you really loved her you wouldn't want her to change anything....
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      I'd totally cheat on my husband with someone who was "hotter."

      Oh, no, wait. I wouldn't.

      And I don't have to wait to be put in the situation--I know myself really well. I know my marriage really well. I have years of relationships and my own behavior as evidence to back it up. I don't cheat. I'm not that kind of person. (And by that kind of person, I mean a liar.) And I say that as someone who isn't totally convinced that total monogamy is the key to happiness.

      Though, serious answer: if I really, really wanted to sleep with someone else, I'd talk to my husband about it and see if it was something he would be okay with. If it was, then I'd maybe do it. If it wasn't, then I wouldn't. Our marriage is the most important thing in the world to me and sex with someone, no matter how hot or exciting, isn't worth hurting him.

      you would or you wouldnt? im confused
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      If you really loved her you wouldn't want her to change anything....
      If she loved me, she would lose weight.
    • Posts: 18 Member
      Arnold cheated and IT WASN'T for LOOKS.....
    • Posts: 399 Member
      Okay, so it's a dumb question. I guess the real question would be would your significant other's weight gain/loss affect your attraction to them?

      Yes, to this question. Wish I wasn't so shallow but I guess I am.
    • Posts: 265 Member
      No way. I'm not attracted to my bf because of his looks. We connect on such a higher level. There are plenty of people out there who are thinner / more attractive than him, but no one truly understands me like he does and vice versa. We've been told my soooo many people that we are the male and female versions of each other, and I think that is what makes us click so well together. We are on the same wavelength, we have the same expectations, and we have the same things that trigger us to be pissed off or happy. I think that creates such a more in depth bond than looks, weight, etc.
    • Posts: 1,298 Member
      because of looks? no. because they aren't pleasing me in the sack? sure.
    • Posts: 33,068 Member
      Dumb question, sorry, nobody can say what, when, or how, or if they'd do anything until they're in the situation, we'd all like to think we wouldn't but you never, ever know......just saying.......

      Exactly!
    • Posts: 1,236 Member
      because of looks? no. because they aren't pleasing me in the sack? sure.

      well thats not the question... its obvious what the answer is if thats the situation.. bachickabowwow..
    • Posts: 15
      NO WAY!!! I love my man for more than his looks. He could stand to lose a few pounds, but that doesn't matter to me. He is kind, sincere, loving and above all a wonderful husband and father.
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      If I continuously told her she needed to lose weight and she did nothing about it? Is she won't change to keep my interest? Yeah...I am going to find someone else. You only live once.

      No one believes you. You are a clown for Goodness sake..... :-P
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      Yeah, I think I can definitely say that I wouldn't cheat. I have morals and my vows mean something.
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      No one believes you. You are a clown for Goodness sake..... :-P
      LOL just because I have a clown profile pic doesn't mean that if she can't keep a candy bar out of her mouth to save our marriage, I am not going to look elsewhere.
    • Posts: 216 Member
      easy answer nope, we got fat toghter and we are loseing weight toghter as well.


      and if I did it would be for money and Im talkeing Bill Gates money
    • Posts: 335 Member
      No. Just break up already
    • Posts: 352 Member
      Years ago I my one and only ex cheated on me. He said I 'didn't lose weight fast enough' that it was just too late (he met me at my heaviest 180 and broke up with me at around 130). At first I believed him, but after awhile I realized that was only a reason he could use to break up with me. We hadn't been happy for quite some time. So, my view, is that while some people do cheat because of weight issues in their partner, it seems there are oftentimes other underlying issues in the relationship, and weight is sometimes just an excuse that people use.

      Exactly..........it is not the weight people grow a part and just don't know how to leave, so they make up excuses.......
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      Has anyone ever told you youre an *kitten*?? :)

      nope.... or maybe they have.... i dunno who cares what women have to say anyways?
    • Posts: 230 Member
      If you would cheat, you're a douche. Regardless of size. If you can't handle your partner's size, as superficial as it is, then get out. THEN go find someone else.
      [ugh]
      People disgust me.
    • Posts: 1,236 Member
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      LOL just because I have a clown profile pic doesn't mean that if she can't keep a candy bar out of her mouth to save our marriage, I am not going to look elsewhere.


      thats when you subplant the candy bar with a sucker.. then after a bit.. um.. something else..
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      What about oreo cookies? i seriously might for those..

      Hmm...only the double stuff ones, and only if they came with an ice cold glass of milk.....other than that, never.
    • Posts: 7,173 Member
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      LOL just because I have a clown profile pic doesn't mean that if she can't keep a candy bar out of her mouth to save our marriage, I am not going to look elsewhere.

      What if it was a deep-fried candy bar? Would you make an exception then? Cause those things a f**king awesome...
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