snobbish on MFP?

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  • HarlCarl
    HarlCarl Posts: 266 Member
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    Welcome to the internet. Everyone has an opinion and they must share it with the world.
  • mabug01
    mabug01 Posts: 1,273 Member
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    There is no such thing as a dumb question.........

    Yes there is. I had a pet rabbit when I was young and a girl I knew (about 14-15 years old) was stroking it and asked, "Is this real rabbit fur?"

    LMAO
  • Eirranne
    Eirranne Posts: 16 Member
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    Exactly!

    It's hard enough to stay positive :) They are probably just looking for an outlet - displaced anger about their weight...some psychological defense mechanism.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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    Personally, I like being "snobbish" - the clothes are prettier :ohwell:

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  • Skeebee
    Skeebee Posts: 740 Member
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    Basically, what I've found is dont have an opinion on anything in the forums or you will get torn to shreds.

    Sucks but I've seen it happen to heaps of people, myself included.

    Just weed out the nice ones and stick with them :flowerforyou:


    THIS ^^^^^^^

    Ditto.
  • amymeenieminymo
    amymeenieminymo Posts: 2,394 Member
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    Seems a strange "intro" for your third post to be insulting people.

    Agreed!

    Much of the hostility comes from people asking the same questions over and over and over (despite their being newbie links that answer these questions) or they ask the question but with their own opinion of what the answer should be (ie. asking why to eat exercise calories back when they are already set in stone that they don't need to eat them back).

    Also, being up on a soapbox or acting like a health freak will annoy the masses. For example, posting an article on why pop is bad for you. Ok, this is not breaking news, we all know its bad for us, we don't need it to be shoved in our faces by people that feel they are now superior to others because they have seen the light. I gave up pop for lent, I feel amazing without it.....but I do still love it and will never try to get a bunch of strangers on the internet to give it up.
  • Jessica221a
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    lol at this topic. People are so defensive, love it. As an opinionated and feisty young lady I feel it's my duty to throw in my two pennies.

    Everyones a snob, even if they don't act it to everyone else. Everyone thinks they're better than someone at something or that they deserve more of something than someone else. Some people bottle up these opinions and pretend everyone is equal and lovely and that they should all hug puppies and be happy. People with issues use these inevitable opinions as a sort of defence against what they perceive as negativity. Everyone lucky enough to have access to the internet has at least one society invoked personal issue and there is only so much puppy hugging you can do before it becomes tedious... eventually..... uja wudja cute widdle ickly puppy cutey ujy wudge!!

    To sum up, everyone sucks, and everyone is lovely, no one is sucky or lovely all of the time. Tis why we're so much more interesting to study than most animals. I'm done now, rant over, if you made it this far, well done and thanks for listening. ^^

    p.s I didn't read all the posts, just a couple of pages, I saw something shiny and got distracted. So I realise there are a lot of different perspectives and opinions flying around in this topic that my little rant probably didn't take in to account. But that's all it is, a little rant, all mine, not meant to change the universe in any way. x
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
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    I'm a buttercream snob.

    I'm very picky about buttercream.

    me too. i hate a bad buttercream.

    ooooh....the buttercream, it haunts my dreams..ooooh
  • QueenJayJay
    QueenJayJay Posts: 1,139
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    I can't help it that I'm pretty.
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
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    I've been on here regularly now for a week and have read some cool stuff. Also I've noticed that some people seem so stuck up!

    i would quit, it seems this does not fit into your personality, maybe there is something else out there that fits you better. maybe there is a sight called "me,me,me"

    LOL thats what I call any site that I visit, what else matters?
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
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  • HonkyTonks
    HonkyTonks Posts: 1,193 Member
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    Seems a strange "intro" for your third post to be insulting people.

    Agreed!

    Much of the hostility comes from people asking the same questions over and over and over (despite their being newbie links that answer these questions) or they ask the question but with their own opinion of what the answer should be (ie. asking why to eat exercise calories back when they are already set in stone that they don't need to eat them back).

    Also, being up on a soapbox or acting like a health freak will annoy the masses. For example, posting an article on why pop is bad for you. Ok, this is not breaking news, we all know its bad for us, we don't need it to be shoved in our faces by people that feel they are now superior to others because they have seen the light. I gave up pop for lent, I feel amazing without it.....but I do still love it and will never try to get a bunch of strangers on the internet to give it up.

    I agree with this. It is frustrating to see the same questions over and over in the boards!

    Here are some examples of topics I see nearly every day

    - I am netting under 1200 calories a day, is this okay?
    - Should I eat my exercise calories
    - Can I have a cheat meal/day
    - It's been a week and I haven't lost a pound! What am I doing wrong
    - Can I eat carbs at night/what time should I stop eating
    - Has anyone tried <insert fad diet/cleanse or detox diet here>?
    - is <insert food such as eggs/cheese/dairy> okay to eat?
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
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    There are a lot of fakes and pretenders, but really there is no one more awesome than me.

    I beg to differ, you scary, scary person...
  • GrnEydGrl86
    GrnEydGrl86 Posts: 154
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    This thread has me LOL'ing for real :laugh:
  • stubbysticks
    stubbysticks Posts: 1,275 Member
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    I'm not a snob, I'm just better than everybody else.
  • dinosnopro
    dinosnopro Posts: 2,179 Member
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    so should I eat back my exercise calories or not?
  • Brightstar4031
    Brightstar4031 Posts: 50 Member
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    I've been on here regularly now for a week and have read some cool stuff. Also I've noticed that some people seem so stuck up!

    i would quit, it seems this does not fit into your personality, maybe there is something else out there that fits you better. maybe there is a sight called "me,me,me"

    My sight is just fine... thanks :laugh:
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
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    Those of you who think they know everything are very annoying to those of us who do.

    :smile:
    You mean "Those of you who think YOU know everything..."

    OH SNAP!
  • Robbie32
    Robbie32 Posts: 65 Member
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    EVELYN (LADY WITH THE HAT)
    U ARE OUTRAGEOUSLY, SIMPLISTICLY, AWESOME!!! LOVE THE POST BRIGHTENED MY NIGHT!!
  • Robbie32
    Robbie32 Posts: 65 Member
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    Is there anyone in this thread that has never been fat, lazy, hopeless, desprately in need of help from others who have been in that same situation where at that moment u feel the last thing you need is closed doors in a site where people who feel that way will find help from others who...getting redundant??? Let he/she cast the first stone. Yeah went there! The girl just asked an honest question. Maybe we should let our wisdom of weightloss flow and not our rebellious ugly thoughts are often best kept to ourselves or taken to God in prayer. Went there too.