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    • Posts: 157 Member
      Yea, my boyfriend used to be all about kissing but I'm pretty sure that only because he never really got to make-out before me. We only kiss when we're saying bye for the day now and we only have "deeper kisses" when there's a possibility of something else happening.

      I dunno, just seem like most guys either are totally into it or not but I feel like most of them feel like it's the first step to getting "more."
      I'm glad for this post though, I was a bit worried that since my boyfriend isn't all that affectionate and doesn't seem all that into kissing (he enjoys it when we're in the process it seems) that he wouldn't like sex either. We're both virgins so I have no idea.

      LOL I haven't met a man yet that doesn't like sex so I don't think you have anything to worry about. :laugh:
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      LOL I haven't met a man yet that doesn't like sex so I don't think you have anything to worry about. :laugh:

      True, I just figured it'd be my luck to find the one guy who didn't enjoy it. :tongue:
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      True, I just figured it'd be my luck to find the one guy who didn't enjoy it. :tongue:

      The chances are much greater that you won't like it at first.
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      I can relate! I dated a guy who was OMG sooooo hot... movie star hot, I think I may have actually swooned the first time I met him! Anyway, the guy could NOT kiss worth a darn! I did try to tell him, once... he would just sorta open his mouth, and place lips on lips... then nothing! It was the strangest thing! Not as bad as tongue down the throat or slobbering, but... just not right! (That's not why things didn't work out BTW... I probably could have dealt with that.)

      It's not JUST why things didn't work. .but it was certainly a factor. . Passionate kissing is a requirement for Passionate love.. if you ask me. .
    • Posts: 510 Member
      i get a kiss on the lips , like a peck, not a french kiss or anything every morning before we part, or if i ask for it any other time, but my boyfriend never likes to kiss with much tongue or anything like that...kinda bugs me sometimes that would be nice
    • Posts: 216 Member
      I have no idea how to kiss lol

      lies!
    • Posts: 190 Member
      My husband likes to kiss a lot long kisses, Me I like to kiss less, but maybe cuz I always feel like I am in a hurry and have a ton of stuff to get done, My head is telling me I don’t have time for this! LOL
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      This is my SO...friggin spoiled
    • Posts: 157 Member
      i get a kiss on the lips , like a peck, not a french kiss or anything every morning before we part, or if i ask for it any other time, but my boyfriend never likes to kiss with much tongue or anything like that...kinda bugs me sometimes that would be nice

      I get pecks all the time but rarely tongue. I agree with you...it would be nice and it is when it happens. I just want more. LOL
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      ^ This and I could never be with someone that didn't love kissing me as much as I loved kissing them.


      <----These lips were made for kissing!
    • Posts: 114 Member
      I'm not a particularly affectionate person and I tend not to be amenable to public displays of affection. But this was the perfect spot to quote comedian Jim Jefferies on kissing:

      "Guys used to like kissing, then someone sucked our ****s. Why would I want to go to the playground when I've been to Disney World?!"

      Cheers.
      -wtk

      Bah haha!
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      He has had some pretty tramatic things happen in his life so I think that has a lot to do with it. :frown:


      ^^^ DEFINITELY could be why. I have too, and I'm pretty sure that's why I am the way I am with affection.
    • Posts: 2,242 Member
      I'm not a particularly affectionate person and I tend not to be amenable to public displays of affection. But this was the perfect spot to quote comedian Jim Jefferies on kissing:

      "Guys used to like kissing, then someone sucked our ****s. Why would I want to go to the playground when I've been to Disney World?!"

      Cheers.
      -wtk

      Alcoholocaust made me laugh so friggin hard.



      To the OP.

      My husband isn't huge on kissing but I gave him my reasonings. We give each other a kiss each time we leave the house because life is unpredictable, we have both been forced to realize a few times in the last couple years and I dont' want to regret getting in one more kiss.

      I LOVE making out with my husband, it's not really his preference....because he is male and he's lazy, and making out is pointless to him because we're married, he's already "got me". He'd rather just get to the good stuff, but you make deals with one another, he knows it makes me happy, so he does it, and after about 15 seconds he usually forgets why he always protests to it lol
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      Alcoholocaust made me laugh so friggin hard.


      LOL @ Alcoholocaust :laugh:
    • Posts: 1,376 Member
      I HAVE to kiss!!! I love to kiss! I was with someone who did not... it just didn't work.
    • Posts: 892
      i love kissing.. hand holding.. everything.. my husband is not physical AT ALL. it is a big issue at my house.. im starving for attention and physical touch..
      :(
      and it does a job on my self confidence. seeing that i am not attractive to my husband.
    • Posts: 2,484 Member
      My boyfriend not big on kissing. I love kissing him.
    • Posts: 926 Member
      i love kissing.. hand holding.. everything.. my husband is not physical AT ALL. it is a big issue at my house.. im starving for attention and physical touch..
      :(
      and it does a job on my self confidence. seeing that i am not attractive to my husband.

      he is blind. you are wonderfully attractive :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 2,996 Member
      It's weird, I don't really kiss my boyfriend a lot, but I like kissing. Usually when I do kiss him, it's on the forehead or something. I hate make-out style kissing, though.
    • Posts: 2,996 Member
      i love kissing.. hand holding.. everything.. my husband is not physical AT ALL. it is a big issue at my house.. im starving for attention and physical touch..
      :(
      and it does a job on my self confidence. seeing that i am not attractive to my husband.

      Damn, you're attractive to me! I'll kiss you! :laugh:
    • Posts: 570 Member
      My Hubby! He don't mind quick pecks,but just doesn't like making out or anything that lasts longer then 10 seconds.LOL. He's really not into foreplay or sex much either, I love him to death, but sometimes it hurts my feelings. Still haven't figured out any solutions.
    • Posts: 519 Member
      Who doesn't like to kiss? That sounds crazy to me that people dislike kissing.
    • Posts: 293
      See I don't like displaying affection unless cuddled up on a couch or in bed, it's just not my thing, same with walking around public places with a guy who tries to hold my hand, I just don't like it. I don't think it's anything to worry about.
    • Posts: 134 Member
      Wow...I'm shocked to see that there are so many people that don't like kissing! I just thought it was my husband. My husband doesn't kiss me or show affection. It's been that way for 12 years. He loves me but it doesn't make it easy. Make sure that you think about whether or not you can live with that...or maybe it's time to move on.
    • Posts: 167
      That is an awesome amusement park!
    • Posts: 62
      I once told a guy I didn't like kissing cause he was an awful kisser. And then I broke up with him cause I LOVE kissing. It's a deal breaker for me. I think it's impossible to dislike it if it's good kissing and chemistry!!
    • Posts: 2,249 Member
      I Love to kiss...I have been there before...most cases from a prior relationship either they had a bad experience...or they are not the best at it...Sometimes you have to teach them how you like to be kissed and you will find they never knew from the start....ONLY a suggestion...not sure if your dude has this case...Just from a while back i had that issue...
    • Posts: 8,810 Member
      maybe your breath is rank skank and he is too nice to tell you?
    • Posts: 2,242 Member
      Who doesn't like to kiss? That sounds crazy to me that people dislike kissing.

      I know, it makes me feel very whorish now saying that I love to make out lol
    • Posts: 892
      I think that it is a deal breaker for me.. ofcourse, things were good in the begining of my marriage.. the last 10 years.. have sucked physically for me.. I have a ton of issues relating to my appreance, and have issues relating withother men .. i flirt ALOT. I just crave physical attention and not getting anything for years.. is really hard. almost unbearable some days.
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