Steroids and Dating and Attraction

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  • Sunscreenandsweat
    Sunscreenandsweat Posts: 190 Member
    I wouldn't date anyone that I know uses steroids. I'm not into huge muscular guys and I would be way too nervous about their temper because I know steroids affect your anger and other emotions.
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    I've yet to hear anyone address the ethical part of it within sports. I don't discount hard work people put into it their sport/craft. However, where is the line drawn with what is okay to aid an athlete? I admire the hell out of Konstantinovs (world class powerlifter), but if I found out he was using steroids in order to aid his training, as the corny ad campaign says, it would kind of put an asterisk next to his name. It makes it hard to aspire to be like someone when you know this.

    I've even read on other sites where people ask "Where does the natural competitor come into play?" and the response tends to be "They don't." That's the biggest issue I take with steroid use. That if you want to truly compete in strength sports, the mentality is that you have to use steroids to do so.

    If they were to take steroids out of pro sports and Olympics, there would never ever be a new record. The athletes who are on the number one level are already at their genetic limit of performance, and are using steroids to surpass that human limit.

    new records would happen once we start manipulating the genes themselves.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,990 Member
    I've yet to hear anyone address the ethical part of it within sports. I don't discount hard work people put into it their sport/craft. However, where is the line drawn with what is okay to aid an athlete? I admire the hell out of Konstantinovs (world class powerlifter), but if I found out he was using steroids in order to aid his training, as the corny ad campaign says, it would kind of put an asterisk next to his name. It makes it hard to aspire to be like someone when you know this.

    I've even read on other sites where people ask "Where does the natural competitor come into play?" and the response tends to be "They don't." That's the biggest issue I take with steroid use. That if you want to truly compete in strength sports, the mentality is that you have to use steroids to do so.

    If they were to take steroids out of pro sports and Olympics, there would never ever be a new record. The athletes who are on the number one level are already at their genetic limit of performance, and are using steroids to surpass that human limit.

    new records would happen once we start manipulating the genes themselves.
    It ain't far off. GENE DOPING is just around the corner. If people here think steroids are bad, wonder what their take would be on gene doping.

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  • 1Timothy4v8
    1Timothy4v8 Posts: 503 Member
    I just want to say I am in no way attracted to a guy with balloon muscles AT ALL!!! I just can't help but wonder how they wip there bottoms lol,

    but I will say if my hubby had done steroids before I met him I wouldn't care about the past we all make are mistake,

    bt my first impression of men when I hear steroids is small balls, sooo that my play a fector in what a woman will decide
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    I've yet to hear anyone address the ethical part of it within sports. I don't discount hard work people put into it their sport/craft. However, where is the line drawn with what is okay to aid an athlete? I admire the hell out of Konstantinovs (world class powerlifter), but if I found out he was using steroids in order to aid his training, as the corny ad campaign says, it would kind of put an asterisk next to his name. It makes it hard to aspire to be like someone when you know this.

    I've even read on other sites where people ask "Where does the natural competitor come into play?" and the response tends to be "They don't." That's the biggest issue I take with steroid use. That if you want to truly compete in strength sports, the mentality is that you have to use steroids to do so.

    If they were to take steroids out of pro sports and Olympics, there would never ever be a new record. The athletes who are on the number one level are already at their genetic limit of performance, and are using steroids to surpass that human limit.

    new records would happen once we start manipulating the genes themselves.
    It ain't far off. GENE DOPING is just around the corner. If people here think steroids are bad, wonder what their take would be on gene doping.

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    yep the athletes of 20 to 50 years in the future will make today's athletes look like children.
  • Rhea30
    Rhea30 Posts: 625 Member
    THIS IS AN OPEN DISCUSSION.

    Okay let's face it, women love muscles and are immediately attracted to a strong looking male - sociobiological theory and whatnot. That said, the temptation of anabolic steroids or prohormones or anything of the sort is pretty strong amongst men, whether they admit it or not. I, for one, have FLEETINGLY (I stress fleetingly here) thought about it. I'd never ever do it though, as I've come to the simple conclusion that I would not be happy with myself if I did (not even going into the illegality of it - not worth it). I could never be proud of my accomplishments, although I do agree it takes massive amounts of work as well. I simply could not respect myself for going that route. I'm young enough where I can still reach my genetic limit by the time I'm in my lower/mid-30s, and I'm more than fine with that.

    QUESTION FOR THE WOMEN: Would you ever date/marry a man who has used/uses steroids or prohormones? Would you be able to respect them? Because after the first impressions of physical attraction, a conscious effort has to be made to overcome that, once knowing he shoots himself in the butt with steroids lol. Would that be morally a dealbreaker for you? Granted, this may be a morality issue, as I'm sure lots of people here use recreational drugs and whatnot and steroids can be arguably defended as safer than prescription pill poppers looking to get high.

    QUESTION FOR THE MEN: Have you thought about using, or have used (if you're man enough to admit it lol)? And do you respect the guys who do use them?

    OH and I'm not talking about Ronnie Coleman/Phil Heath/Freakishly big people. I mean people who are jacked but would make it hard to determine if they've used or not.

    DISCUSS.

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    I love muscles but wouldn't date a guy who did steroids (If I was a single lol). I much rather the guy care about his health. Too many negatives are attached with steroids.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    Ok, I have only read the OP, and none of the replies, but I wanted to speak my first impression, rather than react to a whole load of other opinions.

    I disagree entirely with the first basic premise than women like muscles. I do not and never have found big beefy guys remotely attractive, I find it a total turn off. I wouldn't want to date a man who wasted time in the gym lifting lumps of metal rather than spending time at home with his family when he wasn't at work, and I certainly wouldn't be attracted to someone who was vain enough to inject themselves with hormones to get the body beautiful.

    I like men who read, who can mend anything, who will change the sheets on the beds and put the bins out and who wants, more than anything else, to spend time with me. That is attractive in a man. Not bulgy lumps of meat. I have no objection to anyone doing sports, but taking the time to get that muscly, and even worse, taking things to get bigger than you are naturally going to is just way to vain for me. So while yes, taking steroids would be a deal breaker for me, I wouldn't be there in the first place, because it is so extremely unlikely I would ever be with the kind of man who cared that much about appearances.
  • I love women but I would never date a woman who: had any surgery even just having her tonsils or wisdom teeth removed, wears make-up, wears high heels, wears contacts, wears perfume. You're cheeks aren't really that rosy, your eye lashes aren't really that long/black, you aren't really that tall, you can't really see that well, you don't really smell like flowers, that is just cheating your true self.

    This is all I can think of when people say steroid users are vain, or cheating, blah blah blah
  • paigemarie93
    paigemarie93 Posts: 778 Member
    You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight.
    So, crappy example!
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    I've yet to hear anyone address the ethical part of it within sports. I don't discount hard work people put into it their sport/craft. However, where is the line drawn with what is okay to aid an athlete? I admire the hell out of Konstantinovs (world class powerlifter), but if I found out he was using steroids in order to aid his training, as the corny ad campaign says, it would kind of put an asterisk next to his name. It makes it hard to aspire to be like someone when you know this.

    I've even read on other sites where people ask "Where does the natural competitor come into play?" and the response tends to be "They don't." That's the biggest issue I take with steroid use. That if you want to truly compete in strength sports, the mentality is that you have to use steroids to do so.

    If they were to take steroids out of pro sports and Olympics, there would never ever be a new record. The athletes who are on the number one level are already at their genetic limit of performance, and are using steroids to surpass that human limit.

    I disagree. If world record holders were not taking steroids then the one with a higher limitation/threshold would win out and beat the new record.
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    I actually think some of the natty bodybuilders are really goodlooking guys. Most of them are pretty proportional also, which is very nice.

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  • You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight

    And the award for stating the obvious goes to....
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight.
    So, crappy example!

    The example is supposed to be that he packed on a ton of muscle in almost no time at all. People are suggesting he used steroids for this. I'm not sure if it's confirmed or not.
  • I've yet to hear anyone address the ethical part of it within sports. I don't discount hard work people put into it their sport/craft. However, where is the line drawn with what is okay to aid an athlete? I admire the hell out of Konstantinovs (world class powerlifter), but if I found out he was using steroids in order to aid his training, as the corny ad campaign says, it would kind of put an asterisk next to his name. It makes it hard to aspire to be like someone when you know this.

    I've even read on other sites where people ask "Where does the natural competitor come into play?" and the response tends to be "They don't." That's the biggest issue I take with steroid use. That if you want to truly compete in strength sports, the mentality is that you have to use steroids to do so.

    If they were to take steroids out of pro sports and Olympics, there would never ever be a new record. The athletes who are on the number one level are already at their genetic limit of performance, and are using steroids to surpass that human limit.

    I disagree. If world record holders were not taking steroids then the one with a higher limitation/threshold would win out and beat the new record.

    yes, but the current records would have to be reset if they were to completely remove anabolics, since a huge portion of the records are currently held by steroid users.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    I love women but I would never date a woman who: had any surgery even just having her tonsils or wisdom teeth removed, wears make-up, wears high heels, wears contacts, wears perfume. You're cheeks aren't really that rosy, your eye lashes aren't really that long/black, you aren't really that tall, you can't really see that well, you don't really smell like flowers, that is just cheating your true self.

    This is all I can think of when people say steroid users are vain, or cheating, blah blah blah

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJfFGgzhfhY

    "Ya got on heels. You ain't that tall! Ya got on make-up. Your face don't look like that! Ya got on a weave. Your hair ain't that long! You got a wonder bra on; your titties ain't that big!"
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    I've yet to hear anyone address the ethical part of it within sports. I don't discount hard work people put into it their sport/craft. However, where is the line drawn with what is okay to aid an athlete? I admire the hell out of Konstantinovs (world class powerlifter), but if I found out he was using steroids in order to aid his training, as the corny ad campaign says, it would kind of put an asterisk next to his name. It makes it hard to aspire to be like someone when you know this.

    I've even read on other sites where people ask "Where does the natural competitor come into play?" and the response tends to be "They don't." That's the biggest issue I take with steroid use. That if you want to truly compete in strength sports, the mentality is that you have to use steroids to do so.

    If they were to take steroids out of pro sports and Olympics, there would never ever be a new record. The athletes who are on the number one level are already at their genetic limit of performance, and are using steroids to surpass that human limit.

    I disagree. If world record holders were not taking steroids then the one with a higher limitation/threshold would win out and beat the new record.

    yes, but the current records would have to be reset if they were to completely remove anabolics, since a huge portion of the records are currently held by steroid users.

    Hence it's a broken system. To just say "it's okay because the system's already broken" is sort of a cop out.
  • Jenjaz1910
    Jenjaz1910 Posts: 433 Member
    I've not read all the replies, but after first hand experience of having to take steroids for 6 months (due to a severe medical problem) I would NOT be with somebody who uses steroids, I know mine were taken orally and not injected but the mood swings I suffered where horrendous and I wouldn't want to take them they choice!! To me from what I've seen on this site people can get phenomenal bodies without the use of steroids! I don't have a particular type but HUGE pumped up bodies I don't find attractive x
  • GymAnJuice
    GymAnJuice Posts: 512 Member
    I would date someone who's used it in the past, provided he doesn't anymore. Every one makes mistakes. But if he currently uses, I would not date him. That's not very attractive. Besides, while I do find muscular guys attractive, I find lanky guys attractive too haha

    this, we all have pasts, but i'm drawn to men a bit on the skinny side, don't know why?
  • life1979_24
    life1979_24 Posts: 147 Member
    My on again off again boyfriend asked me to do some steroid research for him the other day. I am against it but when all is said and done it is his body and his choice. So i did some research.
    I told him the pros and cons. Told him my opion and made alternate suggestions.
    whey protein ( post workout), multi vitamin, fish oil..diet...vegetables, chicken, eggs, tuna, fruit, whole grains, ect
    Cellucor C4 Extreme(pre workout) because he believes he needs something
    And 5x5 workout plan
    He is 5'9" 140-145# perfectly fit but wants to bulk up and is really woried that working out will cause weight loss.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    wants to bulk up and is really woried that working out will cause weight loss.

    He needs to eat more then.
  • paigemarie93
    paigemarie93 Posts: 778 Member
    You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight

    And the award for stating the obvious goes to....

    No need to be so cocky, I was just saying it's a bad example for "steroid use"....
  • paigemarie93
    paigemarie93 Posts: 778 Member
    You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight.
    So, crappy example!

    The example is supposed to be that he packed on a ton of muscle in almost no time at all. People are suggesting he used steroids for this. I'm not sure if it's confirmed or not.

    Considering the muscle pic was taken before the skinny pic? it actually took him a long time & a lot of hard work to get his figure back to it's former self.
  • I dated someone who used steroids, and he said it made his **** shrink 1 inch...stay away. Get healthy the right way
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight.
    So, crappy example!

    The example is supposed to be that he packed on a ton of muscle in almost no time at all. People are suggesting he used steroids for this. I'm not sure if it's confirmed or not.

    Considering the muscle pic was taken before the skinny pic? it actually took him a long time & a lot of hard work to get his figure back to it's former self.

    I thought the muscle pic was from Batman Begins. Filming for BB and The Machinist were pretty close together.
  • paigemarie93
    paigemarie93 Posts: 778 Member
    You do know that Christian Bale dropped all that weight for a movie roll right?
    He gained all his weight back afterwards, plus he looked like that before he dropped the weight.
    So, crappy example!

    The example is supposed to be that he packed on a ton of muscle in almost no time at all. People are suggesting he used steroids for this. I'm not sure if it's confirmed or not.

    Considering the muscle pic was taken before the skinny pic? it actually took him a long time & a lot of hard work to get his figure back to it's former self.

    I thought the muscle pic was from Batman Begins. Filming for BB and The Machinist were pretty close together.

    Noooo, left is Equilibrium 2002, the right is from the Machinist 2004!
    Batman Begins was 2005, he went up from the 120lbs for the Machinist to 190 in 6 months for BB & there's a thing called muscle memory & dedication.
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    If they were legal, and cheaper I would have used them in the past. No reason to now.

    But I have never used anything, ever, and was a member of the American Drug Free Powerlifting Associate in the 90's when i did lift competitively.

    All the negative side effects, and problems that I have heard of, and seen are nearly always the result of overuse, or abuse.

    Side note, I have never worked out with the goal of being more attractive to anyone. I work out for me.............but my wife digs me.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,990 Member
    I've not read all the replies, but after first hand experience of having to take steroids for 6 months (due to a severe medical problem) I would NOT be with somebody who uses steroids, I know mine were taken orally and not injected but the mood swings I suffered where horrendous and I wouldn't want to take them they choice!! To me from what I've seen on this site people can get phenomenal bodies without the use of steroids! I don't have a particular type but HUGE pumped up bodies I don't find attractive x
    So were you on anabolic steroids?

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  • life1979_24
    life1979_24 Posts: 147 Member
    wants to bulk up and is really woried that working out will cause weight loss.

    He needs to eat more then.

    I know ...i told him..:+) but its his body i can only offer advice
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,990 Member
    My on again off again boyfriend asked me to do some steroid research for him the other day. I am against it but when all is said and done it is his body and his choice. So i did some research.
    I told him the pros and cons. Told him my opion and made alternate suggestions.
    whey protein ( post workout), multi vitamin, fish oil..diet...vegetables, chicken, eggs, tuna, fruit, whole grains, ect
    Cellucor C4 Extreme(pre workout) because he believes he needs something
    And 5x5 workout plan
    He is 5'9" 140-145# perfectly fit but wants to bulk up and is really woried that working out will cause weight loss.
    I gained from 122lbs to my current weight of 186lbs all natural. I've spent a lot of time doing it and it takes a lot of hard work. It's about calorie surplus and heavy lifting with lots of compound movements.

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  • minadeathclutch
    minadeathclutch Posts: 375 Member
    this is my man wooo!
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