I think I'm bisexual, but not sure. Please help.
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Nothing to add... just wanted to give a "bump" so I can check out later! :bigsmile:0
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Easy. Play the field!
And post pictures!
oink oink!
You want her to post pictures of pigs?? Ummm....that's weird.
Oink oink
I already knew YOU were weird.0 -
I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!
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Easy. Play the field!
And post pictures!
oink oink!
You want her to post pictures of pigs?? Ummm....that's weird.
Oink oink
I already knew YOU were weird.
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Easy. Play the field!
And post pictures!
oink oink!
You want her to post pictures of pigs?? Ummm....that's weird.
Oink oink
I already knew YOU were weird.
That's how I roll
Go to bed.0 -
I call it Bi-Curious.
After confirmed then Bi-Sexual.
I'm not bi personally but that's how I would 'label' it. Question your attraction... not the label!0 -
I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.0
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I saw that somebody mentioned that not acting on an attraction makes a person bi-curious. Following that line of thinking, does that also make a girl or woman who is attracted to boys/men, but never had sex, hetero-curious?
Oh, and to the OP, do what feels right for you, and don't take anybody else's thoughts or opinions into consideration.
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This is something that I have struggled with my entire life. My first sexual exsperience was with a girl. I married my husband in 2003, but never lost the desire to be with women. Listen to your heart, and you'll find your answer.
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I saw that somebody mentioned that not acting on an attraction makes a person bi-curious. Following that line of thinking, does that also make a girl or woman who is attracted to boys/men, but never had sex, hetero-curious?
Oh, and to the OP, do what feels right for you, and don't take anybody else's thoughts or opinions into consideration.
hetero-curious! yes.
next time someone asks me, this is what i'm going to say
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
I suspect most folks end up at one end of the scale or the other by default rather than by choice.0 -
Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?
Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.
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Very well said! It's nobody's business what we do in the privacy of our own bedroom.0
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How does one know?
More importantly, why do you want to know? It might seem like a silly question, but it's not as if a stamp of approval from anyone here that says, "Yup, you're bi" is going to affect the underlying reason why you're wondering.0 -
I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.
I want to ask a question, and I'm not trying to put you on the spot or anything, or say you're wrong, bu I'm not understanding something.
What is it about a woman being attracted to both men and women that you personally would have a problem with? I mean, the playing field is the same. I guess one could call it larger, but so what? It would be like being attracted to just white men, or men of all races. Technically I suppose the playing field is filled with more people, but that doesn't make their choice of you any less than it would be if they liked men only.
So I'm wondering, is it a preconceived societal notion that a person has to be one or the other (gay or straight) that would have you feeling like you couldn't trust them? Because a lack of trust based on gender preference alone seems like an awful big leap from nowhere.
I'm wondering if it isn't more about egos getting hurt than actual trust? I can say, I'm just as much of a trustworthy person in a relationship regardless of who the person or what gender the person is I'm in it with.
So. I'm thinking maybe this has more do with feeling "not good enough" because you don't understand their lack of gender preference?0 -
I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.
Just because someone is bi, it doesn't mean they're more likely to cheat on you.
That's like saying you won't date someone who's pretty because they've get more attention from other men.
Come on.0 -
Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?
Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.
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This. People would get along much better without these simplistic labels that allow the simple-minded to generalize their hatred based on a word rather than getting to know a person and THEN deciding that you want to bash them about the head and neck with a blunt object.0 -
I think that's great, because it lets people know right off the bat that you're an ignorant bigot they shouldn't waste their time on.I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.0 -
I think that's great, because it lets people know right off the bat that you're an ignorant bigot they shouldn't waste their time on.I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.
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LOL! And this!0 -
I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.
Just because someone is bi, it doesn't mean they're more likely to cheat on you.
That's like saying you won't date someone who's pretty because they've get more attention from other men.
Come on.
^^^ THIS .. this.. and yeah, some more of THIS!
Sheesh People....
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