I think I'm bisexual, but not sure. Please help.

im very saddened by the cruel comments that ppl are saying. so sad. maybe this wasn't the appropriate place to ask but she was reaching out for help.

honey - i advise u to really explore how u feel about women. it is ok. ive been there. i am a lesbian woman and i am in a very committed relationship. it took me some times to come to terms with it but i am fine with who i am. i hope that u can come to terms with who u are and eventually be comfortable with being who u are regardless of your sexual preference. peace and blessings to u hun.

Thats just him being insecure.
If your gonna go into a relationship expecting them to cheat then why go into the relationship at all??
It should matter what sex somebody likes, You cant just assume everybody is going to cheat.
You cant expect a bisexual female to have NO male OR female friends and the same goes for bisexual men.

My comment was not cruel to anyone... and I also had an earlier post for the OP saying that only she could know the answer by finding out for herself.

It is absolutely MY RIGHT to not prefer to date someone who is "bi". That's my personal choice... just like it's anyone else's personal choice to date or not date whomever they choose!

To be called a bigot for it is ridiculous. I do not care if you are gay, straight, bi, trans, etc... it does not affect me in the least. I agree that people should be happy, and whatever that is... only they themselves know.

This is no different than saying that a straight guy who doesn't want to date a gay guy is a bigot. Completely twisted around and WRONG!

actually your comparison is completely irrelevent.
Of course a straight guy is not going to date a gay guy if he is not gay.
For a lesbian to not date a bisexual female.
Or a gay man not to date a bisexual man.
Thats what the earlier post was referring to.
Totally different comparison.

I am for one tired of hearing lesbians say they dont date "bisexual" females because they will cheat on them with guys.
Its bs. Lol.
So are you saying if you are with somebody who only likes one sex they will not go out and cheat on you with that person?
Its all the same difference.
Cheaters will cheat regardless of what sex they are attracted to.

I think everyone needs to look at his statement from a different perspective. Sounds to me like he is going to worry about being cheated on no matter what. The problem is that dating someone bisexual increases the number of people he'd have to worry about. Instead of only having to worry about the men his girlfriend talks to, he would also have to worry about the women.

OK, so this is just my opinion, not meaning to offend anyone. I'm not bisexual and haven't dated anyone bisexual so just throwing this out here

For those who want to be in a monogamous long time relationship (and yes, I realize that that is not for everyone), I think it would be difficult to date a bisexual person. Not because they are more likely to cheat, but knowing that despite however good the sex you have with them, it's not fulfilling all their desires and no matter what you did, you would feel that you weren't enough to keep them satisfied sexually.

Nope, this is not how that works. It's not like because I can enjoy both penis and vagina I need them both to be fulfilled. Being attracted to both sexes doesn't instantly make me into some sort of a enigma in which I'll only be happy with a vagina today but a penis tomorrow.

Not only that, this idea is extremely offensive, because it infers that I choose people based on what is in their pants, not what how we click together.

Why is it that straight relations are all about lovemaking but gay or lesbian or what ever else there is, those relations are about f***ing only?. WTH.

Not sure if troll thread or not. -squints-

Completely off topic... but hell... I've been called a troll, a bigot, insecure, stupid, and a few other choice words in this thread simply for stating my OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE... Which I choose to have and not one single one of you has any right to change...

Enough of that rant...

Has anyone here noticed the OP NEVER RESPONDED ONCE????

We aint calling your personal referrence any of that.

We are rerferring to your reasons for said personal reference. )

Why do my reasons matter to you? I don't hate on the gay or lesbian community. I advocate gay marriage. I think everyone should love and be with who they want to be with. It's just not my cup of tea to get involved in it. There's nothing wrong with my choice or my reasons for my choice. I am offended at being called a bigot because I am absolutely not a bigot.

Oh Dear.....how did it get to this???!!!!! Time for popcorn!!!:bigsmile:

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Completely off topic... but hell... I've been called a troll, a bigot, insecure, stupid, and a few other choice words in this thread simply for stating my OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE... Which I choose to have and not one single one of you has any right to change...

Enough of that rant...

Has anyone here noticed the OP NEVER RESPONDED ONCE????

We aint calling your personal referrence any of that.

We are rerferring to your reasons for said personal reference. )

Why do my reasons matter to you? I don't hate on the gay or lesbian community. I advocate gay marriage. I think everyone should love and be with who they want to be with. It's just not my cup of tea to get involved in it. There's nothing wrong with my choice or my reasons for my choice. I am offended at being called a bigot because I am absolutely not a bigot.

You want to know why I think it's a bigoted opinion? Because you're basing your actions, thoughts and opinions/preferances on your (wrong) assumptions of an entire group of people based on their sexual preference. That does not mean I think you're a bigot. It means I think your ideas about this are bigoted.

Bigotry is not just based on hate for another group of people, It also refers to those who are intolerant of others based on things like race, ethnicty, creed, religion, socioeconomic status, and even sexual orientation. You have an intolerance of even thinking about being with someone that's bi because you think, and wrongly assume they're going to cheat on you simply because they can find both sexes attractive.

Did it ever occur to you that most of us, that are attracted to both sexes, we don't seek out one sex or another? It's not like I get a hankering for a woman over a man and I'll just drop my man in a heartbeat because he no longer satisfies me. It doesn't work like this. I choose people, or I did when I was dating , the same way you do. I see someone that's attractive to me and that I like to be in their company, and it goes from there.

The only difference is that it matters not what kind of piping they have in their pants.

Completely off topic... but hell... I've been called a troll, a bigot, insecure, stupid, and a few other choice words in this thread simply for stating my OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE... Which I choose to have and not one single one of you has any right to change...

Enough of that rant...

Has anyone here noticed the OP NEVER RESPONDED ONCE????

We aint calling your personal referrence any of that.

We are rerferring to your reasons for said personal reference. )

Why do my reasons matter to you? I don't hate on the gay or lesbian community. I advocate gay marriage. I think everyone should love and be with who they want to be with. It's just not my cup of tea to get involved in it. There's nothing wrong with my choice or my reasons for my choice. I am offended at being called a bigot because I am absolutely not a bigot.

You want to know why I think it's a bigoted opinion? Because you're basing your actions, thoughts and opinions/preferances on your (wrong) assumptions of an entire group of people based on their sexual preference. That does not mean I think you're a bigot. It means I think your ideas about this are bigoted.

Bigotry is not just based on hate for another group of people, It also refers to those who are intolerant of others based on things like race, ethnicty, creed, religion, socioeconomic status, and even sexual orientation. You have an intolerance of even thinking about being with someone that's bi because you think, and wrongly assume they're going to cheat on you simply because they can find both sexes attractive.

Did it ever occur to you that most of us, that are attracted to both sexes, we don't seek out one sex or another? It's not like I get a hankering for a woman over a man and I'll just drop my man in a heartbeat because he no longer satisfies me. It doesn't work like this. I choose people, or I did when I was dating , the same way you do. I see someone that's attractive to me and that I like to be in their company, and it goes from there.

The only difference is that it matters not what kind of piping they have in their pants.

Couldnt have said it better myself.

You were bored last night. Tonight you are wondering about your sexuality.

It is either about being promiscuous (not good) or being true to your self and your partner (good).

Think and act. Good luck and you have my best wishes for success.

What's wrong with being promiscuous? As long as all parties are aware and it's safe?