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would you date someone plus size ?

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  • BuzzBuzzBee
    BuzzBuzzBee Posts: 11
    They would have to have the most amazing personality in this world. And still.. probably not.. I'm a horrible person.

    No you're not, I don't care how amazing they are, I still wouldn't.
  • Chrystibel
    Chrystibel Posts: 116 Member
    @Papaver /agree
  • Punkedpoetess
    Punkedpoetess Posts: 633 Member
    I have before, both on the female and the male side. Size is a non-issue to me. I would do so again if I wasn't married and the right person happened to be a heavier person.
  • kleavitt1992
    kleavitt1992 Posts: 592 Member
    Unfortunately no, and i know i only got asked out once or twice when i was fat and i always made up a reason not to go.... Maybe partially because of how i felt about myself im not really sure.
  • StarvingKyy
    StarvingKyy Posts: 88 Member
    yes :3 but not because they are plus size.
    i would like a guy not because hes skinny, tall, short, fat, slim, plus size or muscular, but because he took the time of day to say hello : )

    ;* ;* ;*
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    I don't have any preconcieved ideas of what a man needs to look like for me to date. So I would if I was attracted to his personality.
  • JSnover
    JSnover Posts: 51
    nope
  • EbonySD
    EbonySD Posts: 142
    Yes please :)
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
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    These pictures don't exude sex appeal, but it's not because they're skinny. Don't be a hater.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    But yeah, weight doesn't seem to have much bearing on attraction for me. I don't have a particular body type that I would go for. I have dated guys with different body types... And there's a lady at work that I have a big crush on, who is pretty heavy. It's really not about the weight.
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    Absolutely. I have in the past and would again. I'm more concerned about their personality than their size.
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    i like my women like i like my chicken, a little bit of meat on the bone
  • WickedGarden
    WickedGarden Posts: 944 Member
    Depends on 'plus sized'

    Football player plus sized yes
    out of shape plus sized (as in 300+) probably no.
  • ElementalEscapee
    ElementalEscapee Posts: 552 Member
    I don't mind a little pudge...if they're geeky like me I instantly fall for them, regardless of any previous 'set' standards of mine...haha. Their awesomeness level has to be 9001 or more...if you know what I mean ;D

    ITS OVER 9000!!!

    Hell yeah!!!! XD
  • tpt42087
    tpt42087 Posts: 313 Member
    Of course I would. I only date people I'm attracted to, but there's a hell of a lot more to attraction than body size.


    I agree!!
  • DS67ATX
    DS67ATX Posts: 289
    Sure,what makes that special person is whats inside.
  • nnylee
    nnylee Posts: 811 Member
    I've dug overweight dudes before. They were really smart and hilarious though. For me, you gotta have the personality if ya have the chubs. My current boyfriend of 4 years is in shape and has a brilliant personality though. So win win, I suppose.
  • nnylee
    nnylee Posts: 811 Member
    . oops, repost.
  • watboy
    watboy Posts: 380 Member
    In short. Hell yes:)
  • guildwars1987
    guildwars1987 Posts: 73 Member
    Beauty is only skin deep.
  • stormieweather
    stormieweather Posts: 2,549 Member
    Yes, and I have for the last 8 years. I actually prefer big, as long as they're also healthy. Unhealthy, with little care for their body...no thanks.
  • RyanPerry2012
    RyanPerry2012 Posts: 47 Member
    Not a chance.
  • akiramezu
    akiramezu Posts: 278
    Not my type, i like strong fit girls or relatively thin, I'm a horrible person and super shallow =(
  • riskiestlavonn
    riskiestlavonn Posts: 207 Member
    Depends on what you mean by plus size. I tend to think that men can be plus size and still look good (usually don't think that about women though... which is unfair). There is a certain cut-off point though.
  • NBabi91
    NBabi91 Posts: 270 Member
    I have dated plus size guys but I am a lot more attracted to thin guys. I like the scrawny type =] Like my boyfriend
  • Tonnina
    Tonnina Posts: 979 Member
    Yep! I'm married to one plus size guy. I love him with all my heart!!
  • ElizaRoche
    ElizaRoche Posts: 2,005 Member
    I always prefer guys chubby ... I hate to hug them and feel im hugging a broom stick, or that im embracing myself. And also like taller guys. So if they are tall and kinda chubby they gotta be XL or 2xL..
    My bf is 6`2¨, and is 2XL
  • ihateroses
    ihateroses Posts: 893 Member
    No.
  • badapdos
    badapdos Posts: 132
    If they are confident about themselves and have a great personality, then yes. If they sit and mope and complain about how fat they are without trying to change it, then no.
  • Jazzyrose77
    Jazzyrose77 Posts: 153 Member
    Yeah. We could work on his weight.
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