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kindra3434
kindra3434 Posts: 176 Member
edited December 17 in Chit-Chat
Seriously! What is it with married men on this site hitting on the girls here!? Anyone else experience some perverted men on here?
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  • Pengi81
    Pengi81 Posts: 336 Member
    At least it's not a chat roulette sausage fest!

    But seriously, married men - stay faithful :smile:
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    For me, it's not just a MFP thing. But yes, it seems to be quite popular here.
  • kindra3434
    kindra3434 Posts: 176 Member
    You know it sucks because I enjoy having male friends, so of course I give them the benefit of the doubt. Then they have to go and remind me why im single!
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I'm always friends with the guys who talk (positively) about their girlfriends/wives 24/7.

    Of course they could be flirting with other girls (not me), but they seem pretty content in their relationships so...good men are out there :)
  • kbmnurse
    kbmnurse Posts: 2,484 Member
    Obviously they are bored at home. LOL
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    Do you mean out and out hitting on you, or just being flirty/friendly?
  • kindra3434
    kindra3434 Posts: 176 Member
    Do you mean out and out hitting on you, or just being flirty/friendly?

    Flirty and friendly is fine...but when they start putting out feelers with sexual suggestions that's where I draw the line.
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    I hear about that stuff from my female friends. So inappropriate. Get out of the damn relationship if you're unhappy you turd head.
  • kindra3434
    kindra3434 Posts: 176 Member
    I hear about that stuff from my female friends. So inappropriate. Get out of the damn relationship if you're unhappy you turd head.

    SERIOUSLY
  • stephiecat
    stephiecat Posts: 3 Member
    Turd head, hahahah - and so true. If you're not happy don't break the person who is loving you.
    Cheaters are bad, with bad energy and no good.
  • Sildrae
    Sildrae Posts: 86
    I hear about that stuff from my female friends. So inappropriate. Get out of the damn relationship if you're unhappy you turd head.

    I agree, some people need to realise that the other person in their relationship also has feelings, they can and will be hurt by the persons actions when caught out. Reason why I say when and not if, is because at some point in time they will be caught out one way or another, it's inevitable.

    As you said though, if they're not happy, do the other person a favour and let them down gently to find someone who would take better care of them both physically and mentally, plus give them everything they can from a relationship instead of living a lie or trying to have two cakes and eating them both.

    --Lee
  • roodledoodle
    roodledoodle Posts: 183
    If they're unhappy they should end it with their partners first before starting anything with anybody else - saves a lot of heartache all round in the end.
  • deeray
    deeray Posts: 103 Member
    I hear about that stuff from my female friends. So inappropriate. Get out of the damn relationship if you're unhappy you turd head.

    I agree, some people need to realise that the other person in their relationship also has feelings, they can and will be hurt by the persons actions when caught out. Reason why I say when and not if, is because at some point in time they will be caught out one way or another, it's inevitable.

    As you said though, if they're not happy, do the other person a favour and let them down gently to find someone who would take better care of them both physically and mentally, plus give them everything they can from a relationship instead of living a lie or trying to have two cakes and eating them both.

    --Lee


    Agree!!
  • pearsy67
    pearsy67 Posts: 104 Member
    But my wife has said that I'm allowed to have an affair.
    Mind you, she did say that I would deserve any woman insane enough to have me ROFL. So luckily all you ladies are safe as you are all so nice and sane :-)
    I am not insane enough to look elsewhere.
  • schlange11b
    schlange11b Posts: 105 Member
    Speaking as a married (and faithful!) man, I have to say that it is disappointing to see the sanctity of marriage being so...neglected. I am a friendly person, and like talking to people, but will not for an INSTANT think of taking things further. I wish I could say the same for all married men.
  • KidP
    KidP Posts: 247 Member
    All of the above is true, but ultimately, you shouldn't be getting hassled (read: harassed) on this board. I hope the moderators do something about it if you've reported it to them.
  • rbjcksn
    rbjcksn Posts: 31 Member
    Wait!

    I thought this was a site to help each other with diet tips, encouragement and general get fit advice. Commenting on how good looking somebody might be or how you find them physically appealing is "ok" imo. However, guys if you are married, in a relationship, whatever keep it clean. Christ sake!!
  • em435
    em435 Posts: 210 Member
    There are some real creeps on this site - writing about how much they love their wife on their profile, yet sending you filthy private messages and requesting photos..

    *shudder*
  • Aperture_Science
    Aperture_Science Posts: 840 Member
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    Sorry I made a mistake in this post.
  • katythemommy
    katythemommy Posts: 437 Member
    Ugh yes!! One of my "friends" kept private messaging me to take things further and when I wouldn't go with it, he deleted me - good riddance! He also would complain about his wife on his news feed and also mention his children - so tacky!
  • redcollins78
    redcollins78 Posts: 95 Member
    People should be so focused on their goal, they other shouldn't come into play, they have Facebook, Twitter, and match.com for all that other stuff...
  • fionarama
    fionarama Posts: 788 Member
    change your profile details to married and I'm sure it will go away. maybe.
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    I'm married, I think flirting is ok as long as you don't cross the line. I've seen woman flirt with my husband, he is friendly but he knows when it's inappropriate.
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    People should be so focused on their goal, they other shouldn't come into play, they have Facebook, Twitter, and match.com for all that other stuff...
    Totally agree!
  • kindra3434
    kindra3434 Posts: 176 Member
    All of the above is true, but ultimately, you shouldn't be getting hassled (read: harassed) on this board. I hope the moderators do something about it if you've reported it to them.

    A simple block of the person is good enough for me.
  • kindra3434
    kindra3434 Posts: 176 Member
    People should be so focused on their goal, they other shouldn't come into play, they have Facebook, Twitter, and match.com for all that other stuff...
    Totally agree!

    Agreed × 2. One of my favorite friends on my friends list is a married man AND he's not a creeper. He rocks with his advice and encouragement.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Seriously! What is it with married men on this site hitting on the girls here!? Anyone else experience some perverted men on here?

    That's totally inappropriate. What ever happened to the sancitity of marriage? Want to get together, have a cocktail, and discuss this at length?
  • acresfield
    acresfield Posts: 122 Member
    People should be so focused on their goal, they other shouldn't come into play, they have Facebook, Twitter, and match.com for all that other stuff...
    Totally agree!

    Agreed × 2. One of my favorite friends on my friends list is a married man AND he's not a creeper. He rocks with his advice and encouragement.

    Aww thanks Kindra :)

    Just kidding but seriously people, please do not tar us all with the same brush.

    The whole MFP is made hugely more enjoyable by being able to interact with people of all walks of life with a common goal. I am in a long term relationship having previously been married for 18 years, am very happy with my life and am annoyed that idiots ruin things for the rest of us.
  • Laura8603
    Laura8603 Posts: 590 Member
    Wow! I'm feeling left out. No married men here are hitting on me ; )
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    For the sake of equality I would just like to state that the married women on this site are no better. Many are every bit as bad.
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