GUYS- - - Do you prefer a girl to have an appetite like your

I have no problem if she can keep a good body

do you lose your Man card if she does? :laugh: oh what if she makes more money too:laugh:

If I ate like my husband I might lose weight faster

I couldn't date someone that ate less then me I think it would be weird, but that being the case I wouldn't go hungry just so someone didn't judge me.. But I also wouldn't date a guy smaller then me (build wise) so I've never really had that problem

LOL this thread is hilarious! i thought this all through high school, which is why i ordered a full rack of bbq ribs and french fries whenever i went out to eat with my boyfriend. pssht, he loved it, and i had a great *kitten* to go with it!

now i just order salads...hell, i just EAT salads except for breakfast. my man friends eat like ravenous bloodthirsty wolves so anything i like to eat is way less. if a salad is more than what the guy ordered, then I AM WITH THE WRONG GUY

I have no problem if she can keep a good body

Yea!! Thank you! I generally out-eat my husband my quite a bit... I think sometimes I eat almost double what he does. But I'm doing intense & heavy strength training, and getting more defined every day! I think sometimes he's still shocked when I eat twice as much meat as he does... but hey, gotta fuel!

ha thats funny because normally its the other way around. my bf is super fit. like 8 pack and with no exercise or effort. he eats all day non stop and gains no lbs. wish i could be so lucky

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Guys!! IT'S A TRAP!!!

This. Christ Almighty.. It kills me how no one is allowed to have their own opinions. Someone will always have a different opinion on how they feel about something. Why must people criticize?

nights that I out-eat him, it's because he knows I worked my *kitten* off all day and I need to eat back my deficit. If I ate like him on a regular basis, -I- would be concerned, too!

Unfortunately, most of the time we see people eating a lot, we associate it with being unhealthy and gaining weight. Perhaps because the obesity rates are skyrocketing? Nine times out of ten, people are not stuffing their faces to prevent a deficit because they had incredible workouts.

i dont know how not to qoute the whole thing lol but i agree everyone is free to have an opinion and i would be concerend about myself eating more than my bf sheesh he eats like he will never see another bite

http://youtu.be/-k6wRb8SkIg

I juat HAD to! :laugh:

I have been told that I eat like a man and can easily out eat my bf. but I also workout hard 5 days a week and he doesnt.

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Guys!! IT'S A TRAP!!!

This. Christ Almighty.. It kills me how no one is allowed to have their own opinions. Someone will always have a different opinion on how they feel about something. Why must people criticize?

For me, it's not just about different 'opinions'. It's about equality of the sexes. WHY must we have to have such crazy different standards by which we judge men vs. women? Why in the world do we judge the value of a women based on how much she eats in front of a guy?

I'm not trying to be inflammatory here... but in my opinion, judging a woman based on how much she eats is sexist. I feel annoyed at the men who do it... and I feel sorry for the women who do it.

I really just don't understand why our society must break down something as simple as FOOD and EATING into feminine and masculine qualities. It's just sad.

So yah... I get annoyed by 'opinions' that in anyway suggest that my actions are somehow inappropriate for my sex. That includes eating. That includes science and math.

I mean, we're not talking favorite colors here. We're not talking a preference for cars vs. trucks, high-heels or flats, and so forth... we're not even talking big boobs. I honestly don't have a problem with men liking big boobs or red heads or blondes or whatever. That doesn't bother me. But viewing a woman negatively because she EATS more food than a man? Wow. More than an opinion to me. That's sexism.

And that's my opinion :P

Gosh...I'm coming into this fight kinda late, but I'm going to throw in my two cents: I've always eaten less than my husband. Why? Because he's half a foot taller than me and he's a man. Men NEED more food than women. They have larger stomachs and they use food differently. I always serve him a LOT more food than I serve myself. Sometimes I'll get seconds, but that's rare. Sometimes he won't eat a whole lot. Neither of us (at this point of being together almost 8 years) pays attention to what the other eats. If he were in the same fitness boat as I am, I'd be concerned if he over ate on a regular basis, but he has a very physical job.

For all the women ****ting on the men for their opinions, chill the **** out. Seriously. Everyone has their own preference in a partner. Some men don't give two ****s what their partner eats, some men care. You're not with that man, so why does it matter what he thinks?

My husband is the exact same height and only a few pounds heavier than me. No he doesn't need more food just because he has a penis.

*reads through thread as men get bashed for giving their own personal opinion that they were asked for in the fist place*


Guys!! IT'S A TRAP!!!

This. Christ Almighty.. It kills me how no one is allowed to have their own opinions. Someone will always have a different opinion on how they feel about something. Why must people criticize?

For me, it's not just about different 'opinions'. It's about equality of the sexes. WHY must we have to have such crazy different standards by which we judge men vs. women? Why in the world do we judge the value of a women based on how much she eats in front of a guy?

I'm not trying to be inflammatory here... but in my opinion, judging a woman based on how much she eats is sexist. I feel annoyed at the men who do it... and I feel sorry for the women who do it.

I really just don't understand why our society must break down something as simple as FOOD and EATING into feminine and masculine qualities. It's just sad.

So yah... I get annoyed by 'opinions' that in anyway suggest that my actions are somehow inappropriate for my sex. That includes eating. That includes science and math.

I mean, we're not talking favorite colors here. We're not talking a preference for cars vs. trucks, high-heels or flats, and so forth... we're not even talking big boobs. I honestly don't have a problem with men liking big boobs or red heads or blondes or whatever. That doesn't bother me. But viewing a woman negatively because she EATS more food than a man? Wow. More than an opinion to me. That's sexism.

And that's my opinion :P

PREACH.

If a guy ever made a crack about how much I eat I would not think twice about leaving him alone at the restaurant/house without another word. It would be a deal-breaker for me. That's how whole EDs have started in my family. What I eat can only affect MY calorie count, fella. So don't worry your pretty lil head about it. What kind of insecure, silly little man would even...

This thread has done nothing but breed arguments lol
Lordy lordy.
However, my fiance and I eat very similar portion sizes and he does comment on it. He likes the fact we can go to a sushi restaurant and order an incredible amount of food and be able to enjoy all of it together.
It just depends on the dude. I've dated a lot of guys who have ate less than me and a lot of guys who have ate more than me, and as a few others have said- they DO notice. E-ver-y time.