Are fat thighs a complete turn off?

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  • chris2365
    chris2365 Posts: 76 Member
    If a guy cares, he's not the right guy. But truly what others have indicated, the right guys like women who are comfortable and happy with themselves, even with a few pounds. Having your partner dash to turn out the lights, cover themselves during romantic time, etc. - that's the turnoff. Pretty much be assured that most guys are tickled pink to have the opportunity to be near your thighs, whatever their size!
  • RainxPain
    RainxPain Posts: 152
    My boyfriend says he likes mine. I don't... but it makes me happy that he likes my body.
  • akiramezu
    akiramezu Posts: 278
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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  • FlyeredUp
    FlyeredUp Posts: 632 Member
    The first picture made me start to appreciate my legs. Taken in September 2011.
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    This picture reaffirmed it. Taken April 2012
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    This picture is from last summer....but I think it highlights that I have thick thighs....and they aren't THAT gross! There are more toned now, though.
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    Did I mention i'm 42 :bigsmile: Amazing legs!! Great job.
  • StarvingKyy
    StarvingKyy Posts: 88 Member
    I know exactly how you feel. My thighs are the most embarassing part about me. I hope guys can learn to look past them.
  • mustgetmuscles1
    mustgetmuscles1 Posts: 3,346 Member
    I did not read through all the posts but for me I like a girl that thinks she looks sexy. If she thinks her thighs are big and is self conscious about them and does not want to be naked or spontaneous then that is not attractive to me. My wife had nice big thighs and a big butt to match and I loved every part of her. She is loosing weight with me now and her legs are getting toned and her butt is shrinking and she is even hotter to me now. NOT because she is smaller and more fit but because SHE thinks she is looking better and feels more sexy.
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    I hate fat thighs, especially if they jiggle. Gross. I'm working to make mine smaller
  • gogojodee
    gogojodee Posts: 1,243 Member
    To me: Yes. I have a problem with them touching, I don't think they were/are supposed to. I have a small slender frame and I know when I have extra weight around there and the waist - I look boxy. I'm also short so yeah. Some women can pull it off, I know I can't.
  • GO_NadZ_xO
    GO_NadZ_xO Posts: 445 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
    I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.
  • HorrorChix89
    HorrorChix89 Posts: 1,229 Member
    That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
    I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.
    Bahahahahahahaha:laugh:
  • Asuhoru
    Asuhoru Posts: 8
    Oh hell no.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Women, when will you stop listening to fashion/fitness magazines?

    the girls from our magazines on all of yall's cars and motorcycles, ya know. Plus dotting the field in pro sports. Plus breaking necks when they walk past. Its not just magazines. We hear what men say and watch where their eyes are drawn to.

    Its not us obsessing over the magazines so much as we are observant about what guys are pulled toward :(

    Yeah that's not true; at least not for all guys. Everyone has their own tastes, and many men have varying tastes. If I said Colombian women are hot, does that mean I'm unattracted to anyone who isn't Colombian?

    my apologies, i did not mean to say All Men Only Want This... what I was attempting to express was that, we (in general) tend to notice what the (general) male population is attracted to and mass actions speak louder than mass words, in general. With exceptions. In America.

    better? lol
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    my thighs are the only thing big enough to balance my popeye calves :-/
  • cynthiaj777
    cynthiaj777 Posts: 787 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.
  • rextcat
    rextcat Posts: 1,408 Member
    no, nither is a fat walet
  • NotGoddess
    NotGoddess Posts: 1,198 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.
    I think she looks great. She obviously worked hard to get that body.
  • rextcat
    rextcat Posts: 1,408 Member
    Women, when will you stop listening to fashion/fitness magazines?

    the girls from our magazines on all of yall's cars and motorcycles, ya know. Plus dotting the field in pro sports. Plus breaking necks when they walk past. Its not just magazines. We hear what men say and watch where their eyes are drawn to.

    Its not us obsessing over the magazines so much as we are observant about what guys are pulled toward :(

    Yeah that's not true; at least not for all guys. Everyone has their own tastes, and many men have varying tastes. If I said Colombian women are hot, does that mean I'm unattracted to anyone who isn't Colombian?

    my apologies, i did not mean to say All Men Only Want This... what I was attempting to express was that, we (in general) tend to notice what the (general) male population is attracted to and mass actions speak louder than mass words, in general. With exceptions. In America.

    better? lol

    alow me to say "WHHHAAAA?"
  • mustgetmuscles1
    mustgetmuscles1 Posts: 3,346 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

    Hating on fat women is not OK but hating on muscular women is? Sad bit of double standards if you ask me.
  • ksavy
    ksavy Posts: 271 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

    Hating on fat women is not OK but hating on muscular women is? Sad bit of double standards if you ask me.

    I got to agree. She looks hot. She is also probably in a cut phase and is not this ripped all the time.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

    that's not very nice, what if someone said that about you :(

    There are kind of men, all kinds of preference and all kinds of sexy. Anyone struggling to getfit should know that by now.
  • jakidb
    jakidb Posts: 1,010 Member
    Sounds like you're a "pear" shape and though it may look nice at times (in clothing), "being" a pear shape has it's "challenges" especially when shopping for clothes and some of us pears just don't "like" it LOL. The best thing would be to keep it toned. I'm a pear shape who hates my thighs. I can do the hips but definitely need to "tighten" up the thighs. I've done some research on how pear shapes should eat and for the most part my findings were plenty of lean protein (they suggest lean turkey and chicken, tuna, and talapia), green veggies, apples, grapefruit, and "berry" type fruit and take in a minimal amt of rice, pasta, and mash potatoes. Excercise is cardio type/aerobics. Good luck!
  • tquig
    tquig Posts: 176 Member
    I'm thinking, if your pants are on they haven't noticed. If your pants are off they don't care.

    Best response ever!
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.
    I always find that girls that come out and say *kitten* like this are the ones that don't want/have any drive to get muscles. She is not disgusting. Maybe it's not your thing but do you have to be such a b*tch about it?

    I know I'd certainly love to have her abs.
  • tquig
    tquig Posts: 176 Member
    She is loosing weight with me now and her legs are getting toned and her butt is shrinking and she is even hotter to me now. NOT because she is smaller and more fit but because SHE thinks she is looking better and feels more sexy.

    This ^^^^^
  • tquig
    tquig Posts: 176 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

    530154_10150666452031824_683431823_9579956_1264353706_n.jpg

    She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.
    I always find that girls that come out and say *kitten* like this are the ones that don't want/have any drive to get muscles. She is not disgusting. Maybe it's not your thing but do you have to be such a b*tch about it?

    I know I'd certainly love to have her abs.

    So would the majority of the guys on this site!
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    Look at all the jelly women hating on the fit chick. Wow, get over it. People look different. I find that attractive and I also find a thick girl attractive. What I don't find attractive is a *****y woman on the internet who says someone's body is "disgusting" because it's not their goal.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
    I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.

    If you have guy friends that have that as a goal body, then your guy friends probably need to aim for a higher bodyweight.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    Look at all the jelly women hating on the fit chick. Wow, get over it. People look different. I find that attractive and I also find a thick girl attractive. What I don't find attractive is a *****y woman on the internet who says someone's body is "disgusting" because it's not their goal.

    This.
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,810 Member
    I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

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    That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
    I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.

    Haha, agree to disagree, because I think that *kitten* is hot!!
  • Emancipated_Tai
    Emancipated_Tai Posts: 751 Member
    I guess it depends on the person. I had a guy recently tell me that a slight "giggle" in the leg is a turn on..First I've heard of it!