He Called me Stupid..is it Emotional abuse?

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  • stebs1984
    stebs1984 Posts: 38
    I havent read the entire thread yet, just the first page and last couple pages.... Surely you have friends nearby you can stay with for the next couple weeks? family even, maybe a coworker or two? You might even be able to strike a deal with a hotel if you have to. I think you need to get out and get out now. If one of my friends were to be treated the way you have been, I would be over there in a heartbeat helping them pack their stuff and give them a place to stay until they get back on their feet. Not only that, i would be by their side while they're at the police station turning the loser in for abuse. Move your stuff out when he isnt home, or have the police be there with you while you move out. This is only going to get worse, so get out now while you're strong enough to leave.
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    If i may chime in here, i started reading this fro mthe back page 19 to the 1st, im confused on what exactly isthe issue here?-Ty enlighten me please
  • SmudgerSmithRhino
    SmudgerSmithRhino Posts: 96
    Hi,

    I'm with Neverstray. If you were my daughter he would so have a shotgun up his *kitten*. Emotional and physical abuse is the same thing and both should result in his *kitten* been dumped *kitten* him off big style. I am sure that there are 100's of bloke on MFP who would support you and treat you like a proper lady.

    I'm ashamed that there are ****head men in this world, but if I ever found out that any of my friends were like this they would be very sorry,

    You are doing the right thing by getting out, sooner rather than later.
  • Margentine
    Margentine Posts: 113 Member
    Hi,

    I'm with Neverstray. If you were my daughter he would so have a shotgun up his *kitten*. Emotional and physical abuse is the same thing and both should result in his *kitten* been dumped *kitten* him off big style. I am sure that there are 100's of bloke on MFP who would support you and treat you like a proper lady.

    I'm ashamed that there are ****head men in this world, but if I ever found out that any of my friends were like this they would be very sorry,

    You are doing the right thing by getting out, sooner rather than later.


    Thank you for your kind words. I have friends that treat me better than this person. I'm just tired of feeling mentaly and emotionaly tired.
    Thanks for your uplifting words indeed.
  • everytree
    everytree Posts: 127
    Not sure where in Canada you're moving to but I'm in Vancouver. Friend me if you want!
  • 42hockeymom
    42hockeymom Posts: 521 Member
    If you were my daughter, I'd have a shotgun up his @$$.

    ^^This! I've got a 21 yo daughter, and a 15 yo daughter. If ever and I mean EVER a man tried to do that to one of them, he'd be toast. And then when my husband came home from being on the road (he's a truck driver) he'd be a greasy spot on the rug. Now, if you've elicited that type of passion from me, and trust me when I say, give me your address........ and you're a stranger..... YOU KNOW THAT THIS IS NOT A GOOD RELATIONSHIP. I get to type all of this, I'm a mom with a lot of miles on me, I'm old, HONEY YOU ARE SO MUCH MORE WORTHY THAN THIS. Pack your stuff and get out, stay with a friend, stay at a hotel, hell, stay at a shelter if you have to because you cannot stay with this *kitten*.
  • stebs1984
    stebs1984 Posts: 38
    Any updates on how you're doing? Hope you're doing well!
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member

    This is what I'm scared about. I get pushed around a lot by my boyfriend, small things that don't hurt like slaps and pinches. Once in a while he covers my mouth so I can't breathe. And it's all done in a joking way (most of the time). But I get worried about this-what if it gets worse later, once I'm much more committed? Thanks for sharing your experience.

    PLEASE, be careful when things are like this. People play around all the time. And a sweet little pinch that does not hurt at all, is likely a love pinch, but there should be little to no pressure, and no power play behind it either, IMHO. But covering your mouth so you cannot breathe, that is a big, huge NO NO. That is unacceptable. That is a threat in my worldview. To me it seems like he's pointing out he has the power, and even over your life. I don't know what to tell you, but this part really does bother me a lot. I'll tell you, if I was going out with someone, and he did that, he'd never do that to me again. It'd be over, period. I sure wish you well.

    Wow, this is true. He actually dumped me last week, thank God! I don't know if I would have ever left, which is completely stupid and makes me feel like I need help. Even with how bad he made me feel about myself, even with all my friends saying I could do so much better, I still wish I was with him. I didn't think I'd ever be once of those girls.
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