Fit Men / Un-fit Women
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is the question one of entitlement? unfit people feeling entitled to find fit people attractive...?
if that's the case and you're a biologist, i think you have a pretty good idea of the answer.
Ehh yea, I mean I have a good idea of what the physical answer is but I'm looking for the psychological answer. Now is the part where I look at all the answers and use my gold panning equipment to sift out all the BS.0 -
I wish men could give birth
Some men wish they could too. I'd have given anything to save my ex from all she went through at the time...plus it's a pretty amazing thing in and of itself.
Wow, I have never heard ANY guy say that! Lol you just won some sort of award. I'm not sure what yet, but you get a trophy ! :bigsmile:
Really??
:noway:
Yes, but I haven't had kids yet, and I don't think the opportunity for that comment has come up for my Husband. I'll ask him tomorrow! LOL
$100 he says exactly what I did.
$100 he tells me he gives birth every morning! :laugh:
Ask him if he gets attached to his food baby before he has to flush it.
Well this went in an interesting-yet-can't-look-away direction...
I am laughing so hard right now0 -
Ok, so this is something I've been thinking about for a very long time now. And since this is primarily a female site, I feel like it's appropriate to ask here. The question is simple yet the answer escapes me.
Why is it that women, overweight women in general, set their preference in men to be strong and fit?
I've seen comments to the effect of, "No six pack, no date" and my man has to have {insert muscle type here}. I bring this up because over the years, I've noticed women, really the entire population, have become bigger and lazier in keeping fit and taking care of themselves. I see a lot of it here but also when out with friends. Most of my friends are female but I would never ask them this.
If men are doing all that they can do to stay healthy by strength training, cardio, diet and active hobbies, why is it that overweight women without an active lifestyle would think that a man like this would be interested in them?
For the most part, I am one of these men. Having to forgive myself for the recent uptick in weight, I am blessed to have found MFP to bring myself back into the big picture and have had great success. Overweight women have been attracted to me all my life but I find no attraction to them so this affects me regularly. Without going into what I find attractive, hopefully I can finally figure out what's going on here.
Please don't be offended by any of these statements or questions; they are intended for educational purposes only and should not be taken personally.
^^ This, PERFECT answer. *applaud*
Yes, it's been stated several times now. The question has evolved over the pages.
Yes and still the best answer I saw :P0 -
Ok, If both sexes are naturally attracted to fit members of the opposite sex, how comes there is so many men on MFP. that state they prefer larger women? Even though every time they post a pic of their celeb crush or what they consider to be their eye candy etc. its always a fit women and never and larger women. At first I thought that they were trying to be White Knights but now i'm not so sure. Is it because men are afraid to say how they truely feel? I mean I know women on MFP are blunt and say exactly what they like and dislike.
I am very curious about this!0 -
Ok, If both sexes are naturally attracted to fit members of the opposite sex, how comes there is so many men on MFP. that state they prefer larger women? Even though every time they post a pic of their celeb crush or what they consider to be their eye candy etc. its always a fit women and never and larger women. At first I thought that they were trying to be White Knights but now i'm not so sure. Is it because men are afraid to say how they truely feel? I mean I know women on MFP are blunt and say exactly what they like and dislike.
I am very curious about this!
good size hips = evolutionary indicator of reproductively successful women? Just throwing **** out there really.
You could also go with that men who have lost weight can maybe relate to a woman who is going through the same struggle of being overweight and/or losing weight.0 -
I mean I know women on MFP are blunt and say exactly what they like and dislike.
Sarcasm at its finest0 -
Because you don't find very good pictures of larger women. There are like 4 attractive ones that are celebrities, and most of what people post are celebrities.
Otherwise they'd have to troll chubby hashtags on tumblr.... and frankly? Most of them are naked.
Also, my husband prefers larger women. He also likes muscular women. Women of all colors. Women with short hair, long hair, big boobs, little boobs, no boobs. If he were to post in a "sexy ladies" thread, he would post a photo of Beyonce as the easiest occasionally meaty celebrity to find who pleasures his eye. That's not to say he wouldn't bang Queen Latifah as well, but it's 10x easier to find a super sexy picture of Beyonce than it is to find one of Queen Latifah.0 -
Ok, If both sexes are naturally attracted to fit members of the opposite sex, how comes there is so many men on MFP. that state they prefer larger women? Even though every time they post a pic of their celeb crush or what they consider to be their eye candy etc. its always a fit women and never and larger women. At first I thought that they were trying to be White Knights but now i'm not so sure. Is it because men are afraid to say how they truely feel? I mean I know women on MFP are blunt and say exactly what they like and dislike.
I am very curious about this!
I think it IS that they are scared to say how they feel. Particularly when it comes to women's feelings, which we've all been taught (even the biggest *kitten* among us) to care for and protect.
That is not to say that they aren't somewhat telling the truth, and for some, I'm 100% sure they're attracted to heavier women...but look at it like this. When I'm asked or butt my nose into one of those threads...I'm ALWAYS honest (to me, lying to save feelings is just hurting them more, later). I say that I'm not normally 'attracted' to heavier women. This doesn't mean that certain heavier women couldn't catch my attention, even to the point where there would be real physical attraction. It means that if I was handed a picture and said yes or no...unless the girl was incredibly pretty and I could see some personality in the photo, I'd probably say no. That stupid 'When did this...become more attractive than THIS?!' picture that's posted up, with four thin women and four heavier women below...well, my preferance is the top left. Like...pretty close to my ideal.
Does this mean I couldn't meet, like, love, marry, and absolutely adore a heavier woman? Nope, it doesn't. And I'd love her body just as much as the thinner womans. But the attraction would HAVE to be there at the start, no matter what her weight. Thinner women just have it easier in that regard, where I'm concerned.
And the point of this long winded post is...90% of guys wouldn't tell you that...for fear of being insensitive. Wheras I feel it's insensitive to lie.0 -
I mean I know women on MFP are blunt and say exactly what they like and dislike.
Sarcasm at its finest0 -
I'm overweight and i find some fit men attractive. However I don't find them attractive enough to date. For me, they're just eye candy. I prefer to have a man that is kinda in between, not heavy and not skinny. Also , I don't think a woman should weigh more than her man. It's not natural. I think that men are just naturally in better shape, not saying that women aren't in shape, as evidenced by the many women that are in shape LOL. But I don't know why many overweight women are attracted to fit men. Maybe it's just their preference. Also, I find it a little unappealing (nicest word i can think of) to see an overweight couple. I've had overweight boyfriends in the past and it's a workout just to hug and cuddle. My belly in the way and his belly in the way. It was just too much. I'm looking forward to not having my belly in the way. THIS IS JUST MY OPINION.0
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It's quite simple:
I've been fit. I've been fat. I've been married. I've been single. I've been pregnant. I've given birth. IT DOESN'T MATTER... My taste in men has never changed. Just because you only saw the "fat" me, you decided that "unfit women" are attracted to fit men. WRONG!! I'm fit now...and I still find that same type of man attractive...0 -
It's quite simple:
I've been fit. I've been fat. I've been married. I've been single. I've been pregnant. I've given birth. IT DOESN'T MATTER... My taste in men has never changed. Just because you only saw the "fat" me, you decided that "unfit women" are attracted to fit men. WRONG!! I'm fit now...and I still find that same type of man attractive...
But your user name is "chasingbabes"
Oh and good answer0 -
Ok, If both sexes are naturally attracted to fit members of the opposite sex, how comes there is so many men on MFP. that state they prefer larger women? Even though every time they post a pic of their celeb crush or what they consider to be their eye candy etc. its always a fit women and never and larger women. At first I thought that they were trying to be White Knights but now i'm not so sure. Is it because men are afraid to say how they truely feel? I mean I know women on MFP are blunt and say exactly what they like and dislike.
I am very curious about this!
I think it IS that they are scared to say how they feel. Particularly when it comes to women's feelings, which we've all been taught (even the biggest *kitten* among us) to care for and protect.
That is not to say that they aren't somewhat telling the truth, and for some, I'm 100% sure they're attracted to heavier women...but look at it like this. When I'm asked or butt my nose into one of those threads...I'm ALWAYS honest (to me, lying to save feelings is just hurting them more, later). I say that I'm not normally 'attracted' to heavier women. This doesn't mean that certain heavier women couldn't catch my attention, even to the point where there would be real physical attraction. It means that if I was handed a picture and said yes or no...unless the girl was incredibly pretty and I could see some personality in the photo, I'd probably say no. That stupid 'When did this...become more attractive than THIS?!' picture that's posted up, with four thin women and four heavier women below...well, my preferance is the top left. Like...pretty close to my ideal.
Does this mean I couldn't meet, like, love, marry, and absolutely adore a heavier woman? Nope, it doesn't. And I'd love her body just as much as the thinner womans. But the attraction would HAVE to be there at the start, no matter what her weight. Thinner women just have it easier in that regard, where I'm concerned.
And the point of this long winded post is...90% of guys wouldn't tell you that...for fear of being insensitive. Wheras I feel it's insensitive to lie.0 -
It's quite simple:
I've been fit. I've been fat. I've been married. I've been single. I've been pregnant. I've given birth. IT DOESN'T MATTER... My taste in men has never changed. Just because you only saw the "fat" me, you decided that "unfit women" are attracted to fit men. WRONG!! I'm fit now...and I still find that same type of man attractive...0 -
Because you don't find very good pictures of larger women. There are like 4 attractive ones that are celebrities, and most of what people post are celebrities.
Otherwise they'd have to troll chubby hashtags on tumblr.... and frankly? Most of them are naked.
Also, my husband prefers larger women. He also likes muscular women. Women of all colors. Women with short hair, long hair, big boobs, little boobs, no boobs. If he were to post in a "sexy ladies" thread, he would post a photo of Beyonce as the easiest occasionally meaty celebrity to find who pleasures his eye. That's not to say he wouldn't bang Queen Latifah as well, but it's 10x easier to find a super sexy picture of Beyonce than it is to find one of Queen Latifah.0 -
Because you don't find very good pictures of larger women. There are like 4 attractive ones that are celebrities, and most of what people post are celebrities.
Otherwise they'd have to troll chubby hashtags on tumblr.... and frankly? Most of them are naked.
Also, my husband prefers larger women. He also likes muscular women. Women of all colors. Women with short hair, long hair, big boobs, little boobs, no boobs. If he were to post in a "sexy ladies" thread, he would post a photo of Beyonce as the easiest occasionally meaty celebrity to find who pleasures his eye. That's not to say he wouldn't bang Queen Latifah as well, but it's 10x easier to find a super sexy picture of Beyonce than it is to find one of Queen Latifah.
I've only dated plus sized gals my whole life, since i was 15....................its just my thing0 -
It's quite simple:
I've been fit. I've been fat. I've been married. I've been single. I've been pregnant. I've given birth. IT DOESN'T MATTER... My taste in men has never changed. Just because you only saw the "fat" me, you decided that "unfit women" are attracted to fit men. WRONG!! I'm fit now...and I still find that same type of man attractive...
A 10 at 10 is still a 10 at 2. :drinker:0 -
Because you don't find very good pictures of larger women. There are like 4 attractive ones that are celebrities, and most of what people post are celebrities.
Otherwise they'd have to troll chubby hashtags on tumblr.... and frankly? Most of them are naked.
Also, my husband prefers larger women. He also likes muscular women. Women of all colors. Women with short hair, long hair, big boobs, little boobs, no boobs. If he were to post in a "sexy ladies" thread, he would post a photo of Beyonce as the easiest occasionally meaty celebrity to find who pleasures his eye. That's not to say he wouldn't bang Queen Latifah as well, but it's 10x easier to find a super sexy picture of Beyonce than it is to find one of Queen Latifah.
I've only dated plus sized gals my whole life, since i was 15....................its just my thing0 -
It's quite simple:
I've been fit. I've been fat. I've been married. I've been single. I've been pregnant. I've given birth. IT DOESN'T MATTER... My taste in men has never changed. Just because you only saw the "fat" me, you decided that "unfit women" are attracted to fit men. WRONG!! I'm fit now...and I still find that same type of man attractive...
A 10 at 10 is still a 10 at 2. :drinker:0 -
It's quite simple:
I've been fit. I've been fat. I've been married. I've been single. I've been pregnant. I've given birth. IT DOESN'T MATTER... My taste in men has never changed. Just because you only saw the "fat" me, you decided that "unfit women" are attracted to fit men. WRONG!! I'm fit now...and I still find that same type of man attractive...
But your user name is "chasingbabes"
Touché0
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