What is a turn off for you ( Male & Female)

Foxypoo61287
Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
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For males & females, I hate smoking. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too. :(
Excessive muscles. Muscles that have muscles that have muscles.
Long beards. Keep it trimmed boys.
Alcoholics. If you can't go out once in your life and not have a drink then there is something wrong.
BAD BODY ODOR! Do something about it.
To much make-up of a female. Im sure you beautiful without all that make-up caked on
Excessive tanning. I do not like carrots!
Drugs. If you do drugs, sorry. Please don't talk to me, Because I won't be interested in you. I've never done drugs and don't plan on doing them either.
Guys who "do" their hair. If it takes you longer than 5 minutes to get ready, uh no thank you.
Liars. 9 times out of 10 I KNOW THE TRUTH & I'm just giving you the oppertunity to tell me the truth.
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  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    You sound a right catch :huh:
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    You sound a right catch :huh:

    HuH?
  • dynamicwon
    dynamicwon Posts: 175 Member
    Liars!!!
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    You sound a right catch :huh:

    HuH?

    Look what you wrote, 90% is you're view on men. Seems a bit of a negative thread really1
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    If they say "I'm calling the cops"
  • seal57
    seal57 Posts: 1,259 Member
    You sound a right catch :huh:

    HuH?

    Look what you wrote, 90% is you're view on men. Seems a bit of a negative thread really1

    It's also my view on women as well as men....Women smokers is not a good look....Same if they are drunk....I hate the smell of smoke and would hate to kiss a smoker....man or woman.....
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    You sound a right catch :huh:

    HuH?

    Look what you wrote, 90% is you're view on men. Seems a bit of a negative thread really1

    7 out of the 11 are both male and female oriented.
    1 is Specifically oriented to females. It states females in it, but the rest are turn offs for both males and females unless stated other wise. And what's it matter if this is a "negative" thread? I was asking what are turnoffs. I'm not bashing men or women. I just don't like these qualities in my friends, or potential boyfriends.
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    If they say "I'm calling the cops"

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • mistikal13
    mistikal13 Posts: 1,457 Member
    Bad teeth...total deal breaker :noway:
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Lack of confidence. If you don't think you're sexy, why should I?
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i couldn't say what my turns offs are, but i'm really attracted to latin looking girls :love: tanned, black eyes and hair
  • TheDoctor90
    TheDoctor90 Posts: 461 Member
    Smoking.
    Bad breath/teeth.
    Bad fingernails.
  • Pengi81
    Pengi81 Posts: 336 Member
    Bad breath
    Bad hygiene
    Compulsive lying
    Smoking
    OTT Recreational drug use
    People who don't tidy up after themselves (OK so my OH is big on this one, but she's none of the others so I let it slide... just!)
  • strongformygirls
    strongformygirls Posts: 8 Member
    Biggest turn off for me... If I see a guy being an *kitten* to someone he obviously doesn't seem to think he needs to respect. This could be anyone he knows or doesn't! If a guy is really respectful to the guy cleaning the restrooms in the cafe we might be grabbing coffee at, he's made good thus far in my book :)
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
    Oh... turn offs. (lets pretend I am single)
    1: Smoking. I won't even contemplate attempting a date if you are a smoker.
    2: Cursing. The occasional curse is acceptable but, a woman who talks like a sailor on shore leave has no class.
    3: Hooker clothing. While I have nothing against the "little black dress" or the ultra sexy sundress, I really dont like the short shorts and the "I am trying too hard" shirts.
    4: Rudeness to servers. While it has been a few decades since I have worked in the industry, I still appreaciate how hard they work. I have a habit of over tipping unless the wait staff is exceptionally rude to me.

    That is all I can really think of.
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    1. People who prove to be uneducated. You may be dumb as a rock, but you don't have to appear to be.
    2. People who "let themselves go". Not physically, but they won't take the time to clean, brush hair, dress appropriately.
    3. Loudness
    4. Arrogance: difference between arrogance and confidence
    5. Disrespect/Rude
    6. Bad table manners
    7. Bad teeth - When people have bad teeth, my eyes focus on them and not the other persons eyes. Drives me insane.
  • CodyAsh
    CodyAsh Posts: 11
    1. Smoking
    2. Duck Faces
    3. Constantly taking pictures of oneself (I love photography though)
    4. Being LOUD!?! gets my blood boiling
    5. Rude to people they've never met
    6. Think their **** doesn't stink
    7. Hmm, I know i'm not perfect but I think I could keep this list up all day :P

    Good thing I got myself a good spouse :)
  • mystiedragonfly
    mystiedragonfly Posts: 189 Member
    - Cruelty is my biggest turn off. If I see any sign of cruelty in a man or a woman, I remove them from my life. I've dealt with too many bullies growing up and in the work place. This includes those people who find it amusing to be "brutally honest" as well. People who take pleasure in finding what hurts someone else's feelings.

    - Extremely Logical people... The people who profess not owning a television (because only unintelligent people watch tv) and only read Nietzsche. Telling others reading is the only intelligent hobby, but only of they are reading certain books.

    - Strangers who hand me Jeni Craig's phone number.

    - The lines:
    --- "I have always had a secret thing for red heads."
    --- "Don't tell anyone, but I love big girls."
    --- "You are very pretty and are so amazing and I love being with you, you're just not my type romantically."
  • iuew
    iuew Posts: 624 Member
    people who constantly brag about situations in which they didn't take any crap from someone or how they got the better of someone.

    people who judge others constantly.

    endless gossip.
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.
  • inked219
    inked219 Posts: 51 Member
    Lying, Cheating, Manipulation, selfishness, and I can't be with someone who's unwilling to compromise. If they're that self centered - then they can go f### themselves.
  • 2143661
    2143661 Posts: 566 Member
    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.
    this is a joke right?
  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    Overall: People who judge others too much. (It's human nature to a degree, but damn....yeah)

    In men: Too much arrogance, & poor taste in music will automatically make me not interested.
  • columbus27
    columbus27 Posts: 178 Member
    Use of a cell phone
  • angryguy77
    angryguy77 Posts: 836 Member
    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.

    This.

    Toned is good, but I don't like definition. For me it takes away the femininity.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    I would say my main turn offs are cocky guys, sloppy drinkers and guys who wax their eyebrows :)
  • Hawksbillus
    Hawksbillus Posts: 128 Member
    Poor posture. I see so many otherwise attractive women who look like they're practicing to develop a hump in later life.
  • DalexD
    DalexD Posts: 236 Member
    Men who botox! Total turn off. And smelly men, too. Not that "just had a workout" sort of smell, the "just had a workout... two days ago" sort of smell.
  • tabinmaine
    tabinmaine Posts: 965 Member
    Long toenails on men or women ( any smidgen of white, small faint line ok)

    Long fingernails on men (anything more than a smidgen of white nail )

    Bad teeth or breath
  • L00py_T0ucan
    L00py_T0ucan Posts: 1,378 Member
    conceit.
    overarching bitterness. <== this can be funny, but it can be tiresome.

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