What is a turn off for you ( Male & Female)
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(Left turn!!)
I would have preferred to see a topic called "What is a turn on for you (Male & Female)"
oooo I think I'll do that now.0 -
Smell of tuna.....0
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HUGE turn on forme is Women who wear Glasses!! I don't know why but I'm going Gaga!0
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(Left turn!!)
I would have preferred to see a topic called "What is a turn on for you (Male & Female)"
oooo I think I'll do that now.
Waiting for it. Lol.0 -
Duck Face.0
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SMOKING, SMOKING, SMOKING!
Did I mention smoking?
An ugly personality with any head games or extreme emotional baggage.0 -
Is this the daily hater post?0
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Wow, it seems some of you are taking this thread as a chance to just lash out at the things about people you hate. This thread is about pet-peeves or turn offs; not personally attacking people who happen to fit into the category of things you don't like. Calling people gross and ugly and making you want to puke is unnecessary and overreacting.
Some people just can't answer a simple question without getting on their soapbox. I'm done checking out this thread.
That's what the OP did in the very first post that started this thread. It was a recipe for disaster from the beginning.
Now some of you think it's ok to bash smokers, or women with muscles. Hey it's just your opinion right? You're allowed to have your own preference, aren't you?
Until something gets said that you don't like. Then there will be calls to shut this thread down. Because you know what's funny? I have not seen one post, not one, saying "Fat women. I think they're gross and they smell. They disgust me. I truly find them to be repulsive."
Still think it's ok because it's just my opinion?
(point of clarification I in no way, shape or form feel like that. Just trying to illustrate a point)0 -
lack of Cleanliness, red eyes, and crying, crying makes me sick I cannot handle a man who cries at the drop of a hat.0
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misogyny
misandry
racism
homophobia
...really any lack of acceptance & compassion for others, whether explicit or implicit ("jokes")
low self-esteem
passivity
egocentricity
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chest hair. and smoking.0
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Poor posture. I see so many otherwise attractive women who look like they're practicing to develop a hump in later life.
LOL This made me just sit upright in my chair. I don't want no hump!0 -
Until something gets said that you don't like. Then there will be calls to shut this thread down. Because you know what's funny? I have not seen one post, not one, saying "Fat women. I think they're gross and they smell. They disgust me. I truly find them to be repulsive."
Still think it's ok because it's just my opinion?
(point of clarification I in no way, shape or form feel like that. Just trying to illustrate a point)
Guess what?!
I am perfectly okay with that.
You know why?!
Bcuz I love myself and who I am and that is just YOUR opinion.
There are many out there that dont think that way and YOUR opinion does not relfect my opinion on myself.
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People who look down on others because of how they look or their background. People who are intelligent who think they are wise.. in my experience if you are arrogant enough to do the above you are not for me!
I love that you made the distinction between wisdom and intelligence. Most people seem to miss this.0 -
I agree. I'm done here. No point in defending myself here.Wow, it seems some of you are taking this thread as a chance to just lash out at the things about people you hate. This thread is about pet-peeves or turn offs; not personally attacking people who happen to fit into the category of things you don't like. Calling people gross and ugly and making you want to puke is unnecessary and overreacting.
Some people just can't answer a simple question without getting on their soapbox. I'm done checking out this thread.
That's what the OP did in the very first post that started this thread. It was a recipe for disaster from the beginning.
Now some of you think it's ok to bash smokers, or women with muscles. Hey it's just your opinion right? You're allowed to have your own preference, aren't you?
Until something gets said that you don't like. Then there will be calls to shut this thread down. Because you know what's funny? I have not seen one post, not one, saying "Fat women. I think they're gross and they smell. They disgust me. I truly find them to be repulsive."
Still think it's ok because it's just my opinion?
(point of clarification I in no way, shape or form feel like that. Just trying to illustrate a point)0 -
Wow, it seems some of you are taking this thread as a chance to just lash out at the things about people you hate. This thread is about pet-peeves or turn offs; not personally attacking people who happen to fit into the category of things you don't like. Calling people gross and ugly and making you want to puke is unnecessary and overreacting.
Some people just can't answer a simple question without getting on their soapbox. I'm done checking out this thread.
That's what the OP did in the very first post that started this thread. It was a recipe for disaster from the beginning.
Now some of you think it's ok to bash smokers, or women with muscles. Hey it's just your opinion right? You're allowed to have your own preference, aren't you?
Until something gets said that you don't like. Then there will be calls to shut this thread down. Because you know what's funny? I have not seen one post, not one, saying "Fat women. I think they're gross and they smell. They disgust me. I truly find them to be repulsive."
Still think it's ok because it's just my opinion?
(point of clarification I in no way, shape or form feel like that. Just trying to illustrate a point)
haha. nice back pedal there.
I think it's one thing to say "i hate smokers" vs "smoking is a turn off for me"
I also think there is a difference between saying "NO FAT CHICKS" vs. "it's a turn off for me when someone doesn't take care of themselves"
For me, the overweight/smoking thing is both part of the same problem: not taking care of yourself. The difference for me, and why smoking is worse, is because smoking actually makes other people sick too.
And people who say they don't like muscles on girls- whateves. To me, thats like saying "I don't like brunettes"...a big glaring WHO CARES.0 -
For males & females, I hate smoking. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too.
I think you look gross too!! For ugly braids and being such an *kitten* hat:)
Just because it is a turn off for you doesn't give you the right to put smokers down and call them gross!!
whoah! Personal attack much???
I see what you're saying but I want to clarify why I don't think the statement was rude.
I waited tables for years. We had a smoking and a non-smoking section. I didn't even have to ASK. I could tell the smokers from the non-smokers 99% of the time. It DOES SOMETHING to your skin. I can't put my finger on it, but it's true. The ONLY time I was wrong was when it was a long time smoker who quit.
Smoking is nasty. It just is. I have lots of friends who smoke. Beautiful people. Nasty habit.
How was the OP's post not a personal attack as well??? I don't really think she is gross at all, It was to prove a point!!
I'm not a smoker and I'm not saying it doesn't stink or that it isn't a bad habbit but it is not okay to say what the OP said.
i hear ya. She/he whoever it was could have had more tact. But i still agree that smokers, generally, smell gross and in fact have a certain unattractive look to them as a result of the bad habit.
But i do think her post was more genericly aimed at a group of people with a habit while your comment was directed at that one person personally.... your attack did seem a bit more personal.
Yes it did but it was more to maybe help OP realize how it feels to be put down regardless of the reason!! Had the same words been posted with a different preface it would have started a **** storm!
Examples (in no way shape or form do I feel this way or think this way)
For males & females, I hate __fat people__. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too
or
For males & females, I hate __skinny people__. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too
or
For males & females, __a certain race__. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too
Those topics would have caused WW3...but because it was only about smokers it is okay???
People need to learn it is okay to give an opinion; it is not okay to call people names or put them down for any reason whatsoever!!0 -
Getting kicked in the shins repeatedly. I hate that.0
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I think outy belly buttons are eeewww.0
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I love people that know how to build Pine Cone Bird Feeders.0
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what do u like then ...we know what u hate..
Agreed. If you really weren't posting the daily hater thread, you would have posted something positive about what you Like without saying a word about the opposite.0 -
Until something gets said that you don't like. Then there will be calls to shut this thread down. Because you know what's funny? I have not seen one post, not one, saying "Fat women. I think they're gross and they smell. They disgust me. I truly find them to be repulsive."
Still think it's ok because it's just my opinion?
(point of clarification I in no way, shape or form feel like that. Just trying to illustrate a point)
Guess what?!
I am perfectly okay with that.
You know why?!
Bcuz I love myself and who I am and that is just YOUR opinion.
There are many out there that dont think that way and YOUR opinion does not relfect my opinion on myself.
:flowerforyou:
Please read again as I clearly stated that was NOT my opinion. I was just trying to illustrate a point.
So you think the "Tattooed women are gross" posts and "Piercings make you look like a tramp" statements are fine? Because they're just someone else's opinion?
I know I sure don't. I love tattoos, piercings, heavy girls, muscled girls, smokers and a whole long list of traits to be honest. I think that a thread listing superficial things we dislike in other people is only going to serve to make other people feel bad about themselves. It helps no one and is nothing more than b!tching, whining and bullying.
"Your opinion" does not give you the right to talk S on someone else. Or if you do at least don't be shocked when you hear back from the people you just called disgusting and gross.0 -
Lying
Not being fully self supporting
Cheating0 -
Being fake. Being nice only to get something. I can tolerate a lot but I don't care for a lady who is fake or has an "agenda".0
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I love that MFP can provide detailed instructions on how to turn members on.I love people that know how to build Pine Cone Bird Feeders.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/409529-pine-cone-bird-feeder0 -
For males & females, I hate smoking. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too.
Excessive muscles. Muscles that have muscles that have muscles.
Long beards. Keep it trimmed boys.
Alcoholics. If you can't go out once in your life and not have a drink then there is something wrong.
BAD BODY ODOR! Do something about it.
To much make-up of a female. Im sure you beautiful without all that make-up caked on
Excessive tanning. I do not like carrots!
Drugs. If you do drugs, sorry. Please don't talk to me, Because I won't be interested in you. I've never done drugs and don't plan on doing them either.
Guys who "do" their hair. If it takes you longer than 5 minutes to get ready, uh no thank you.
Liars. 9 times out of 10 I KNOW THE TRUTH & I'm just giving you the oppertunity to tell me the truth.
I swear you stole the words out of my mouth.0 -
How do you define a soulmate?
I don't know.. Let me try......
6'2" 200lb JACKED
I can wash my laundry on his six or 8 pack of abs, and he does all my housework in an apron and tight boxer/briefs.
Kidding of course!
Turn offs- Smoking, excessive complaints, negativity towards others who are different.
Turn ons- Check out my guy friends on MFP and you'll see what a turn on is!!! 0 -
And this is where I remind everyone that my dog eats her poop sometimes.0
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I can't effing stand Tattooed Teenaged Alien Fighters from Beverly Hills....
I see them hanging out at the convenience store sometimes and RRRGHGHGH *strangling motion*0 -
Wow, it seems some of you are taking this thread as a chance to just lash out at the things about people you hate. This thread is about pet-peeves or turn offs; not personally attacking people who happen to fit into the category of things you don't like. Calling people gross and ugly and making you want to puke is unnecessary and overreacting.
Some people just can't answer a simple question without getting on their soapbox. I'm done checking out this thread.
Then the OP should not have been so anti-smoker, anti-alcoholic (it IS a disease), anti-muscles... Yes, this is the daily hater post.0
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