Men what are u looking for in a women

Papalov100
Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
edited December 21 in Chit-Chat
men so answer the question above
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  • rwinnie2
    rwinnie2 Posts: 59 Member
    Ok I'm not a man so I'm not going to answer the above question, however I would say this really depends on the man, the loser just warns your money, the control freak wants you to obey his every whim, and the womaniser just wants one thing.

    If your asking if there are any decent men out there the answers yes, I married one of them, but he was the shy quiet type who looked nothing like the kind of guys I usually went for, but I fancied him and thought he would do till something better came along so I chased him. We have been married twelve years because I soon realised I was not going to get better than him.

    So widen your horizons in what you want you man to look like but don't drop your standards of how you want to be treated, happy hunting xxx
  • gerard54
    gerard54 Posts: 1,107 Member
    first off is a pretty face, the rest really doesnt matter haha jk... :flowerforyou:
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    <~~ Found her
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.
  • stebs1984
    stebs1984 Posts: 38
    Aight, i'll play....

    Fun personality
    Decent looks help
    Common sense
    Able to support themselves
    Sense of humor
    Playful
    friendly
    Non-smoker, no drugs either
    Plenty of self esteem and self confidence
    Not super jealous
    Trustworthy

    I'll start with that....
  • marketdimlylit
    marketdimlylit Posts: 1,601 Member
    <~~ Found her

    Awww.
  • chrisrollins1
    chrisrollins1 Posts: 56
    I want a woman to be confident and driven. I either want you to be established, happy and confident in your chosen career, or have pre-defined goals with a plan and the drive to actually accomplish those goals. I want to be a gentleman and do things for you out of kindness, but I don't want to HAVE to do things for you because you can't or won't. I want a woman to actually care about herself in the present, and not dwell on past mistakes or misfortunes.
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    Most will say, Teeth, boobs, a**... pigs :grumble:

    Then agian, I am not "looking", so friendship is the only thing I wish for
  • nlawing
    nlawing Posts: 36
    3 things assuming physical attraction is a given...

    -Integrity (which includes being honest, trust-worthy, and loyal)
    -Giving attitude
    -Flexible attitude

    That's it. Simple.
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Pretty.
    Intelligent.
    Fun to be with.
    Nice *kitten*.

    Found her already.
  • RollinDawg
    RollinDawg Posts: 235 Member
    Pulse?
  • Moviedust
    Moviedust Posts: 110
    Lol hilarious!
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
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  • shanae727
    shanae727 Posts: 546 Member
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.

    I think that's what every man wants....

    .....the bacon nice and crispy!
  • BigMike915
    BigMike915 Posts: 112 Member
    Good Looking.
    Intelligent- Don't have to be a rocket scientist, just not completely dumb.
    Must be able to cook.
    Must enjoy or at least can tolerate the same hobbies that I am in to.
    Not be very high maintenance.
    Have goals in life.

    hmmm.... maybe that's why I'm still single, I'm too picky. Oh well I enjoy the single life!
  • BlackmetalCoffee79
    BlackmetalCoffee79 Posts: 108 Member
    Smart, sense of humor, and willing to put up with me is key.

    And looks are highly opinionated of course, but i also must find her attractive on some level. :wink:
  • jdploki70
    jdploki70 Posts: 343
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.

    I think that's what every man wants....

    .....the bacon nice and crispy!
    No, no, bacon should have some chew to it. Otherwise it's just salty powder. And it should be baked, in the oven, not flambeed on a skillet.
  • ssilvey726
    ssilvey726 Posts: 107 Member
    Of course everyone wants to have at least some level of physical attraction, but if you take that out of the equation:

    - Intelligence
    - Wit/Sarcasm
    - Common Interests

    The most important thing for me, personally, is to have someone that motivates me to become a better person. I often times struggle with doing things that better myself, unless I feel like someone is pushing me in the right direction. If someone is pushing me, it makes it so much easier to make the right choices and decisions with my life.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Cold hard cash, and lots of it.
  • C00lCountry
    C00lCountry Posts: 282
    Some one I can be around most of my life and not want to harm.
    Some one that can talk freely and openly with about everything.
    I found her 24 years ago.
  • CalJur
    CalJur Posts: 627 Member
    Two things immediately: sex appeal (sorry I don't care what anyone says it is the first thing you notice before they say a single word) and smarts. Beyond that a potential soul mate whom you adore and adores you back.
  • MattTheWaterRat
    MattTheWaterRat Posts: 167 Member
    Clean :tongue:
  • ashlinmarie
    ashlinmarie Posts: 1,263 Member
    Two things immediately: sex appeal (sorry I don't care what anyone says it is the first thing you notice before they say a single word) and smarts. Beyond that a potential soul mate whom you adore and adores you back.

    Some women would take this offensively, but I'm glad you were honest. If you aren't sexually attracted to a woman, a relationship can not work long term. She doesn't have to act like a porn star to have sex appeal (unless that is the sort of think you're into). ;P

    Like, I personally find intelligence sexy. When my husband starts talking his nerdy things to me, I can't help but jump on him ;) Physically, he is not my normal type but we fit together intellectually, emotionally, and sexually so I find myself being physically attracted to him as well.
  • ElementalEscapee
    ElementalEscapee Posts: 552 Member
    one that doesn't talk.

    Good luck. Haha.
  • HipsBreastsandMore
    HipsBreastsandMore Posts: 51 Member
    Two things immediately: sex appeal (sorry I don't care what anyone says it is the first thing you notice before they say a single word) and smarts. Beyond that a potential soul mate whom you adore and adores you back.

    Basically he is looking for a freak in the sheets, and a lady in the streets! Gotcha.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Looking for one with daddy issues:flowerforyou:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Looking for one with daddy issues:flowerforyou:

    Follow me around for awhile...I seem to be able to sense every one of them within a 10 mile radius.
  • snoopytwins
    snoopytwins Posts: 1,759 Member
    Looking for one with daddy issues:flowerforyou:

    Follow me around for awhile...I seem to be able to sense every one of them within a 10 mile radius.
    :laugh:
  • nas24
    nas24 Posts: 880 Member
    one that doesn't talk.

    Good luck. Haha.

    Can i get a guy that doesn't talk???? Silence, thats all i want about 90% of the day
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    one that doesn't talk.

    Good luck. Haha.

    Can i get a guy that doesn't talk???? Silence, thats all i want about 90% of the day

    I'm comfortable with silence, but you're married, and my ego wouldn't be allowed out of the bedroom...so we would never work.../sigh!

    :heart:
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