Sexual benefits of major weight loss?

Sarah_Wins
Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
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Mods, this is a serious question, so please don't shut me down! After losing a great deal of weight, I'm looking forward to better sex. I'd like to hear what changes or benefits you noticed after losing weight. Some are obvious, like confidence, energy, and stamina. What else??
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  • tuiccim
    tuiccim Posts: 689 Member
    Seriously, Mods, don't close this. I want to hear this also.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    You can handle a wider range of positions.
  • pduckworth
    pduckworth Posts: 133
    More flexibility and more strength that comes with going to the gym should lead to more choices in your sex life.
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    Confidence, better/different positions, and, for the fellas, the penis usually appears bigger because there isn't as much fat in the area.
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    Many men experience an increase in length. Some also, depending on blood pressure changes, experience stronger erections as well.
  • thomassd1969
    thomassd1969 Posts: 564 Member
    My finacee was over 350lbs he is 6 ft 5in also, he lost 40lbs plus and the length increased- no joke.
  • phillieschic
    phillieschic Posts: 615
    It's way easier to be thrown around these days... :drinker:
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    You feel sexier... endurance is a big thing :)
  • Sarah_Wins
    Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
    Bump
  • misschubbybutterfly
    misschubbybutterfly Posts: 75
    After I lost 50 lbs before i was on mfp my sex life did get better. I was more limber, and that paired with yoga ment I could try new positions that I found satisfied both me and my partner. I also felt like I "recovered" faster, so we could go multiple times if I felt the urdge.

    at my highest weight, sex seemed like exersize at times, and I avoided it.

    No more!

    Now if I lost the last few pounds, it might turn into Cirque de Soleil over here

    :P
  • holleysings
    holleysings Posts: 664 Member
    Well, with a stronger core and stronger legs, I am able to do some pretty awesome stuff for as long as I want to. New positions are definitely fun too!
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    i'm hoping to see myself again when i look down...




    i'd put that in the "win" column
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    From a mental perspective, my self esteem had a HUGE boost. I no longer feel disgusted with myself, which was a major turn off.

    From a physical perspective.....I'll just use the word 'bendy' and leave it at that.
  • misschubbybutterfly
    misschubbybutterfly Posts: 75
    From a mental perspective, my self esteem had a HUGE boost. I no longer feel disgusted with myself, which was a major turn off.

    From a physical perspective.....I'll just use the word 'bendy' and leave it at that.

    "bendy"

    LOL that made my morning!
  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,284 Member
    Penetration can be deeper without all the fat in the way.
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    Now if I lost the last few pounds, it might turn into Cirque de Soleil over here

    LOL! I wouldn't recommend selling tickets :wink:
  • blazingmissp
    blazingmissp Posts: 63 Member
    I feel more sexy, and my husband loves it. Before I started my lifestyle change I didn't have the confidence to feel sexy in my own skin. Now with losing the weight, I am feeling so confident. I dress better, look better, eat better, everything is just better including more and better sex.
  • Ephena
    Ephena Posts: 610 Member
    For me my drive has gone through the roof to the point that and I quote "what 6 times last night/this morning wasn't enough?" - I heard that Sunday morning :laugh: :blushing: , plus there's new positions, increased stamina (see first bonus) and a major boost in confidence.
  • DeenaSteelerGirl
    DeenaSteelerGirl Posts: 421 Member
    I want to be touched......looked at... and felt all the time. Even if it is by myself.. My sex drive has went thru the ceiling !
  • GZinSea
    GZinSea Posts: 50 Member
    I'd agree, increased drive and you cant really underestimate the boost in self confidence, lights on, lights off, in the house, on the lawn, who cares?!
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    on the lawn

    Ohrly? :glasses:
  • MzMiller1215
    MzMiller1215 Posts: 633 Member
    I definitely have a LOT more stamina and my legs are so strong that I can uummm....hold certain positions without growing tired after one minute. My husband said I could break a rib with the strength of my thighs. :laugh: Lastly, my drive is through the roof. Not sure if it's because I'm in my 30's but, I can definitely tell a difference.
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    Getting on top with ease. Lots more flexibility. Endurance. And I feel sexy and confident so I act that way. I am not trying to cover this or that because I hate how I look. I like being naked a lot more and can't wait to get even smaller and like it even more.
  • Captain_Tightpants
    Captain_Tightpants Posts: 2,215 Member
    Oh that's an easy one. There is now more room for extra people in the bed.
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,271 Member
    on the lawn

    Ohrly? :glasses:
    Yes of course doesnt every body

    So the ones I could think of were stamina but also recovery. Little to NO recovery is necessary anymore. (if you know what I mean) It think it has a lot to do with the increased heart fitness all the cardio allows more blood to pump to the necessary areas.

    But also the biggest ones were stamina/endurance, increased length, Recovery time, Positional ease, MUCH higher DRIVE
  • ebonijo2
    ebonijo2 Posts: 73
    bump
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    libido, flexibility, stamina, and confidence was all improved, as well as appeal, from the first WEEK of regular exercise/diet
  • Sarah_Wins
    Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
    Penetration can be deeper without all the fat in the way.

    Oh I didn't think of this one!! My favorite bonus so far!
  • Sarah_Wins
    Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
    Oh that's an easy one. There is now more room for extra people in the bed.

    Awesome. Just awesome.
  • MzMiller1215
    MzMiller1215 Posts: 633 Member
    Oh that's an easy one. There is now more room for extra people in the bed.

    :laugh:

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