Sexual benefits of major weight loss?
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Speaking from my own experiences:
*I* feel better about myself. None of my sexual partners have ever been down on me, and have said I am sexy, but I didn't really believe them. Now I am more inclined to. Confidence is sexy.
Not only are there more positions available, I can last longer (stamina wise) in the more...acrobatic ones. Sure I know that the positions were the same when I was bigger, but with the previous observation, *I* feel more confident in various ones.
Pelvic floor toning is gooood. :bigsmile: That led to shall we say, drier sex. Which adds to the first point.
Some, previously neglected, positions are great for ab work.
One of my partners is also on the same weight loss journey, and we fit together MUCH better. This allows for greater closeness/skin contact. Hugs are fully enclosed nowdays.
There is no more of the ..chest bewb squashed under my chin.
If we want to watch, we can, without squishing fat rolls out of the way.
I can go shopping for frilly knickers with confidence that they will fit and *I* will like the way they look on. No more self picking at the fat overhang in various places.
Yeah...weight loss is good for sex. :flowerforyou:0 -
my loads don't smell like gravy anymore.
wait...that's a downside.....hmmmmmmmmm
If you can smell your own loads you are not doing it right. :happy:0 -
Penetration can be deeper without all the fat in the way.
There's just something about that coming from someone your age that gives me the heebee geebies. No offense.0 -
mine was definitely more confident, even tho im still not at my ideal YET0
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OMG! Where do I start!
Flexibility
Endurance
Stamina
Drive
Frustration( cuz you can't get your hubby off you)
Deeper Penetration
Increases metabolism
Burn some calories
Parading around the house naked etc... The list is endless0 -
I wouldn't know yet
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my loads don't smell like gravy anymore.
wait...that's a downside.....hmmmmmmmmm
If you can smell your own loads you are not doing it right. :happy:
wait....so spraying my seed on my instant mashed potaters after the thanksgiving blessing isn't "doing it right"?0 -
In my experience... Stamina & confidence :bigsmile:0
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Positions that used to feel awkward don't feel so awkward anymore.:bigsmile:0
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my loads don't smell like gravy anymore.
wait...that's a downside.....hmmmmmmmmm
If you can smell your own loads you are not doing it right. :happy:
Made me snort!0 -
Your penis will get bigger too. so look forward to that.
I am SO looking forward to my penis getting bigger. Thank you so much.0 -
Bump
Yeah, that, too!
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Getting on top with ease. Lots more flexibility. Endurance. And I feel sexy and confident so I act that way. I am not trying to cover this or that because I hate how I look. I like being naked a lot more and can't wait to get even smaller and like it even more.
Agreed! I recently been able to orgasm without the clitoral stimulation. In the 12 yrs I've been married I've only been able to do that 3 x's and that's after loosing weight! This is a HUGE WIN for both of us!!0 -
Less slapping sound, as flappy belly fat lessens.
Like people are applauding b4 you are done...
This made me LOL so loud my dog came over to check on me...0 -
Same amount of Testosterone as last year, but coursing around 2/3's the body mass = having to do handstands for my morning pish, unless I particularly WANT to redecorate the lavatory ceiling...0
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Now if I lost the last few pounds, it might turn into Cirque de Soleil over here
OMG LMAO!!!0 -
I'm just looking forward to getting noticed again. It's been 4 years
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I'll let you know if I ever have sex again
I can understand where you are coming from. Just good to know I will be ready. May need a younger man :laugh: :laugh: :drinker:0 -
I just joined this site and already can see this site may just be for attention. Time to move on............
Pardon me for raining on your e-universe. Here's how MFP works... if you don't want to read about a certain topic, don't click on that thread. Simple enough, right? Or, like you said, you can always move on. Have an awesome day! :flowerforyou:0 -
Your penis will get bigger too. so look forward to that.
I am SO looking forward to my penis getting bigger. Thank you so much.
My Hotmail always tell me that I should take something for my small penis.... it might be on the small side.0 -
Well... I had 2 orgasms in the 7 years I knew my ex husband. I was obese for most of that time, although I was fit and healthy for the last year and a half or so.
I had HUNDREDS in a 3 1/2 day span over the past weekend.
I am going to say that, for me at least, it made a HUGE difference.
(side note: exercise will make your libido go through the roof)
Nice to hear your situation has improved!0 -
Understatement of the century.Well... I had 2 orgasms in the 7 years I knew my ex husband. I was obese for most of that time, although I was fit and healthy for the last year and a half or so.
I had HUNDREDS in a 3 1/2 day span over the past weekend.
I am going to say that, for me at least, it made a HUGE difference.
(side note: exercise will make your libido go through the roof)
Nice to hear your situation has improved!0 -
Oh that's an easy one. There is now more room for extra people in the bed.
:smokin: Best answer!0 -
you dont get smashed..lol it dont sound like waves smashing together <--- i have never actually expirenced the second one..but i have heard it from the other room once..gross.0
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Penetration can be deeper without all the fat in the way.
There's just something about that coming from someone your age that gives me the heebee geebies. No offense.
Did you even think about how that would come across? Do you not care? That was rude and uncalled for.
I'm with Jac on this one...why would you feel that is necessary?0 -
Understatement of the century.Well... I had 2 orgasms in the 7 years I knew my ex husband. I was obese for most of that time, although I was fit and healthy for the last year and a half or so.
I had HUNDREDS in a 3 1/2 day span over the past weekend.
I am going to say that, for me at least, it made a HUGE difference.
(side note: exercise will make your libido go through the roof)
Nice to hear your situation has improved!
That may not have been my intention. It certainly is a positive change. I'd be celebrating!0 -
Can't comment on this thread. Father-n-law is on my friends lists. Hope you all understand~~0
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I can definitely attest to the fact that the smaller I get, the bigger I get. lol0
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Can't comment on this thread. Father-n-law is on my friends lists. Hope you all understand~~
LOLOLOL Understand COMPLETELY!!!0
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