When You Cry... They Win. Stop.

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  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657
    Sometimes the good guys wear black. And swear a little.

    Anybody else humming the Minor Threat song now? "sometimes good guys don't wear white"

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.
  • Liasings
    Liasings Posts: 150 Member
    Sometimes the good guys wear black. And swear a little.

    Anybody else humming the Minor Threat song now? "sometimes good guys don't wear white"

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.

    Oh, stop, you! :love:
  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657
    Sometimes the good guys wear black. And swear a little.

    Anybody else humming the Minor Threat song now? "sometimes good guys don't wear white"

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.

    Oh, stop, you! :love:

    What can I say. I radiate love.
  • jolarocknrolla
    jolarocknrolla Posts: 236 Member

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.

    Not old punk chicks. I'm sure i could improve my credit score by selling my stacks and stacks of punk 45s ... maybe. And i only bake protein bars.

    COME AT ME BRO.
  • Liasings
    Liasings Posts: 150 Member
    Sometimes the good guys wear black. And swear a little.

    Anybody else humming the Minor Threat song now? "sometimes good guys don't wear white"

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.

    Oh, stop, you! :love:

    What can I say. I radiate love.

    I can tell. :laugh:
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.

    Not old punk chicks. I'm sure i could improve my credit score by selling my stacks and stacks of punk 45s ... maybe. And i only bake protein bars.

    COME AT ME BRO.

    I love it!!
  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657

    ::suddenly feels old::

    Old chicks rule. They bake cookies and have wonderful credit scores.

    Not old punk chicks. I'm sure i could improve my credit score by selling my stacks and stacks of punk 45s ... maybe. And i only bake protein bars.

    COME AT ME BRO.

    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
  • Liasings
    Liasings Posts: 150 Member
    I played Zaxxon, but I liked Defender better.
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
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    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
    [/quote

    :frown: you lost me at "video game"
  • 76wendyful
    76wendyful Posts: 202
    "Hey funny joke. Now, go get a spoon so you can eat my *kitten*."

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    Oh my gosh! I almost spit out my yogurt! This was too funny.
    I wish we could all remember this when we are feeling down!
    Thanks!
  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657

    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
    [/quote

    :frown: you lost me at "video game"
    [/quote]

    It doesn't matter. I'm not really sure what the phrase actually means.
  • jcr85
    jcr85 Posts: 229
    Then why you crying about people crying on these forums?

    Follow your own advice brah...please don't cry about this too
  • Lucie_L00
    Lucie_L00 Posts: 53
    Exactly!! Im not the mushy, crying, need a hug kinda girl. I just say F'k off & move on!
    hahahahaha that made me laugh,,i LOOOOOVE your attitude,,hahahahaha
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  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member

    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
    [/quote

    :frown: you lost me at "video game"

    It doesn't matter. I'm not really sure what the phrase actually means.
    [/quote]

    phew don't have to add this to "things I don't get"
  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657
    Then why you crying about people crying on these forums?

    Follow your own advice brah...please don't cry about this too

    I'm not your brah.

    Next.
  • patchesgizmo
    patchesgizmo Posts: 244 Member
    Actually, when I'm being myself... most people are pissed and/or terrified. ;)

    My goal is to have as many people mad at me as possible, cause then I win.
  • gchutson
    gchutson Posts: 657
    great post. I think it's unrealistic to think that we can be devoid of emotion at all times, and NEVER get hurt by others....BUT...

    It is wise to give yourself about 1.4 seconds to feel that...you know...aknowldedge your feelings and such...then promptly move into "I don't give a ****" territory.

    I never said "devoid of emotion." I'm teaching people to not let it control them.

    Good morning btw...
  • Ok, tough-love time...

    I've seen string-after-string of "whining" and "crying" about the things other people say.

    Examples:
    - "They insulted me."
    - "They hurt my feelings."
    - "They made me sad."

    Here's a few steps to help some of you guys with the crushing things other people say...

    Step 1: Stop giving a *kitten* what other people think.
    Step 2: Repeat Step 1.

    Now I have no doubt, a handful of people will be morally outraged by what I just typed.
    Please reference Steps 1 through 2.

    (I'm sure a few of you have seen me post that on other strings)

    When you get "offended," "hurt," "insulted" and "morally outraged," you've already lost the battle, because you granted the other party all the power before you even got started. When you run to your blog or forum to e-whine about how "that big mean person made you saddy-sad," they win. And you helped them to do it.


    - When you cry, they win.
    - When you're "emotionally devastated," you give them all the power.
    - When you're the "victim," you make them the "victor."

    Don't let them win.



    this has been motto for a long time now, who cares what other ppl think-
    i have been teaching my kids that from day one ppl who put you down and say the mean hateful things they say to you, are only a reflection of the way they feel about themselves and there problems they dont want others to see.....
    my 6 year old was on the bus and a boy told her she was ugly and fat the bus driver said she was gettting ready to get on to the boy because she thought my girl was going to cry, my girl...smiled looked him dead in the face busted out laughing and said "we both know thats a lie, why you mad bro....."
  • anakinlover
    anakinlover Posts: 109
    "Hey funny joke. Now, go get a spoon so you can eat my *kitten*."

    This wins the internet. lmao

    Agreed! I about peed!
  • Liasings
    Liasings Posts: 150 Member
    The goal is for you to HAVE emotions, not let them have YOU.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    When you're the "victim," you make them the "victor."

    My favorite part!
  • Lucie_L00
    Lucie_L00 Posts: 53
    When you're the "victim," you make them the "victor."

    My favorite part!
    OUUUUuuuuuu i like that one!!!!
  • athminbri
    athminbri Posts: 51 Member
    I used to try to please everyone. Then, stuff like this would happen and upset me so much. Someone finally told me "it is none of my business what you think of me." I have loved that quote ever since. It is true! If someone has a problem with me, it is THEIR problem.

    Connie
  • verptwerp
    verptwerp Posts: 3,628 Member
    Years ago I was one of those people ......... now I just say "eat **** & die" ...... if you don't like me, that sucks for you .....

    (And I have a whole new relationship with my husband these days LOL)

    Thank you, OP !
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member

    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
    [/quote

    :frown: you lost me at "video game"

    It doesn't matter. I'm not really sure what the phrase actually means.

    phew don't have to add this to "things I don't get"
    [/quote]

    Would it make you feel better to know, I didn't get it either? LOL
  • skullik
    skullik Posts: 142 Member
    When you're the "victim," you make them the "victor."

    My favorite part!

    This!
  • histora
    histora Posts: 287 Member
    Y'know, I wanted to pick this apart and hate it, but I can't.

    It's all true, and a lesson it took me forever to learn. But there is nothing quite as satisfying as watching someone try and get at you because you aren't responding to their attacks anymore. Eventually they get baffled and wander away with their own self-esteem issue because they suddenly feel weak and powerless.

    Well, that, and no one can quite attack me like my own inner *****kitty, so what people say about me and to me matters less and less after having to listen to the raging c--t inside.

    I might send this to a few folks I know who wave the "perpetual victim" banner high and proud.
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member

    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
    [/quote

    :frown: you lost me at "video game"

    It doesn't matter. I'm not really sure what the phrase actually means.

    phew don't have to add this to "things I don't get"

    Would it make you feel better to know, I didn't get it either? LOL
    [/quote]

    Yes I like to feel like I'm not alone :wink:
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member

    IT'S ON LIKE ZAXXON! (For you tween larvae born after Regan, Zaxxon is a video game.)
    [/quote

    :frown: you lost me at "video game"

    It doesn't matter. I'm not really sure what the phrase actually means.

    phew don't have to add this to "things I don't get"

    Would it make you feel better to know, I didn't get it either? LOL

    Yes I like to feel like I'm not alone :wink:
    [/quote]

    Good, me too! BTW...I love your profile picture!
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