Magic Mike vs A Gentleman's Club

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  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
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    Depending on the person and their partner, either activity could be problematic.

    I'm going to Vegas this weekend for a bachelor party. I'm going to get dances, I'm going to get drunk and rowdy, I'm likely going to flirt, but I'm not going to cheat. I love my wife, she trusts me, and we've already talked it over and laid out ground rules.

    Discussing what is and isn't ok with your partner ahead of time is the key (and maybe reconsidering the relationship if those ground rules are too constricting).

    Do I think they're the same thing? No. But I've also seen chicks claim that watching porn is tantamount to cheating, or if you've seen Knocked Up apparently fantasy baseball and going to see Spiderman 3 alone is even worse than cheating.

    It's your mouth...use it. No not that way you damn perverts.
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
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    I LOVE the guys who go to the club with their girl, and that he makes her feel secure enough with herself not to worry about the flesh dancing all around.... but it's more guys who pay 50+ bucks to buy you a steak dinner, or a bottle of champagne, but haven't had a nice date with their wife in forever.... Guys behave diffent with the neon-strobe lights and g-strings than they do around their wives in daylight.... awoman watching a movie just DOES NOT EQUATE!!!

    I love how women make sweeping generalizations about men to prove their point. [/ironic_comment]
  • cheekydeeky
    cheekydeeky Posts: 146 Member
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    the movie had a plot. minus the stripping and hot actors. there was actually a point to the story. so let's unwad our panties and relax.....
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,311 Member
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    I am a very jealous wife, who'd NEVER let her man go to a gentleman's club! I know most clubs have a 'no-touching' rule, but for me it's more I fear what's happening inside his head! I don't want him to be thinking like that about other chicks!!

    *I'm a former dancer, at said Gentleman's club, and I know first-hand how skeezy those guys can be... When the cat's away, the mice WILL play.... Atleast Magic Mike is just a movie! Not someone your wife could actually talk to, or try to have a connection to....!!

    I like your response...My question then is, Aren't those same things going through your head. Sure Channing and Matthew are "untouchable" but the thoughts still occurred. right?

    No, actually. There is no actual teptation because there is no POSSIBILITY of gratification. Actions > thoughts ... come on now, you seem to be ignoring anybody who isn't saying what you want to hear. Troll harder ;p

    Im not trolling I guess I just dont see them as a temptation. There is ZERO interest in a professional dancer but I guess that's just me.
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,311 Member
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    the movie had a plot. minus the stripping and hot actors. there was actually a point to the story. so let's unwad our panties and relax.....

    Serious were you directing this at me? I just posted it to have fun I dont care one way or the other...you might need to unwad your panties though you seem to be wound a little tight.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    No matter how hot you are when you go see Magic Mike, none of the actors know you are there and arent performing for you. When I go to strip club, they can see my face and its back and forth even without the touching, and hey, if you're hot enough, sometimes they come talk to you after their shift is over, especially the morning shift girls, who are some of the nicest, sweetest- most intelligent girls Ive ever encountered there.

    in other words, strip club > strip movie
  • cheekydeeky
    cheekydeeky Posts: 146 Member
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    LET him go to a gentlemans' club? if the man wants to go i'm sure he's going to go.... and as far as the money hungry chicks..there are some nasty guys in there feeding them...

    I am a very jealous wife, who'd NEVER let her man go to a gentleman's club! I know most clubs have a 'no-touching' rule, but for me it's more I fear what's happening inside his head! I don't want him to be thinking like that about other chicks!!

    *I'm a former dancer, at said Gentleman's club, and I know first-hand how skeezy those guys can be... When the cat's away, the mice WILL play.... Atleast Magic Mike is just a movie! Not someone your wife could actually talk to, or try to have a connection to....!!

    PLUS there's some skanky chicks in those clubs, who LOVE being skanky... Magic Mike is nowhere near as threatening as a money-hungry chick could be!!!!
  • SnarkyJo
    SnarkyJo Posts: 18 Member
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    the movie had a plot. minus the stripping and hot actors. there was actually a point to the story. so let's unwad our panties and relax.....

    It really did. I enjoyed the movie. I enjoyed ALL aspects of the movie.
  • cheekydeeky
    cheekydeeky Posts: 146 Member
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    did i say that it was at you? but if the shoe fits...
    the movie had a plot. minus the stripping and hot actors. there was actually a point to the story. so let's unwad our panties and relax.....

    Serious were you directing this at me? I just posted it to have fun I dont care one way or the other...you might need to unwad your panties though you seem to be wound a little tight.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,198 Member
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    He can put $1's in a girl's thong & I can't put them in Channing Tatum's! The injustice of that makes me die a little inside...
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 2,073 Member
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    I really wanted to have something to say in this thread, but I don't think I have a point to make or argue with. That said, I could use a few singles right now. Maybe I should set up a paypal account on MFP.
  • mslack01
    mslack01 Posts: 823 Member
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    It's the same. Maybe the person who posted has never set foot in a gentleman's club. I don't know why so many women feel threatened by it. I don't like my hubby to go without me, but its only because I want to go too. LOL
  • wesH
    wesH Posts: 19
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    I'm seeing a lot of insecurity in this thread.
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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    He can put $1's in a girl's thong & I can't put them in Channing Tatum's! The injustice of that makes me die a little inside...

    i find it heartbreaking that either of you would want to put $1's in anyone else's thongs but each others. That's the injustice.
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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    I'm seeing a lot of insecurity in this thread.

    yup! guilty!
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,311 Member
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    I'm seeing a lot of insecurity in this thread.

    True Dat!
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
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    Any ladies here ever been to that kind of show or a ladies lockup? The strippers will touch you. They will let you touch them. They pick women up off the floor. They put it right in your face. It's graphic.
    Now are you going to let you wife go to that?

    Eta: I don't like the craziness of the women with male strippers. You would think these women have never been allowed in public before. But personally I don't care either way if my man goes to the nudie bar. I will even go with him. It's easier for him to pick up women at a bar than a strip club.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
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    The boys in the movie are probably more attractive than the gals in a strip club. They are actors after all.

    And I've totally been to a strip club with the husband before. Fun times.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Rent Showgirls and call it even. Though you might get nauseous from the horribleness.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,198 Member
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    Rent Showgirls and call it even. Though you might get nauseous from the horribleness.

    Mute it & put on some music...problem solved :flowerforyou:

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