Cleavage, inappropriate or fine?

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  • girlyathlete21
    girlyathlete21 Posts: 150 Member
    I have smaller boobs and dont see any problem... They sound like haters!!!
  • MoveTheMountain
    MoveTheMountain Posts: 764
    Lately, throughout the summer, I've been wearing yoga pants and a low cut top. It's comfortable and doesn't make me melt with the heat of the summer, my problem is people seem to get pissed off that I'm showing cleavage....

    Who are these people who are getting pissed? Women, I'm betting, and not men. For some reason, there are a lot of women who don't like it when other women have something that stands out - especially if it's something that is going to attract a guy's attention.

    Personally, cleavage rocks, and the more the merrier. (And I'm one of the few guys without a breast thing - I'm rarely the first person to notice. I'm more of a 'great smile and nice hair' guy than a breast guy.)
  • WickedSpinSistr
    WickedSpinSistr Posts: 139 Member
    Of course it's fine to show cleavage at the beach. It's the beach! People were BIKINIS to the beach!

    I wish I had cleavage. I wouldn't keep it a secret. :)
  • AnitaVolpato
    AnitaVolpato Posts: 204 Member
    I am a 36 DDD and no one has ever said anything negative to me about my cleavage. I monitor the girls very closely because I know what happens when people in America see a boob, they flip out (Janet Jackson anyone)... ha ha ha. I wear v necks a lot and even sun dresses. If people have been bothered or even noticed I haven't paid any attention because I don't look for their approval anyway. If a woman gives you crap for your ta ta's she is more than likely upset with her skeeter bites. There are haters everywhere honey! They will get over themselves...

    P.S. It's not flaunting.. They are there... no matter what. Should we wear an ace bandage to be like everyone else... no? They are hard to hide without looking like you are 100 lbs over your weight...
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    I am a 40 DD and I usually have cleavage goin on...as long as it's not in the workplace, I don't see the problem. If you've got it, flaunt it...tastefully!! :tongue:
  • curryinahurry
    curryinahurry Posts: 83 Member
    i am also a 38DD but am conservative..

    but if you want to show them off in your yoga class go for it

    you already said its not at work or anything

    and if people have a problem thats too damn bad
  • iluvprettyshoes
    iluvprettyshoes Posts: 605 Member
    I used to really try hard to keep covered always- at the gym, even wearing a coverup on the beach.

    Then realized that many ladies that got boob jobs are showing off theirs on every possible occasion (and rightly so as much as they pay). But I figured, if I got them why try so hard to hide them?

    I don't "flaunt" them so to say but I wear regular tank tops and what's comfortable in the heat so if they peek out then so be it.
    If that ticks anyone off then they haven't said anything to me.
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
    I'd show mine.. but its hard to find a bra where the wires don't rip out my chest hair.......
  • philOHIO
    philOHIO Posts: 520 Member
    so why does your profile pic show a cartoon animal?
  • bm99
    bm99 Posts: 597 Member
    1. Nobody is jealous.

    2. Do what you want.

    3. Don't complain when people make assumptions about you based on how you're dressed.
  • _JamieB_
    _JamieB_ Posts: 417 Member
    If its inappropriate I'm in trouble!!
  • paulaviki
    paulaviki Posts: 678 Member
    As a fellow big busted woman I do find it hard to find tops which don't show off my cleavage! I don't like wearing tips that are too high necked as I feel like it just makes me look even bigger on top. That said know when a top is suitable for work and when it's just that bit too low! I guess it's a personal thing, if you feel comfortable then carry on!
  • AnitaVolpato
    AnitaVolpato Posts: 204 Member
    1. Nobody is jealous.

    2. Do what you want.

    3. Don't complain when people make assumptions about you based on how you're dressed.


    Seriously? I don't think she was talking about being hoochied out ready to pop bottles in the club. She was talking about a regular every day outfit.
  • PJ_73
    PJ_73 Posts: 331 Member
    My cleavage is often inappropriate. Wholly inappropriate.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    you can never go wrong with tits.
    tits make any situation better.
    yay tits.


    pics would be good to help us form a rock solid opinion. rock. solid.
  • classic_1
    classic_1 Posts: 147
    *raises hand* I always support the boobies movement lol
  • classic_1
    classic_1 Posts: 147
    you can never go wrong with tits.
    tits make any situation better.
    yay tits.


    pics would be good to help us form a rock solid opinion. rock. solid.


    haha I second this
  • bm99
    bm99 Posts: 597 Member
    As a fellow big busted woman I do find it hard to find tops which don't show off my cleavage! I don't like wearing tips that are too high necked as I feel like it just makes me look even bigger on top! That said know when a top is suitable for work and when it's just that bit too low! I guess it's a personal thing, if you feel comfortable then carry on!

    I think the amount of cleavage you're showing in your profile pic is appropriate. It just looks like you have big boobs that don't quite fit in your top.

    The only time I look twice is when the shirt is obviously a size too small and is paired with a pushup bra. That, to me, sends all the wrong signals (or all the right ones, I guess, depending on what you are trying to say with your outfit).
  • MelissaE27
    MelissaE27 Posts: 682 Member
    I have a huge chest and Im sorry just cant hide it.. its there.. so no its not inapporpriate.. if people dont like it.. then they can look the other way..lol
  • cardiokitten
    cardiokitten Posts: 401 Member
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  • megsi474
    megsi474 Posts: 370 Member
    INAPPROPRIATE.

    Oh, whoops... :bigsmile:
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    I have a sexy sternum and pectoral muscles...
  • myfitnessval
    myfitnessval Posts: 687 Member
    As a 38D myself (DD just last month lol) I have given up on caring what the F people think of my boobs. THEYRE HERE. THEYRE BIG. GET OVER IT. lol Just as long as you know the lines of appropriateness, like no showy boobs in church or at work and we're good. If people don't like it, they can look elsewhere because I've seen way too many plumbers cracks and muffin tops and I got over it lol.
  • AnitaVolpato
    AnitaVolpato Posts: 204 Member
    I have a huge chest and Im sorry just cant hide it.. its there.. so no its not inapporpriate.. if people dont like it.. then they can look the other way..lol

    Amen!
  • Pedal_Pusher
    Pedal_Pusher Posts: 1,166 Member
    Cleavage is ALWAYS welcome. Always.
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
    I feel suffocated if I wear anything that is too high-necked, so there's always some amount of cleavage visible for me. If it's not acceptable for you, don't look. =B
  • gombolyu
    gombolyu Posts: 136 Member
    I wear 34 F bra now, and if I want to be appropriate, that means I should cover almost 70% of it. So a B cup is out anyway.:D
    For me it depends on the occasion, and my mood. Sometimes I don't care, when I am watched, sometimes can be fun, but sometimes I really hate it. So my choice depends on me. When I think that I can't handle it, I cover myself more. But when the weather is so hot as now, than I wear the less clothes possible.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Don't like it, don't look!


    ^^^^ yep!

    What's more important, is the appropriateness of the yoga pants. Some people (like me, of course), should go to jail for wearing them out the front door...others, should go to jail for wearing anything else :).
  • faefaith
    faefaith Posts: 433 Member
    As a fellow 38DD'er, my advice is to rock it. Its about what makes you feel good/strong/beautiful/any-other-adjective-that-brings- the-good-feelings-your-way. Just remember, own it sister.

    As a whole, we are pretty prudish over here in America, so go ahead and pretty up the place! :happy:
  • SandySto721
    SandySto721 Posts: 3
    I am not sure why you would even care what we think. If you are comfortable then do what you are comfortable with. I always try to check my motives to see if I really am doing something because I want to or am I doing it to be noticed or get a reaction.

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